Taani making a mistake?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I'll cut to the chase here..I fell that Taani is making a mistake by still keeping in touch with Neelu maa and the family.😳 I mean, I know she has a special bond with the family, but that doesn't mean she goes against her own mother for them. She's not getting anything in the end too..the freakin' family gives her like cold stares and shoulders! ): that's not the point though..I feel she's making a mistake, she lied to her mom about not going into the house, that act of hers will have grave consequences. She doesn't realize it yet..that just gives another excuse to Shekar and Annanya to insult Taani's mother and brother. She made a promise to her dada and mom about not talking to any of them..and she broke both of them. I'm happy that she's talking to Onu..but the fact that she's doing the wrong thing is bugging me alot. 🤔 She's not even thinking about how bad her mom is going to feel once she finds out. In this case..I think I agree with Taposh, Taani cannot forget the insults that her family had to suffer. ): and the bad thing is..Neelu maa didn't do anything at the time. I started disliking her character the second she told Laboni maa to get out of the house..I really felt then that she shouldn't have been forgiven but *sigh* she was. Whatever..that ended then, but I really can't see how Taani doesn't remember all of the things that they were accused of. Isn't it a matter of self-respect? going to the same house in which you were insulted is like degrading yourself isn't it?

and it's still making me really sad to see the way she feels all happy/mushy whenever she sees Onu. uggghhhh. I hope that Nupur never shows up and that Ony magically realizes his love for Taani. ): 😆 Ekta ji..listen to usssss!!

and OMG. that hum hain iss pal yahan just irked the hell outta me today. Why oh why would you use that song in this show? the CVs really need to think before doing this again!! :P

lol..that's it..I just wanted to vent someplace..😆 thanks for reading. hahaa.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I absolutely agree.Infact,we'd a hot discussion goin'-on abt this at our place,last night.Me and mum were in one team,and the 2nd team had my elder sister alone.Actually,she's the one who's super-duper sensitive types.She takes everything to her heart.
So,I actually kinda supported Taposh(though,I dun' really lyk him),during yesterday's arguments,after the rain sequence.Well,I thought she should've cared abt her mother,atleast.No matter what,she might be acting too sensitvie;but anyways,she's her mom.And it against her repsect and love,that she stepped into tht house.That too for ppl lyk Neelu maa,who actually insulted her mom,though not in a dramatized way,but she did.She lykes to go there for Anu,who no matter wht,is still her husband and she loves him.But wht abt her mom,who loves her,a bro who cares for her,and a her late father's respect,who died in such horrible circumstances.
Whateva the bond may be,nothing can be stronger than the bond of a mother-daughter.She should've atleast saved her mother and late father's grace.I absolutely dislike the attitude of being over-sensitive at times.She should've thought logically.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yea, even am not liking how Taani breaking the promise but I guess she doing so that families can patch up again or for Onu😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Amina-

I absolutely agree.Infact,we'd a hot discussion goin'-on abt this at our place,last night.Me and mum were in one team,and the 2nd team had my elder sister alone.Actually,she's the one who's super-duper sensitive types.She takes everything to her heart.

So,I actually kinda supported Taposh(though,I dun' really lyk him),during yesterday's arguments,after the rain sequence.Well,I thought she should've cared abt her mother,atleast.No matter what,she might be acting too sensitvie;but anyways,she's her mom.And it against her repsect and love,that she stepped into tht house.That too for ppl lyk Neelu maa,who actually insulted her mom,though not in a dramatized way,but she did.She lykes to go there for Anu,who no matter wht,is still her husband and she loves him.But wht abt her mom,who loves her,a bro who cares for her,and a her late father's respect,who died in such horrible circumstances.
Whateva the bond may be,nothing can be stronger than the bond of a mother-daughter.She should've atleast saved her mother and late father's grace.I absolutely dislike the attitude of being over-sensitive at times.She should've thought logically.



your lucky..I'm the only one who watches this show in my house.😆 so no discussions here.
Umm..I kinda like Taposh's character..but he has his own list of flaws, he's kind of a gray-ish character but when it comes to his family, I think he always puts them first. He's the kind of guy that likes freedom..that's one quality that I like.😳
exactlyy! I agree with everything you said. Neelu maa didn't downright insult Taani's mother, but whatever..in any case, an insult is still an insult. I understand where Taani's coming from, I mean she loves Anurag..so for her, this would be the right thing to do..but not by going against her mother's promise. It's just a bad way to make a fresh start too. ):
Respect..that word! it should mean everything to her. I mean after all that Taani's been through, I would think she would stay away from the family that disgraced her family..but no. woh toh bilkul ulta hi nikli. =D

In this situation..logic definitely surpasses sensitivity. Taani should understand that, I mean her mom didn't make her move to a new city for nothing. Their family has been through alot and Taani knows that too..why isn't she thinking about the consequences of her actions? What if Onu's family insults them again? god forbid..what if her mother doesn't end up handling it well? Shekar is already planning to get even with Taani as soon as Onu leaves for the US..so we all know there's something big that's going to happen.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sweet_Kandy

yea, even am not liking how Taani breaking the promise but I guess she doing so that families can patch up again or for Onu😆



I guess she's following that saying 'all's fair in love and war'.😆 it's such a vague saying no?
I seriously don't think that after all this..the families should patch up. What happened was no small thing..it basically changed the lives of two families..broke so many relationships, I really don't see a possible future for these two families now. Unless something drastic happens (like in Romeo and Juliet..how they die and the families unite) and both the families end up forgetting everything. 🤔


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree - Taani should show more self-respect. After all the Shekar family insulted them a he'l of a lot... And let's face it, while Onu has come back and is taking an interest in her affairs he hasn't exactly fallen into her arms... He may even turn around and say well! What happened earlier was calf love - at least that's what one can think now seeing his strange characterization ...

Of course we all know that will not happen etc etc and so we are tolerating Taani breaking all promises to her own kin... 😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: elgee

Agree - Taani should show more self-respect. After all the Shekar family insulted them a he'l of a lot... And let's face it, while Onu has come back and is taking an interest in her affairs he hasn't exactly fallen into her arms... He may even turn around and say well! What happened earlier was calf love - at least that's what one can think now seeing his strange characterization ...

Of course we all know that will not happen etc etc and so we are tolerating Taani breaking all promises to her own kin... 😉



oh yea..true. At this rate, I can definitely see a future where Onu insults/mocks Taani for taking his feelings the wrong way. I'm not insulting him..after all he's my fav character, but he has changed too. I won't say that he'll become like his father..because that will never happen. But if and when Taani confesses, he won't keep from saying that he did all that just to show his friendship and that she should've thought before saying all that to him. 🤔

oh yea...we all know that nothing is going to happen..we're all gonna cry for a while and then they'll be united and live happily ever after(after the whole mental asylum fiasco ends that is.🤣)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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^^Then,me is lucky enough.This and Pratigya are shows which are majorly hot at our place,especially,"Tere Liye"....It's lyk the first eva romantic show tht my mum watches too;otherwise,she hated to watch Kahiin Toh Hoga...mujhe hi pata hai mein ne kis kis mushkil se guzar kar dekha tha...*sigh*....
Anyways,yeah...Taposh is someone I really din' admire in the very beginning...all he thought was every1 else,except his own family's problems..(.Like,if you're good to sum1 you dunno,then your family really has the first right on you,and you dun' have to put their emotions aside,and go-on with your stuff...I know I really sound selfish,but I really dun' understand how ppl put aside their own problems for serving others.....)....But when he gets to know abt his dad,the way his character changed-tht was sumthin' quite sensible.The one thing I like abt him is tht he's quite logical.He doesn't allow his emotions overcome the truths of life-which surely is a sign tht he would neva becum a Devdas in his life...:P.....
Whateva Taani does,is because she cannot control her feelings-which is a sign of having a very weak personality,which I highly dislike.Being an emotional fool is something tht I can't digest.I really dun' understand how ppl let their emotions come in the way of their self-respect and ego(I feel no harm in sayin' tht,coz I myself,am a quite egoistic person,which is kinda not liked by my phamily,but ab aisi hooon toh hoon.....one can't really hlp it.).......Though,she's one girl after Arohi of KMH,who has an angelic aura and you can't help but fall in love with her cuteness;but,there's a thin line b/w being an angelic personality,and losing your self-respect.So,she betta not get her sweet atttitude in the way of her mother and brother's respect.
*phew*....kya mein lecture de sakti hoon>>??...I think I shud join some university or anythin'.....:P
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