||~*~DOTW :Infatuation stronger than Love?~*~|| - Page 2

Originally posted by: azfee

Oh yes, I can agree that love tags a responsibility together... 😆
When an infatuation is agreed by a person, won't it take a responsibility and become love? 😊



This one I don't understand... 😲 A person who is infatuated don't expect them to love back? 😲

Yes, being a person who got committed, I feel like being lonely sometimes. But I just don't look forward to have a contact since I've stayed single all the time... I can also understand that this doesn't happens with everyone and there are chances for the people to get upset just because they're not together...

Nice and sensitive thread... 👏 Loved it...

Originally posted by: IndigoBlues

We humans have a 'replacement complex' in our minds. Had a fight with best friend? Hang out with someone else. Wishing that your friend's mother was yours too just because she allows her daughter or son to do stuff that you are not allowed to? been there, done that.

In the same way, a lonely Anurag subconsciously searched for someone who would fill that gaping hole in his heart caused by separation from Taani. And he found this in Neha(or nupur, whoever basu's daughter is.) And let's face it, he's a guy. If he wouldn't get attracted to someone, well maybe something's tedha about him, if you get what i mean. 😆

The main reason why long distance relationships don't work is because people form a prejudice for it in their minds even before it begins. Thinking about the miles between them makes them depressed. So they convince themselves that as long as the person they love is not there, they might as well as find someone else. So Anurag convinced himself that with the broken rishta, all the ties between him and Taani were broken, so he might as well as accept that they will never be together so though he consciously did not wish for it, in his heart he just wanted someone to love him the way Taani did.

But when it comes back to square one, he will be in a muddle-his past or his present? And that will be the true test of his love. When that point comes(or rather that episode airs 😆 ), we will all come to know whether his infatuation will triumph over his love.

Infatuation is merely attraction, not true love. If he truly loved that mystery girl in the car(who we will hopefully see and analyse today), what about all those sequences with Taani, where he goes to her to a dargah, a hilltop(i love hills...they are so romantic!), that boat sequence where he lies in her lap and tells her his dreams...does that happen in infatuation? And when he was getting engaged, why that morose look on his face? Cynical people may say that it was simply guilt, but to me it was regret. A regret that finally led him out to scream 'Taani!' and eventually drove him crazy.

Originally posted by: Pyari_Zahra

^ You're misunderstanding me, I didn't take your post to be targetted at me. When I gave the example of myself it was purely just as an example, to back up my point, not to answer back at what you said. I didn't at all think you're post was aimed at what I had previously said, in fact, I knew you were giving a generalised viewpoint of things. That's why in my second post I said I agree with you as well as disagree. But anyway, yep, I actually found your post really interesting, like Vandy Di said, it put a whole new perspective on things, and was quite thought-provoking. 😳 x

Originally posted by: -vandy-

wat i meant was......wen u have an infatuation......one tends to fatasise....so whether the person infront of u loves u back or not is not important.....the world of fantasy where one lives...fulfills that particular demand of the heart😊

lol vry vry difficult topic ..first read n soo cunfused😆 after reading evryone's POV and consulting with my little brain 🤓me coming to conclusion tht

not only onu, none can find difference between love n infatuation until v face difficulties(one of them is long distance).. we cnt force ourselves tht i love him so i hv to do this n prove our love is true nd also we cnt ignore feelings for a person considerng tht as infatuation (both case will fail horribly) only time can teach us wht is true love it will come naturallyy just as infatuation nd v'll feel vry peaceful till then v hv to just go with flow without going out of track..

🤔 am i clear or confused ?😆

coming to our our onu tani..thy r at vry vulnerable age as said by onu's mom. thy learn from their surroundings onu's world going to change upside-down.... seeing neha father's thinking we cn see in wht type of surroundings he had lived but tani was in safe hands+ onu's angel😍 (double protection😆 ) donno wht hv all been happened with onu in these 8 years..

Thank u sooo much🤗 evryone