Was Krishna at fault for walking out?

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Krishna was accused few things today...
1. Krishna was angry at the court today - No, He was hurt, distraught...No angrey whatsoever while leaving the court...
2. He got up and went out hearing half from Pratigya - No, he was there in the court till Pratigya finished her testimony...He listened her version then he got up...
And now my personal comments.
Many people said he loves her so he MUST trust her...and I ask, what has he been doing so far then? Wasn't he trusting her? He had complete faith in her...who was playing hide and seek so far...? See, she tried to tell him only when it came to her neck otherwise she wouldn't have made effort to tell him like what she did for past few days...(Oh! All other time she was bounded by Kasam...It's not her fault😆).
And one more verdict in the forum is, if he doesn't listen to her, he is not loving her...yeh kya blackmail hai bey? I would say now it is the responsibility of Pratigya to make Krishna understand and regain his trust. It is not the other way. Krishna had trusted her so far and she was the one who breached that trust...and what I expect from her is to tell the complete truth...even if he doesn't want to listen, let her come up with innovative idea's to convince Krishna...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rightchoice

Krishna was accused few things today...
1. Krishna was angry at the court today - No, He was hurt, distraught...No angrey whatsoever while leaving the court...
2. He got up and went out hearing half from Pratigya - No, he was there in the court till Pratigya finished her testimony...He listened her version then he got up...
And now my personal comments.
Many people said he loves her so he MUST trust her...and I ask, what has he been doing so far then? Wasn't he trusting her? He had complete faith in her...who was playing hide and seek so far...? See, she tried to tell him only when it came to her neck otherwise she wouldn't have made effort to tell him like what she did for past few days...(Oh! All other time she was bounded by Kasam...It's not her fault😆).
And one more verdict in the forum is, if he doesn't listen to her, he is not loving her...yeh kya blackmail hai bey? I would say now it is the responsibility of Pratigya to make Krishna understand and regain his trust. It is not the other way. Krishna had trusted her so far and she was the one who breached that trust...and what I expect from her is to tell the complete truth...even if he doesn't want to listen, let her come up with innovative idea's to convince Krishna...



Excellent points. You zipped the thoughts right out of my head.

Krishna was right to walk out. The way he handled it was a very mature one. Go vent, burn off some anger, cool off and then come back to hash it out calmly before making a decision. He had explained himself to Prats in the past few days giving POPs a way to explain when he left why Prats didn't follow him.

He told her the idea of another man near her fired his blood to boiling point.
He also told her (during aarati) when she did something wrong(thought that was an odd statement when she hadn't done anything wrong right at that moment) he gets angry and blows his top off but then when the anger burns off all he is left is the love he feels for her. She had come to live in his house and she was his responsibility.(this is the part to come after the present drama is worked through).

He is going to be furious and about to hurt himself but then he will also remember he needs to protect her from the vultures in his family. He will moan and roar like a lion that had been shot at by a hunter. He will lick his wounds of a broken heart privately (even Tunna and Chandu can't help him now, it's his own inner battle of how to deal with his conflicting emotions to tear her apart, to support her or to hurt himself).

How POPs address who takes the first step to heal this relationship will be an interesting one.



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Posted: 15 years ago
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rightchoise, very well thought off.....and everyting that I too had been thinking.
The main thing is: Krishna walking off isn't about lack of trust, love and etc. Come on, you people who think his love has gone out of the window!!....imagine you are walking down a busy road and suddenly a ball from nowhere comes and hits you on the head..hard!....wouldn't you be stunned? dazed? bewildered? thinking where did that come from?....wouldn't you walk off a bit to get rid of the hurt, pain and perhaps some blood????...........This is what Krishna has done.
He will come around and then will ask questions....without Krishna, there is no pratigya and vice versa.
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krishna is more hurt coz he thinks that prats does not think him worthy enough to share her life wid him........................was right to walk off..............it pains coz he has made up his mind to love her for extreme........................

krishna character is an extreme one ..........he loves or hates to d hilt...........no half way for him.........................

and i don't think he will doubt her character ,...................but he wants to make her life easy..........he is of d opinion that if prats has a prob she shd tell him.........and he will sort it out.................prats attitude of handling on her own makes him furious....................
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It is quite intresting to see hw people come to one conclusion when Krishna is angry: If he loved her he wld have been there for her when she needed him.
Okay if by being not there y'day after he got the biggest shock of his life he has shown that he has does not love her i really don't understand what he has shown by being there for her every time she needed him. Oh I 4got he only wants one thing from her- consummate the marriage that is why he has stood by her every time.


RC people are saying that Prats was trying to tell him b4 y'day but he put the silly condition and refused to listen to him. To add to your point wld she have ever decided to tell him if Prof hadn't confessed that he killed Angad and was imprisoned for that. Now i can read answers to this question well we will never know abt that😕

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Krishna was angry but it was much more obvious when he left the court and was driving toward the end of the episode. He was not only angry though he was devastated and extremely hurt with the fact that he was not told about this truth before (though she tried to tell him because she knew he would be hurt if he found out this way).

Though Krishna may have been sitting there until Prats finished speaking he seemed to be in a trance due to the shock I feel he only heard the fact that she was kidnapped by angad, and was kept in a room for one night this alone was too much for him to handle, I don't think he was interested in the other things prats said, though his state was understandable

I can accept the fact that he supported her though not always, but I doubt he had complete faith in her. If he trusted her then he would not doubt her character just for talking or shaking hands with another man. This can be given the name of his possessiveness but still I fail to see his complete faith in her.

Prats and her fathers fears were justified by Krishna's and his families actions. She decided to tell him the truth recently because she knew he would be far more hurt if he heard it from someone else, though even that took a lot of courage since she is aware of his anger and his families narrow mindedness.

Trust is necessary in any relationship in especially that of a husband and wife and without it you cannot love another person. But, it would be wrong to say he does not love her just because he gets frustrated and takes his anger out on her after hearing the truth, because that much is normal and expected. And I agree now prats must tell him the complete truth and make him understand her situation no matter his behavior because she has started caring for him, and his anger and behavior is justified. But, I feel that once she explains everything to him and then if he still finds it hard to trust her then his love is questionable.
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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif" size="3"><font color="#ff0000">It is quite intresting to see hw people come to one conclusion when Krishna is angry: If he loved her he wld have been there for her when she needed him.
Okay if by being not there y'day after he got the biggest shock of his life he has shown that he has does not love her i really don't understand what he has shown by being there for her every time she needed him. Oh I 4got he only wants one thing from her- consummate the marriage that is why he has stood by her every time. </font>
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RC people are saying that Prats was trying to tell him b4 y'day but he put the silly condition and refused to listen to him. To add to your point wld she have ever decided to tell him if Prof hadn't confessed that he killed Angad and was imprisoned for that. Now i can read answers to this question well we will never know abt that😕</font>
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ok kc do u think..............krishna's reaction wud have been diff if she would have fulfilled his condition and told him abt this angad thing in d confines of their room................
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Originally posted by: Binny1247

Krishna was angry but it was much more obvious when he left the court and was driving toward the end of the episode. He was not only angry though he was devastated and extremely hurt with the fact that he was not told about this truth before (though she tried to tell him because she knew he would be hurt if he found out this way).

Though Krishna may have been sitting there until Prats finished speaking he seemed to be in a trance due to the shock I feel he only heard the fact that she was kidnapped by angad, and was kept in a room for one night this alone was too much for him to handle, I don't think he was interested in the other things prats said, though his state was understandable

I can accept the fact that he supported her though not always, but I doubt he had complete faith in her. If he trusted her then he would not doubt her character just for talking or shaking hands with another man. This can be given the name of his possessiveness but still I fail to see his complete faith in her.

Prats and her fathers fears were justified by Krishna's and his families actions. She decided to tell him the truth recently because she knew he would be far more hurt if he heard it from someone else, though even that took a lot of courage since she is aware of his anger and his families narrow mindedness.

Trust is necessary in any relationship in especially that of a husband and wife and without it you cannot love another person. But, it would be wrong to say he does not love her just because he gets frustrated and takes his anger out on her after hearing the truth, because that much is normal and expected. And I agree now prats must tell him the complete truth and make him understand her situation no matter his behavior because she has started caring for him, and his anger and behavior is understandable. But, I feel that once she explains everything to him and then if he still finds it hard to trust her then his love is questionable.




but binny ........krishna is a simple person wid exteme emotions.................he has some set rules in his mind..............and i can tell u that u cannot reason against such rules ................he has his own logic.....................i don't think he doubts her character...(will hurt me if they show him doin that).................possessive he is..................but as thsy say ...........excess of everything is bad...........
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Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo

It is quite intresting to see hw people come to one conclusion when Krishna is angry: If he loved her he wld have been there for her when she needed him.
Okay if by being not there y'day after he got the biggest shock of his life he has shown that he has does not love her i really don't understand what he has shown by being there for her every time she needed him. Oh I 4got he only wants one thing from her- consummate the marriage that is why he has stood by her every time.


RC people are saying that Prats was trying to tell him b4 y'day but he put the silly condition and refused to listen to him. To add to your point wld she have ever decided to tell him if Prof hadn't confessed that he killed Angad and was imprisoned for that. Now i can read answers to this question well we will never know abt that😕

Very apt points KC. This rule doesn't apply to Pratigya because she doesn't love him...😆so until she discloses her love she is free to do whatever she wants to do...😆
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but binny ........krishna is a simple person wid exteme emotions.................he has some set rules in his mind..............and i can tell u that u cannot reason against such rules ................he has his own logic.....................i don't think he doubts her character...(will hurt me if they show him doin that).................possessive he is..................but as thsy say ...........excess of everything is bad...........

Nisha

I know a man like Krishna feels no one should look at his wife but him, I may not agree with him but I can understand his personality. My problem is not with his possessiveness it has been obvious since the day he saw prats, and his reaction to the man shaking prats hand was unacceptable but expected. I expected his obsessive, possessive behavior but I did not expect him to question her virtue in front of everyone he humiliated the women he claimed to love unconditional for talking to another man. I see his extreme emotions here that 's fine but I also see a lack of trust.

Even in this scenario if he is angry with her for hiding the fact that she was kidnapped from him than that is justifiable, but if he has doubts about her character than 🤢


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