Best Friends? (Close Topic Please)

Here is my problem you guys:

My "best friend" and i have known each other since kindergarten and everything was great until gr.6. In grade 6, there were these really ****** girls and they were all about fashion and brands and being popular. You know all the drama in grade 6? So my friend and i started drifting apart when she became friends with those girls. I managed to keep my friendship but in grade 7, my friend and i met this girl. We became friends with her and we were like a threesome but my bff would always talk to the girl and ignore me like i didn't exist. I just would stay there and try to interact as well but it wouldn't work. And then the new girl started hanging out with these other girls and my bff also started hanging out with him. I had no choice but to join them. One of them from the group didn't like me because,....she just didn't. So she said things and did things that made me hate the new girl and so that bothered my bff. When i had no choice but to seperate myself from the group even though, i cared about them alot, i expected my bff to be there for me but she decided to stay with the group. Of course, i couldn't say anything. I can't tell her who to be friends with and who not be but then when i became friends with these other girls-really nice ones, my bff came back to me and she became friends with my friends. So that was years ago and we're not completely perfect with each other but this year everything has messed up. We are diff classes this year and my friends are with my bff. So one of my friends: Christina is like really annoying me because she keeps on calling my bff her bff. So then my bff has also started ignoring me and started hanging out more with Christina. I tried to talk to my bff and even wrote her a letter but she just doesn't understand or more like care?? Please help me!! What do i do?

Friendship is so complicated. I think you need to let your bff hang out with Christina. It's like this quote. "If you love something let it go free. If it doesn't come back, you never had it. If it comes back, love it forever." Your bff might not care about you as much as you care about her. In the end, you have to move on and live your life. I know it's hard but give it a try. Personally, I think there is no point in trying to keep caring about people who hurt you like that...

Originally posted by: sweetscent13

Friendship is so complicated. I think you need to let your bff hang out with Christina. It's like this quote. "If you love something let it go free. If it doesn't come back, you never had it. If it comes back, love it forever." Your bff might not care about you as much as you care about her. In the end, you have to move on and live your life. I know it's hard but give it a try. Personally, I think there is no point in trying to keep caring about people who hurt you like that...

Originally posted by: Angad-Kripa#1

Thank you! But the problem is, my "bff" hangs out with my friends as well and Christina is one of them and i have to watch everyday and it hurts....

Originally posted by: Maz_4_life

OMG!!
Thats exactly what i'm going through.
I'm stuck in the same tight situation too!!

My best friend left me becoz she found two other people better!! 😭
It hurts alot. I know. It hurts when ur sitting alone. It hurts when you know you don't have that friend you've known for a long time with you. It hurts when you see all of them laughing their heads off,
But then u know what ... i found new friends. TRUE FRIENDS!!
Not fake like her.

I think you should truly move on.
It's better to have a few friends than a lot of fake friends!!
Just like sweetcent13 said: "If you love something ... set it free"

I think thats what you should do.
If you love ur friends .. set them free.

-Amira-

Originally posted by: Angad-Kripa#1

You're right Amira! Thank You! I'm going to let my "bff" be friends with who she wants and it's not like we hate each other. We just don't share the same relationship anymore and are very distant but atleast i could try to feel civil towards her like we act right? 😊 Thank You so much you two!!

Love,

~Jot~

I use to feel the same way about my friend! we were friends ever since 3rd Grade cos we were in the same class even our parents became friends, once i moved to High school everything changed.

She found new friends and so did I! We use to call each other regularly but that stopped as well! We use to talk on MSN but once I come online and shes online shes doesn't bother to reciprocate. So I thought to myself let her go to hell! who wants friendship when you don't even want to talk!

hmmm ur nt d only one sweets....i have been thru d same phase.....n its a real pathetic feeling...my bff is nw such a wierdo..x bff sorry..n im glad dat i broke off wid her...cz im a diff person...i wud say move on....u will gt many more frnds....maybe she really wsnt ur bff...