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Posted: 15 years ago
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Forgiving is a very nobel thing to do.But you are not forced to forgive.If someone can not forgive easily we can not blame her/him.As a human we also have the right to be angry at those who has insulted us.Bhavna Aai has said Varsha a "characterless woman" and it is the biggest insult for a girl.So it is not easy to forgive that woman.
Bhavna may not beleive Varsha.But she should have atleast trusted her son.If Satish has no problems with his wife then Bhavna should be happy for him.I am with Varsha.Atleast she is not kind of that woman who always worship their Saas forgetting everything.I hate those cultures where Bahus are thought to be weak and Saas can do whatever she likes.If a Saas can be angry then a Bahu has also right to be angry.
I hope Archana was like Varsha.She should show Shravani her real place.It is sometimes necessary to make a person realise his/her status.Love you Varsha.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree its not easy to forgive someone, but sometimes one has to do it. Varshu has to do it for the sake of her supportive and loving husband Satish, who did not doubt her even for a moment. In any case, if she continues holding a grudge, it will affect her marriage in the long run. BA's anger towards Varshu's family is partly justified because they did hide this Ashwin affair from BA and her family before the wedding.

Of course, Varshu can't be expected to be all happy and cheerful with BA right away. Both MIL and DIL will need to put in a lot of effort to develop their bond. I really feel for Satish and his baba.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think Vershu is being childish. This is nothing but her ego. When BA was saying bad things to her, she said to Satish that she is like my aai and I don't mind her words. Now what happened?

I think she needs to stop being adamant and be happy that she has got a loving family.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Forgiving is a very nobel thing to do.But you are not forced to forgive.If someone can not forgive easily we can not blame her/him.As a human we also have the right to be angry at those who has insulted us.Bhavna Aai has said Varsha a "characterless woman" and it is the biggest insult for a girl.So it is not easy to forgive that woman.

Bhavna may not beleive Varsha.But she should have atleast trusted her son.If Satish has no problems with his wife then Bhavna should be happy for him.I am with Varsha.Atleast she is not kind of that woman who always worship their Saas forgetting everything.I hate those cultures where Bahus are thought to be weak and Saas can do whatever she likes.If a Saas can be angry then a Bahu has also right to be angry.
I hope Archana was like Varsha.She should show Shravani her real place.It is sometimes necessary to make a person realise his/her status.Love you Varsha.

Well...1stly . these things called 'adjustments' that We,modern ppl HATE is keeping relations intact in Our Culture Compared to Western Culture!! There are Other ways of showing that A woman Is Strong than Showing Arrogance....especially when Pleaded to!!!
2ndly Bhavna Tai was Angry n offended Varsha n She also APOLOGIZED to her whjich is Very very UnLIKELY of an Indian Saas so Varsha should ,THINK and move Her Step forward in improving her relation with her Saas since Bhavna herself was really not responsible for the misunderstanding Bcos Mothers are ,in fact in 'pressure' to please their Dammads to ensure that her Daughters are kept secure and Damaads take good care of her daughters So Varsha should 'Weigh' facts and \forgive Bhavvna this time adding a 'Note' that 'Please try to trust a Bahu next time....don't mistrust Bahus Bcos we're someone else's daughter.... treat Bahus as Betis"....That Should have been Enough!!!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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that is true may be they want to show varshu diff from archana as archana is a godesse she just go on excusing everyone mainly shrauni
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: alujna-21

that is true may be they want to show varshu diff from archana as archana is a godesse she just go on excusing everyone mainly shrauni

We need variations in characters also.Constantly seeing Mahan Atma like Vandita,Archana has made the viewers boring.So Varsha's character is giving the viewers a releif.I won't say Archana is wrong but neither Varsha is wrong.Both are good in hir own ways and we should not point fingers at them.Personally I like women like Varsha who does always cry bucket and worship their ML as god.

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