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viram

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Posted: 15 years ago

Now Vershu's behaviour is getting on my nerves. Yes it is true BA hurt her deeply by not trusting her. The wound wont get healed so easily. But how can she forget her own behaviour in the past.? Hasn't she insulted her own mother and sister by being adamant and leaving the house only to be cheated by the cunning fox Ashwin? Even Sulochana accused her of going around with Ashwin(which was partly true) and drinking etc. Didn't she forgive her mother .When she returned home didn't they all welcome her with open arms? I don't think her behaviour is justified at all.This is not what a broadminded , modern and strong woman should be doing .

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Aisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

Well it i not easy to forgive that Bhavna Aai.She has insulted Varsha very much.And Varsha is doing the right thing by ignoring her.

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Angel-likeDevil

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Posted: 15 years ago

I dunno.. but I have this wierd loser-like habit of forgiving anyone for anything easily.. so, I'm quite not liking her behaviour.

It IS true that Bhavana insulted her family and her. She also wanned to break Satish's marriage to her.. but, all that happened with major mis-understanding and besides Rasika has been inducing something bad bout Varsha ever since!

Varsha's got to forgive her mom-in-law as soon as possible, or.. it's just gonna bring in more DARAAR.. :P

I'm sure Bhavana will start tu-tu-mein-mein.. 😆

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coolpratz

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Posted: 15 years ago

this problem is not goona solve easily..... BA isn't liking her attitude.... nd if varsha forgive her so easily there won't remain anything on the show..... i fear this will lead to dooriya betwn her nd satish...

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vishwap

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: rpratistha
this problem is not goona solve easily..... BA isn't liking her attitude.... nd if varsha forgive her so easily there won't remain anything on the show..... i fear this will lead to dooriya betwn her nd satish...

Agreed. Probably the future Varsha track.

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

I like varsha when she's so honest.I believe it takes time to b normal after such an incident.

Personally,I forgive easily ,so I dont exactly relate to her here....even if I find it difficult to forgive I wont b so blunt to the person concerned,if she is asking for forgiveness n repenting that too when Bhavna wasnt exactly to b blamed....Varsha did hid it too.

Neither wud I hav behaved like Bhavna...I wud hav said sorry n given the person her own time to come out of it.Everything cant happen as I wish them to b.

So,I dont relate to either here but I admire Varsha's honesty and believe Bhavna is a complete fool.

Edited by gaurimisha - 15 years ago

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Malini

@Rumii

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-
Well it i not easy to forgive that Bhavna Aai.She has insulted Varsha very much.And Varsha is doing the right thing by ignoring her.

While it's not easy to forgive a wrong doer but when it's your mother-in-law and she's asked fore Aplogy{that's a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig deal for a Saas to say sorry to a Bahu in Indian families and I applaud Bhavvna Tai for having the 'courage' to do that} Varsha should at least talk to her{No one is asking Varsha to start dancing with Bhavna Taai} and 'TRY' to bring the situation to Normalcy AND ...AND Varsha should nEver Forget that in reality Bhavna Tai is a muuuuuuuuuuuuuch better Saas than Other Conventional saas and if she's being too harsh with Bhavna she might not only lose her love she might also lose her Hubby Satish bcos after all satish wouldn't tolerate his Mom's 'insult' for long.....😲

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poo_supi

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Posted: 15 years ago

Guys we need to be practical, you ca forgive a person but when it comes to ur parents, u will have grudge unless she says sorry...

Zindagi bar yaad aathi hai yeh pal

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sonika74

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Posted: 15 years ago

its not easy to forgive when someone says that you are very bachalan..because when it goes into the heart..it kills all the respect from the heart then the rest is dikhawa!!!...you have to understand that bhavna tai has not listened to the full story only ashwin's and made up her mind..if she had listened to both the stories and maybe should have asked for proof then would have been better

she even said to satish that they both leave the house and she has nothing "not even a word" to say to varsha...anyone would feel and then once she knew the truth she wants varsha to be normal in a sec with her is next to impossible. varsha is right that if thats what bharti wants then she wants then within a min she wants varsha to be normal with varsha is human being with feelings and not a puppet

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choonee

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Bhavna never disrespected Vershu's parents out of no where , she was hurt and yes, vershu and her parents did hide a huge fact if you look at it from Bhavna's point of viw and she has appologized which to me is a big step for any realtionship. I have seen in my life many people who will consider OFFENSE as defense and never admit. And Vershu was the one who was claiming that this ashwim guy separated a mother from son etc etc etc , now her attitude- egoistic will ruin lal peace. She should support Bhanva through this time as her daughter's life is ruined too afterall that is what FAMILY means supporting each otehr keeping teh grudges aside. I dont consider FORGIVING AS LOSER"S APPROACH, It takes a lot of INNER STRENGTH and self esteem and character to forgive and put relations over your own inflated ego.

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