Radha Bua way too interfering!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Okay Radha Bua is positively creepy! If someone were to rearrange my wardrobe and throw my clothes callously into a suitcase, I'd be pissed too. Agree, Suhana was wrong to hog the entire space, but then IMO it is something between a husband and wife to sort out, not some pesky relatives to interfere about ... 😕 IMO, Suhana should feel it from within to offer her space to Ishaan, it shouldn't be forced on her.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree Radha is surely nosy....but then she is possessive about Ishaan so she is trying to make place for him in the room😛 But that's the other side of a joint family....lack of privacy if I can call it so.

But I don't want this nosiness to rub Suhana the wrong way....she can be better handled with love
Edited by Anshu_A - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Adding to the above post i think she gave suhana a dose of her own medicine .....suhana never asked ishaan and just moved his clothes out so radha bua did the same .....
And i think she is interfering bec she knows suhana doesnt care for ishaan and thinks nothing of this wedding ...i think she'll stop doing it once she see's that suhana does care for him.....
Edited by rdfan - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Anshu - Thanks for your reply. I don't argue Radha Bua's affection for Ishaan. But there are some lines that no relatives should cross - this is not a big deal, but the way she treats Suhana as though she were some thorn in Ishaan's life, not his wife, is wrong.

rdfan - Thanks for your reply. Interesting POV. I see where you are coming from. With all due respect to you, but still I think there are some things that Ishaan and Suhana should sort out themselves. Agreed Suhana removed Ishaan's clothes without his permission, but he doesn't mind, who is Radha Bua to object? If my husband likes to cook on Fridays, and my relatives think it is sacrilege on my patni vrata dharma, who they are to object? Even if Suhana doesn't like Ishaan, she hasn't left him. She is staying with him as his wife in his bedroom. Their bedroom. If they wanted to involve the entire family, they could have. But they have not. So it is not best to adopt Badi Maa's approach, rather than Radha Bua's sneaky approach?
Edited by LadyMcbeth - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yaa..even i didn't like her interfering., she being too much, & went away with so much of attitude on her face😡...& even if soneone had mendled with my clothes, i would have been really angry,
she shouldn't have done thAt without informing them & top of it, in their absence..too much she's bothering in their matter, agree she cares for Ishann,
but don't u all think, its too much with her., still that trime Suhana became busy to make her hubby perfect😍, without complaining abt Radha bua, that she's interfering in our room, without our knowledge
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree with u mostly but i think when it comes to radha bua she isnt an ideal character ...she is more like how people tend to be ...when they sort of no something it becomes hard for them to overlook the facts and treat the person without any bias ....like for some as ideal as badi ma it isnt very difficult to overlook the facts and give suhana a chance to redeem herself ......
Also it is not that ishaan wasnt happy to see his clothes back in the cupboard and also i think suhana's encounter with each person will teach her something and make her a better person ...and this was her first lesson ........badi maa wudnt have known abt it cause she wasnt present when she was throwing out ishaan's stuff ...and ishaan wud have never told ne one ...so when wud suhana have realised that what she did was wrong ......and i am glad radha bua never told ne one abt it aswell
Just my rubbish POV ...........
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Posted: 15 years ago
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You know that's another thing about Suhana...she is basically very innocent. I am sure she is not really affected by what Radha bia did...correct me if I am wrong. I haven't seen the episode so don't know what exactly transpired .....As long as Suhana gets what she wants, she doesn't really care what happens around her. No one has taught her what's right what's not. She has a sister who always adjusted to Suhana's whims and fancies and friends who are equally naive to the extent of being wane.

But I do agree there are certain issues a husband and wife should handle themselves. Radha bua shouldn't be doing this on Ishaan's behalf. If he doesn't complain who is she to inerfere. On the flip side, She knows Ishaan is not the types to complain about anything. He never did with others in the house so why would he do it with his wife. So just like Radha protected him from others, she is trying to do it with Suhana in her own subtle way without opening her mouth
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Posted: 15 years ago
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rdfan - you ARE right. *sigh* That is how most people are in real life. Meddlesome and pesky, if you ask me. Ishaan wasn't unhappy, but neither was he OTT ecstatic. Basically he didn't care where his clothes were, as long as they didn't leave the room. :-) But if I were in Suhana's shoes, or better yet, as an objective third party, I'd be mad if someone did that to me. So if Suhana is angry, I wouldn't blame her. My point is, she should feel it from within. And she will ....

No rubbish POVs here ... I like your argument.Thanks for replying back to discuss it with me. :-)

Anshu - well she was a TAD bit annoyed and disappointed. But then Radha Bua, didn't stay long enough to rub it in her face and Suhana got busy correcting Ishaan's dress. I guess that is a creative liberty that the makers take time and again, which we in real life wouldn't get. :-)
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Praj:

Frustrated much..?? 😆

I understand where you are coming from.. but I think RB is doing it with a good heart.. we all know how possessive she is about Ishaan.

And more so she is alike a mum that can't let go of her married son (been there and will be doing that.. LOL!) So it is expected..

I kinda am with RdFan.. RB will be ok once she starts to see Suhana caring for Ishaan.

Btw.. I loved the way Suhana said "thankyou Radha bua" being totally oblivious to anything around her.. LOL!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Honestly, I would blame on Suhana's character development. We are still not privy to what Suhana thinks when she does those little things, like be nice to Ishaan, or share his bedroom, or do his tie. I hope she is not soooo insensitive so as to do it without any feeling. I hope she is genuinely touched by the little gestures of Ishaan's family for treating her like their own daughter. Moreso, I hope she is gradually changing ...

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