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Posted: 15 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Okay Radha Bua is positively creepy! If someone were to rearrange my wardrobe and throw my clothes callously into a suitcase, I'd be pissed too. Agree, Suhana was wrong to hog the entire space, but then IMO it is something between a husband and wife to sort out, not some pesky relatives to interfere about ... 😕 IMO, Suhana should feel it from within to offer her space to Ishaan, it shouldn't be forced on her.

@red bold.....
Lady ...your case is different dear..... u have a matured thinking in my POV......😃 so i do agree someone messing up with your clothes can bug u a lot.👍🏼
Here Radha Bua knows Suhana has not accepted Ishaan willingly and she has seen the kiddish-stubborn attitude in Suhana earlier when she was blaming her dad for her marraige. Again Bua was the only one to notice that she was least bothered that Ishaan's clothes were in the suitcase......If any other new bride would have been there ... that time when Radha bua passed a statement that Ishaan atleast deserves that much space in the closet, she would have understood the sarcastic statement and made some space immediately.... but hey.... this is Suhana.......😆......
U think she is mature enough to part with her space .....especially if it is her closet???? The way she threw a tantrum in her maika when she saw things haywire in her closet was a hint to this.....
Dear.... so in my POV.... though i do accept Radha bua was trying to squeeze her attitude between the couple..... there is no other way by which our dearest Suhana can understand the aspect of sharing the closet with Ishaan(of course her husband....which she has not realised till now )......😉..
Suhana needs to be tamed now..... with maturity of Badi maa..... with tender affection of Rano..... with friendly support from Disha and Rajni..... with cute nok-jhok moments of Dada-dadi..... and with sterness of Radha bua....No one can be stern with her except Radha bua ....possibly one can say it is a cure to get the maturity sense in Suhana....😛....👍🏼
Edited by laxmi_s - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyMcbeth

Anshu - Thanks for your reply. I don't argue Radha Bua's affection for Ishaan. But there are some lines that no relatives should cross - this is not a big deal, but the way she treats Suhana as though she were some thorn in Ishaan's life, not his wife, is wrong.

rdfan - Thanks for your reply. Interesting POV. I see where you are coming from. With all due respect to you, but still I think there are some things that Ishaan and Suhana should sort out themselves. Agreed Suhana removed Ishaan's clothes without his permission, but he doesn't mind, who is Radha Bua to object? If my husband likes to cook on Fridays, and my relatives think it is sacrilege on my patni vrata dharma, who they are to object? Even if Suhana doesn't like Ishaan, she hasn't left him. She is staying with him as his wife in his bedroom. Their bedroom. If they wanted to involve the entire family, they could have. But they have not. So it is not best to adopt Badi Maa's approach, rather than Radha Bua's sneaky approach?

Lady....sorry.....but u think Ishaan has a choice??????🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rdfan

That's really nice yaar....rdfan..👏..sorry i am presenting my POV reading to each of others views and had not read yours but posted to one of the earlier lady's postings....
.....seeing your statements....now feel u have allready quoted somewhat same statements as mine.....so i guess my POV is not wrong there........😳
Edited by laxmi_s - 15 years ago

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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Everyone's post: ... 😊

Ishaan's home is free for all. Everyone comes in and goes out of each others room without permission as such. Except Suhana's room today, I do not usually see anyone's door shut, except night I suppose. I believe Radha bua doing things on her own is kind of the usual routine there.

Plus, Radha bua did hint about giving Ishaan some space, which she did not get. Unlike Badi Maa, Radha bua is of a different nature ... so she went ahead and did what she thought was right. And, in that house, there is no privacy as such, or mera and tera thought.

In real life, the house like that is not the norm. If someone would have disturbed me when I am reading a book, I would have banged their heads. 😆

Edited by an12345678 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: laxmi_s

Nobody's POV is wrong to say the least cause its an individual's own choice and way of thinking and to voice it is no crime either
And if everybody thinks the same way there wud'nt be a discussion and sometimes someone else's POV can ring a bell and lead to a change in one's own POV.......
Atleast this show is making us all think ..........
Edited by rdfan - 15 years ago

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Posted: 15 years ago
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The way she handled the matter, it can be said, it was irritating. But I want to praise Suhaana for her patience and understanding. She didn't reacted the way I was expecting.👍🏼
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rdfan



Ladymacbeth, rdfan, laxmi, Yaar mere doston.. mereliye kuch tho bachaake rakho... aap log sab kuch kehdiya... mereliye kuch bacha hi nahi kehneko,,,,😆😆😆😆

Edited by vishmewell - 15 years ago

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Posted: 15 years ago
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LOL LadyM....you posted a rant about it here too?? Man, you really are frustrated about this issue....LOL
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well I think Radha Bua had given a hint before Suhana left for her Pagphere that she would be moving Suhana's unwanted clothes into a suitcase so that she can make some space for Ishan as well in the cupboard. Its just that Suhana dint hear it somehow as she was excited that she was going to her 'maika'. So Radha Bua presumed Suhana was ok with it.
And anyways, I wonder how Suhana dint think that the room primarily belonged to Ishaan, so DEFINITELY Ishan had some rights in the room (atleast a small place in the cupboard 😆). Its funny how she took over the entire room and pushed Ishaan to one side 😆 (like how Britishers slowly took over India 😆)! God knows when Ishaan's 1947 will come 😆!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Yeah...! I was positively horrified at this too !!
I mean at that moment I expected Suhana to raise up a storm...How could she touch her wardrobe?? I mean I hate it if sumone touches my cupboard...!
Suhana should henceforth keep it locked...Infact I assumed she must have kept it locked...But ofcourse...she mustnt have imagined anyone trodding into the room and re-arranging her cupboard...!
It was super-annoying !!

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