Do you sympathize w/ Sushma's...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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The above question isn't about whether one sympathizes w/ Sushma in wake of her being hit by a car - that's assumed.

Question is - did you feel sympathetic towards Sushma when everyone in class was teasing her since she was pregnant? Or did you feel that it was her chickens coming home to roost?

On the yes side, it's valid to say that nobody should be subjected to that sort of treatment in a school environment, and that it was the duty of the school authorities to brief the class in advance, and let them know what sort of behavior was unacceptable. However:
  • It's disruptive to have pregnant women in classes where the students are almost all minors
  • There were other alternatives for Sushma, such as correspondence courses, just like what Sudha did
On the no side, here are a bunch of factoids about this:
  • If Sushma is in this situation today, it's largely her doing. Last year, she thought nothing of breaking the law (never mind betraying her sister) when she married Brij - a marriage which would have been illegal if taken to court. And she put that all above her studies. Well, guess what, once you marry, you open yourself to the possibility of getting pregnant, which is what happened. And now that you need your education, you have to put up w/ the consequences of that decision
  • Given the way she behaved during her marriage, it's her chickens coming home to roost.
  • For those not driven by the justice of it all, one could look @ it as it being another experiment in strengthening her resolve
So are you sympathetic towards Sushma, or gleeful @ what she had to go thru in class?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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No, I don't.

She needs to complete her education, but pl first either abort the child OR give it up for adoption.

Why do you want to be reminded of your violent past with this baby? Even more serious is the fact that the baby is going to grown up and grill you when he/she is older. We all know what happens to such psychologically affected kids. Children need to grow up in a loving and secure environment to become productive and good citizens when they take over the earth from us. Sushma is going to give birth to another little brij!

Why do you want to keep the bridge which will link you to a past best forgotten?

Ditto goes for Jyoti.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I have no sympathy for Sushi coz of what she did in the past. She is facing all that is happening now coz of her own bad past. But I find the classmates chasing part a bit too much. Her punishment would be to stay in her maayka and get daily doses of insults from Poonam and see Padma always take the side of Poonam. That will teach her ..

Jyoti used to be a good problem solver in the past but these days, she isnt solving any problems.. she is just asking for more by putting her own family members in trouble-inviting situations... So I am losing sympathy for her as well.. When her own family members (except Dadi and KK) aren't fully supporting her decisions, why support them?

Jyoti should move out to Dadi's village and take KK with her.. and do some simple job to feed 3.5 ppl... (0.5 for the kid within) ..Let the other Sharmas face their own problems and find their own solutions..get out Jyoti.. otherwise, I will stop showing sympathy for your situation as well..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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though Sushma had done mistakes..but i think what was happening with her in school or what happened to her ( Thakral case & all) was enough as her punishment .......These creative should show some punishment for CM & Pankaj
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i feel srry for her cuz atleast she was married atleast she didn't have a baby without being married she did it in a acceptable way!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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She need's to complete her studies.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well everyone's deeds do come back to bite them..tht is what sushma is facing now..and high time she stops whining so much abt it and start doing sumthng..having said tht,the school authorities shud have taken atleast the step of informing the class abt her situation..i remember my school princi always mentioning if there is any particular prob wid a kid and leaving a hint to be sensitive,of course this situation has never happened..happened in medical college tho,bt thts different,we were all older by then..i still feel correspondance wud have been more suitable for sushma,and tht jyoti or her dad shud have thought of tht..the idea of finishing her education is very noble,bt the means to achieve it kind of nullify tht..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well, this question is quite complicated.😕😕 It's quite difficult 2 give the answer in plain yes or no. if we go back towards the start of the serial. We can find a young girl named sushma who's completely fond of her jyoti didi. She wud listen 2 only jyoti. Jyoti was her real hero or idol in that sense. But things changed as suddenly 1 day she met that cunning brij. She fell in love with him. She proved love is blind. She developed blind faith in him. He betrayed her. Now was that her fault. She's a small teenager who doesn't know anything about the outside world life. She loses herself completely in front of brij. Brij takes the chance turns her against jyoti.

In this case, it's difficult 2 put the whole blame only on sushma. She was a kid only at that time. Now if a mature detective like person jyoti can get trapped in brij's love then how cud sushma escape. Even KK was a huge fan of brij who thought he was the best man 4 jyoti. Not only sushma but every1 was in the favour of brij.

But not 2 forget how she behaved with jyoti. She said the meanest words 2 her even when she didn't know she was her step sis n after knowing it, situation bcame even worser. Jyoti bcame her biggest enemy. Why only jyoti, she didn't even spare sudha who had nothing against her. Brij ke pyar mein paagal hogayi thi sushma.😳

Now sushma has changed in2 a gud girl. She listens 2 her jyoti didi. She hates brij now. But now she's suffering high time. Now that's she's pregnant n suffering in the class being humiliated by the students. Yes, I sympathize her. Coz in pregnancy state a mother shud remain happy but she's being tortured. I feel sorry 4 her now. Had she been suffering the same way when she was mean, rude n everything, I wud never sympathize her at all. In fact, I wud b the happiest person 2 c her being tortured at that time but not now.😲

I really feel sorry 4 her coz her child's father is brij – a hardcore criminal minded person who's in jail. I wished she had an abortion. I don't see a bright future 4 her child. When the child will grow up n face the world, this cruel world will keep on asking abt his father. I'm so angry with jyoti 4 wanting sushma 2 have the child. This is simply ridiculous. Sushma has such a bitter past. Her child will make her remember her past. Sushma shud not tell any1 n abort the child. 1st complete her education, get a job, b independent, then wait 4 what future has in store 4 her.😲

why did i call jyoti detective - coz she was the 1 who found out who the thief was in the vashist family when the robbery took place n she also found out who was the person who was trying 2 throw acid on sudha's face!⭐️ she shud bcome a CID in my opinion😉
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Loved your post, Vick Rocks.

In the evening when I go for a walk around my block, I see small bunches of teen girls and at times overhear their conversations. It is sad. Discussions are generally related to some boy who they love and are willing to throw off their parents for this person.

Walk by a teen boys group and talks are generally on cricket or some sport, and if it is on girls, it is generally more 'time pass'. Sad, but the level of commitment that the girl friend is having is not being matched...and in my opinion (at my age of 35) it should not be.

To eat (and EVERYONE needs to eat), you need money. To earn that you need to develop some skill set, and to do this, you HAVE to get educated. I support the fact that Sushma is getting educated.

On the other hand, I do NOT approve of babies which have no future being born just for the heck of it. It is hard enough to raise kids when you are two committed parents. Try it single handed and it is living hell. What does Sushma plan to do if the baby is sick (and yes, babies do fall sick!)? What does she plan to do when she goes to admit her 3 ur old in school? (and yes, you need to fill in the dad's name). Does she plan to give another bhashan? What abt Jyoti? She is sure to give the principal a headache about the form and how unfair it is to demand the dad's name!

WHat I am trying to say is that real life is hard enough when things are normal. If you try to make your family even more dysfunctional, life is nothing but hell. The biggest baggages in such cases are babies born without love.

I support Sushma is getting a education, but I don't sympathize with her. I definitely do NOT approve of underage mothers.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes offcourse, everyone makes mistakes!! she regrets it now, so why not!

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