Do you sympathize w/ Sushma's... - Page 2

Originally posted by: mahmansma

Loved your post, Vick Rocks.

In the evening when I go for a walk around my block, I see small bunches of teen girls and at times overhear their conversations. It is sad. Discussions are generally related to some boy who they love and are willing to throw off their parents for this person.

Walk by a teen boys group and talks are generally on cricket or some sport, and if it is on girls, it is generally more 'time pass'. Sad, but the level of commitment that the girl friend is having is not being matched...and in my opinion (at my age of 35) it should not be.

To eat (and EVERYONE needs to eat), you need money. To earn that you need to develop some skill set, and to do this, you HAVE to get educated. I support the fact that Sushma is getting educated.

On the other hand, I do NOT approve of babies which have no future being born just for the heck of it. It is hard enough to raise kids when you are two committed parents. Try it single handed and it is living hell. What does Sushma plan to do if the baby is sick (and yes, babies do fall sick!)? What does she plan to do when she goes to admit her 3 ur old in school? (and yes, you need to fill in the dad's name). Does she plan to give another bhashan? What abt Jyoti? She is sure to give the principal a headache about the form and how unfair it is to demand the dad's name!

WHat I am trying to say is that real life is hard enough when things are normal. If you try to make your family even more dysfunctional, life is nothing but hell. The biggest baggages in such cases are babies born without love.

I support Sushma is getting a education, but I don't sympathize with her. I definitely do NOT approve of underage mothers.

thanx mahmansma. well, i agree. even i don't approve underage mothers. sushi is too young!😲 no matter whatever lecture she gave in the classroom, it's just not practical. it's nice only to hear such things, the reality is far bitter. she can't give lectures all the time. ok fine she wants 2 face the world... but what abt her child. her child will b faced with many questions. her child may get affected psychologically due 2 the ill comments passed on by pepl. after all, nobody can make every pepl shut their mouth.😕😕

why only sushma, i don't c a bright future even 4 jyoti's baby. jyoti is not characterless. we know that. but how will she prove the world. especially after her statement given 2 the court that she's been living separately from pankaj for the past 1 year but still pregnant. she doesn't care! but her child will have 2 face so many questioning eyes of the world! the world call the child a bas***d. they'll ask abt his/her mother's character. it's so painful 4 a child 2 go thru all this.

i hope they're not in the making of another Sudha... who's mind got psychologically affected as a kid n later on developed in2 a mental disorder.

Mahmansma & Vic

Fully agree w/ your posts. Tonight, if Sushma is offered the option of adapting out her baby, I hope they show her taking it. In addition to promoting women adult education, the show can also promote adaption, and emphasize how it's better for a kid to be adapted into a fully functional family rather than be captive in a dysfunctional one.

But I just don't know whether to expect that of Sphere Origins.

Sushma should pick her life and complete her education and be self-dependent rather than cursing herself for her past. She gets very irritative when she starts sympathizing herself and blames self hurting others at home.

Originally posted by: mahmansma

Loved your post, Vick Rocks.

I support Sushma is getting a education, but I don't sympathize with her. I definitely do NOT approve of underage mothers.

In today's episode, after school, this woman met Sushma and inquired about her health. She asks her to take proper care of herself, and offers her a wad of cash, and asks if it's adequate. Sushma responds that it is, and assures her that she'll contact her if needed. The lady assures her that she won't let any problems enter Sushma's life (See 2:45 onwards)
The only reason for Sushma to be doing this is if she's agreed to adapt out her baby. Without arguing the pros and cons of adaption, I do think that in Sushma's situation, she's made the right call.

And despite what I said yesterday, I actually like Sushma's classmates being friendly w/ her, despite her condition.

So mahmansma, looks like Sushma's gotten your message 👏

I enjoyed Sushma's retaliation against Bhairavi yesterday. 😛. It was hightime she was given back. Sushma has made a huge comeback with her behaviour yesterday. Great Going!!!!