Sadhana MUST learn a lesson:Mod's note on PG42 - Page 29

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu

</div>He had no say then coz he was a kid.
<div>He has no say now coz it's his fault he disowned Sadhna. If he hadn't they would work together to help Ragini win AND save Kaushi. No Vasu and her deals would come in between.


And once more...Sadhna did NOT make a deal! 😊



yaar don't u think Vasu managed to do all this bec. of Sadhna's weakness? bec. NOBODY knew abt vasu's plans & intentions , the only person who knows it, Sadi, never told anyone abt it...or is it bec. Sadi was feeling guilty abt giving statement against Ranvir 😕 she didn't wanna hurt mummyji more.. 🤢 she wanted to fulfill her dil ki tamanna tht Alekh should marry mallika 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Nu_Adu


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It was a deal to Vasu. For Sadhna it was just the last option to run to hospital with 5 lakh rupees in the shortest possible time frame.

As for those signatures...she had complete faith/belief that Alekh wouldn't care about them and those papers would end up in the waste basket sooner than it took Vasu to create them! 😊


So..NO DEAL! 👍🏼



i still think ke if she went to ragini instead of vasu tht day and just tell her ke maami is in hospital, ragini would have gone running with the 5 lakh rupees which she just won..... no matter how much she HATED Sadhna, Ragini wouldn't have thought ke Sadi is cooking up a story of maami's brain clot ! and if Ragini was not listening, at least Ranvir wud have LISTENED To Sadi and told Ragini..Sadi was not taking his calls during the competition..why ? 😕
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

except Aalekh didnt throw the papers in garbage and took it too darn seriously.

honestly, If Sadhna thinks that was her last option, then she indeed made a deal.


We would like to think Sadhna didn't think of it as a deal, then what did she think of it as? A last option that is not a deal but somehow will make a bewakoof out of Vasu?


Sadhna had confidence that Aalekh would not sign the papers, however, She severly misjudged his state of mind, which didnt even challenge the divorce.



made a bewakoof out of vasu 🤣
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Posted: 15 years ago
I am speechless..................I think I got the gist of what the topic is about but have not read all 35 pages....too long..LOL 😆..........here are my two senses.........
I don't think its fair to say that this misery is Sadhna's own fault. I think its a group effort.......from Ragini.....Alekh....Kaushi.......Venu....Vasu.......
first and for most.......She never wanted to sign the papers........thus she refused strongly the first time she was offered by Vasu....that in itself proves a big point. We are also forgetting all her other attempts to obtain the 5lak.......tried to ask Malika........worked day and night to win the dance contest. So, when she lost she had no other choice.......it was life and death situation........and she picked LIFE.........if you listened to her words after Alekh screamed the living daylights out of her......."she said she didn't expect this from you Alekhji"......she didn't expect this behavior.......she truly believed that Alekh would not sign and come ask her.........which he didn't. I think we have to realize that she was going to loose which ever way she turned.......I think the one that should be held responsible for everything here is VASU!.........knowing that the mother of her daughter in law needs money for a vital operation.......she still puts up a deal in front of Sadhna??!!!!!........she should be paying for it herself...........that is disgusting.................life sometimes leads you to doing many things that you don't want to and situation are created where there is no way out.......so..........I wouldn't blame sadhna alone......she did what she could to the best of her abliity................and maybe this misery is her own cause..........but she has not complained bout it......she has not asked anyone to help her win back Alekh.........she is not asking for anyone to feel sorry for her.........Ragini and the rest of the family are taking it upon themselves to bring back the happiness to that one person that has brought them many happiness..........so there is nothing to be blamed here....because she isn't complaining.........to blame sadhna is like a mother jumping in to save her drowning child when she her self doesn't know how to swim..........we can ask many questions and point fingers at that mother.........but all that is washed away for one reason...she loves her child.....she did what came to her mind first......she didn't think of other ways or what can happen.......if the mother drowned..is that her own fault for trying and dieing? if her child drowned is that the mothers fault because she didn't try?......whe you deal with life and death you think at the moment...not before not after
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: _charu_


i vouch for Sadi's goodness ....but she's a classic example of goodness minus smartness..u will get everybody's sympathy but ppl. will use you, walk over you and u will not even know ! i sometimes get confused with the definition of selflessness...selflessness means not caring for ur own happiness? but when the same person becomes selfish for others then ? sadi doesn't want anything for her but wants Ragini happy , hence this mess..there akshara did the same for nandini..

the scene is slightly blurred here..i'll not go into the past, Sadi's intentions can never be doubted..she's NOT a gold-digger...she genuinely cares for everyone around her..whether she's taken a right decision or wrong decisions in life, she stands by it and nibaofies it with full conviction , dedication and heart...and i really admire her for this...

now for the divorce..Sadi had all the reasons to divorce Alekh BUT she never wanted to do it..AT THAT MOMENT , she signed the papers for money..IF she wanted divorce from Alekh ,she would have talked to Alekh first, tell him that his mom came to her with the papers and want her to sign it , but THEY should mutually decide whether they wanna seperate or give another chance to their marriage..she cud have done this BEFORE the dance competition ......If Alekh had not given a satisfactory reply, nobody wud have pointed a finger on her as to why she did what she did that day..then there was no need to wait for the competition also..she cud have signed the papers and got the money much earlier.......

she just keeps everything to herself , i dun think Alekh & Sadi had a conversation after they seperated..even if she didn't wanna consult him , the man deserved to be TOLD ke Sadi wants a divorce and the reason for the same....if Sadi really wanted to divorce Alekh ,why didn't she tell her maamaji tht vasu came to her with the divorce papers? or anyone for that matter? even NOW when the truth is out in open, just for a fake promise to Vasu she wants to hide it frm everyone the actual reason behind signing the papers..if she really thought tht her marriage is not working, she wouldn't be joining that painting again...why cry over it then? and she'll not waste a second before going back to Alekh...

now her maamaji also knows ke Sadi is lying coz he saw her crying in front of Alekh's painting..he knows this is only vasu's gameplan , NOT sadi's wish...Sadi's goodness is limitless but if she acts a bit more intelligent, everything will work in her favor..at least not keep so many secrets ..i can't understand her behavior towards Ranvir..he just wanted to help her..one of the very few who cares for her, but for ragini, she was acting rudely with him also ..


the bottomline is that if she wanted money, there were other possible options, she just needed to TELL a few ppl abt it.... if she wanted divorce the CV's shouldn't have messed it up by brining in this"deal" in b/w....



Charu, I agree with you. She doesn't want a divorce at all, Alekh is her life and destiny. She also knows that she has committed a blunder this time and that's the reason why she doesn't want to talk about this with anyone.
There was a scene in the hospital when Vinu asks from where she has arranged this money, she makes some excuse and then she says to herself that please GOD do something so that I dont have to answer this question to anyone.
Alekh got so angry and hurt after seeing the divorce papers but when Mallika showed her the love letter she didn't care at all. Its because Sadhana knows Alekh very well, she knows that he loves her only. That's why she had that confidence in him but she made a mistake that she failed to confide in him before taking such an extreme step.
She had confidence in Alekh that he will surely come running to her when he sees the divorce papers and she will make him understand, but she failed to understand him. As a dutiful wife, her first priority should be setting her husband free from the clutches of her tyrant and manipulative MIL.
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Posted: 15 years ago
i agree with TS that Sadhana signed the divorce paper for all the wrong reasons but even if it is her mistake we should allow her to make atleast one mistake...ek gunaah to khuda bi maaf karta hai 😊...we should not be too critical...give her a break already she is going through a lot and as humans we are bound to take such decisions in life which might not be acceptable to our loved ones and they might feel betrayed .
Although i also agree with some comments that she should not allow Vasu or anyone else to take undue advantage of her majboori and her love for others . She should make her love for others as her strength and not her weakness ki koi bhi use uske pyaar ke karan majboor kar de .
I wish for all the future tracks CTs blend all the goodness with some smartness in her character . This phase of her life has been biggesst lesson for her and definitely she will learn something from all this .
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Bini311



Excellent work...I loved your analysis about how Sadhana hasn't forgotton her Babul ka Aagan....and that's the serial, Bidaai is all about..OMG.....I am simply amazed...I suggest your post this post in RS blog as welll, cos I am not sure even if he has realized what you are trying to say. Good Job. 👏 👏 👏



@ Anu - Thanks...🤗
Thanks Bini. 🤗 will give a thought to your suggestion.
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Posted: 15 years ago
@vishmewell Kya hot topic hai...still going strong...looks like we are heading towards a half century.🤣

Loved your analysis and enjoyed the discussion. 🤗




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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Ice-Thinker

Well Vish ... you may feel like that... but its not neccessary that everyone will accept your POV... people can find your POV full of flaws aswell...


To those who have seen the SUN ... you cannot prove that a tiny bulb is a SUN even if you show it in the most dense of night where the darkness confuses people. Some people have VERY STRONG MINDS ...

As for Sadhna... she is simply the MOST GLORIOUS and positive character in Bidaai. She is tender, and she does step back sometimes ... but that step backwards is just the beginning of a BILLION steps forward.

Let me tell you ... NO MATTER WHAT ARGUMENT was put forward (to which you are completely free, unless it hurts other member's feelings or demeans the character Sadhna or strays outside of the story) ... ALEKH WILL BEG (B-E-G) FORGIVENESS FROM SADHNA ... on his KNEES.

Alekh MUST KNEEEL infront of Sadhna in the coming episodes. I am confident that he will KNEEL ...

Maybe you will not like it?....hope you have a strong heart to bear it.... BUT THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT WILL HAPPEN INSHALLAH~!...😆


My Sadhna Is Blemishless.



It's ok IT we are entitled to our opinion. I like the fact that we all think different and have different perspectives. Unity in diversity 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: --Anu--

@vishmewell Kya hot topic hai...still going strong...looks like we are heading towards a half century.🤣

Loved your analysis and enjoyed the discussion. 🤗




Thanks yaar 🤗 ... iraada nek aur sedha tha... I wanted to stimulate the discussions and tried steering in certain direction. Lekin log kaafi thagde hai... isse kehthe hai real die-hard fans. I enjoyed every post...

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