First Night the most unromantic :(

thks to Simi 😡 the most unromantic night.......both after so many hurdles managed to reach this stage after marriage and here mam is busy crying thinking about her mom and her b'day..........hate u simi.......abhi was so understanding inspite of everything 😭

Simi didnt consider it a night spent with abhi until manju approves. thats why she kept thinking of her. it was really kind of annoying. simi cares sdo much but manju ignores her.

Generally girls feel bad leaving their home and going to a new place. However well she may have known the guy, to start living with him, lots of adjustment is needed. Girls are better these days that parents are just a phone call away and that they can visit their parents any time. In such situations, girls are more relaxed and have romantic mood and the willingness to get intimate with one's husband very quickly.

hi dear,even i feel so ,we cant find the love that she had before abhi 's confession about his love ,now she is ignoring him as if only abhi is mad about her ,thats quite understood that she is mssing her parents and house ,but y is she forgot that even abhi has left his house mom for her sake,as its shown he is such rich guy ,who has left everything for her sake,i think more than simi abhi has lost everything,his house,sis,mom,all the facilities,his cousion bro nakul and dadi ,his job ,his MBA,his vechical,and many more for her sake ,compare to abhi she has only lost her mom ,as its earlier shown that anitha,anuj and neetu dont care for her so there is no point of losing them,her papaji and sis milli r still there for her and now her sis husband omi is also there,poor abhi.i think simi should be happy that such a loving and caring husband by her side and she is still crying.

Yes I too feel for Abhi.But what to do. Thats how the characterisation for Simi and Abhi are.

this cretors are isane they always don't show suhaag raat after a couple get married now simi and abhi did not have suhaag raat and when did anita and anuj have theys cause i have not seen that episode😲😕

Originally posted by: mesimi

Yes I too feel for Abhi.But what to do. Thats how the characterisation for Simi and Abhi are.

at this moment i really feel like going and hitting the cvs. of what they r doinng. realy feel bad for abhi. anyways I used to love simi al lot but now after the way she dismissed abhi for nakul (even its for her arent sake) i started disliking her .

Originally posted by: mesimi

Generally girls feel bad leaving their home and going to a new place. However well she may have known the guy, to start living with him, lots of adjustment is needed. Girls are better these days that parents are just a phone call away and that they can visit their parents any time. In such situations, girls are more relaxed and have romantic mood and the willingness to get intimate with one's husband very quickly.

In Simi's situation, she has none of these options of phoning, visiting and the way marriage happened, being thrown out in middle of night, slept on dhaba charpai for first night and still not yet changed her costume either.

I am sure there cant be romance in the air so quickly.

Give her time yaar..poor girl...poor Abhi, he himself is giving her space.

Originally posted by: RoyalT

<font color="#0000ff">So true. It's hard to get romantic when you have not had a shower, or a </font><font color="#0000ff">decent meal.😳 I think the romance will come in time.Nothing about this marriage has been "traditional". Simi and Abhi will have to make thier own traditions. How about waking Abhi up to his favorite meal on Holi day? I don't hate Simi because she doesn't knowany better. Her whole mission in life has been to please her family/Manju Ji.And Abhi understands this. He is patient and mature beyond his years.With Abhi by her side she can/willlearn. Just give them time y'all. </font>

I agree, Simi has gone through a lot, from her mom declaring her dead, to her sister planning against her. When you feel burdened by emotions, you can't "make" yourself be happy or romantic for that matter. Abhi understands this. He understands the sacrifices Simi has given to be together. Yes, Abhi may have left his house but he has the support of his mom still. RS supports Simi but the trauma of being declared dead while alive is immense!

Would some one make Simi realize that Abhi should be important person in her life. Yeah i agree that family is important but please please please make her realize that she should give importance to Abhi and not to ignore him.