Is it love? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Bee, it is not love. I have studied the concept of "love" in my masters program and often the love we see in Indian dramas and Bollywood films is known as passionate love. It is where there is no real intimacy with the other person, commitment, etc. The love is very frivolus, romantic and with it you will see intense emotions sometimes labeled as obsessive love, puppy love, even a crush. Abhi's behavior mirrors that of someone who has an intense longing to be with someone. If the love is unrequitted then there is emptiness, anxiety and despair. Passionate lovers love and want to be loved in return.

True love or companionate love has far less intense emotion and is combined with a feeling of deep attachment, commitment and intimacy. A couple who are in this type of love are able to engage in intimate communication, develop a mutual understanding and give each other emotional support.

Thus the relationship between Abhi and Simi is not a healthy one at all. Abhi really has an obsessive type of love for Simi whereas Simi's love is non-existent. Neither have reached a staget of companionate love for each other where they can understand each other. If Simi really understood what she was doing to Abhi, she wouldn't be so horrible to him.

Unfortunately, people like this type of love - the passionate kind.

Yup! Such a relation is totally unhealthy. Thats how it looks to me too. I had some hope from Abhi the character but seeing the creatives degrade this character to this obsessive, stubborn brat, I am disgusted and lost all hopes. I think this behaviour of his was too stressed from his challenge to get his roka done and just getting down level by level with roka, mehendi and now this marriage.

Originally posted by: ssree

i agree with all of u . now the story line is totaly shifted form the original one ot simi in demand wiht 3 dulhas 😲😲😲.

not one and 2 but three. she can really do inky pinky ponky and choose the correct alternative . (whos the best) . I am also totally annoyed with this. i really hope they go back to the old story line. what a mess its become now... and v r still watching the show😲😲. stupid us 😡.

Whats the point in getting back tio the original story line
Now even if Simi gets married to Abhi Will she leave her sacrifice obsession !! If she does then what will it be for FCor Love for her husband who was her love before marriage whim she tortured soo much !!
The creatives have done enough damage I hope they can do some reached as how a couple can live in harmony and not have people like Manju, Anita or daggars harrasing them 😆😆

Ok I am going to sleep !! The Maha episode part two will come tomroww ~~~😊

Originally posted by: shanti05

Whats the point in getting back tio the original story line
Now even if Simi gets married to Abhi Will she leave her sacrifice obsession !! If she does then what will it be for FCor Love for her husband who was her love before marriage whim she tortured soo much !!
The creatives have done enough damage I hope they can do some reached as how a couple can live in harmony and not have people like Manju, Anita or daggars harrasing them 😆😆

now what i feel the cvs can do is . they should get married and both of them should face the problems together and not alone ............ oh my head is spinning, if i think more if it .

Sree go to bed like I am abt to do !! thinking abt weither RB will dance Simi ji Mai Aa gaya timorrow my head is spinning😆

Originally posted by: shanti05

Sree go to bed like I am abt to do !! thinking abt weither RB will dance Simi ji Mai Aa gaya timorrow my head is spinning😆

good night .......... 😆 and pls not RB in u r dreams 😆