relationship confusion

hi.actually i wann a very good suggestion.i met one guy three months before and in starting we were very good friends.he was in love with a girl before 5 years..our relationship became very close such that we were sharing all our hapiness ,everything..frankly speaking even he kissed me also.suddenly his first lover cme into his life. so he was very disturbed and he started avoiding me..i dnt knw i have attachemnt wth him to such an extent like i started feeling for him,even i cried a lot..Now they both are very happy..when he was in depress i helped him a lot but no one is there for me.I wann to forget everythng like the moments we had spend together..Please help me..but still he treat me as a good friend but i am very disturbed.i wann him to be happy.
I wann to be happy so i wann to forget him..please helpme.........................

When he was depressed he needed a support....
He got you.......as an alternative......you supported him...
And now he has his Gf back.....why not...he will make you as a friend only na........You will hurt yourself everytime you ll see him.......when you feel for him how can u be friends....
He left you as soon as he got her....thats the signal...
My words can be harsh...but he is so typical......
Comeon...I know its difficult...but leave him now......
You think you will get him again...when he is happy with her...?
you know the answer dear....
A hug from me...🤗
Move on...I will say....your special one is waiting for you elsewhere..😉...

well pratithi did he ever tell you that he loved you... i mean in clear words ...did he ever ....if yes then you need to speak to that person clearly bout your issues and solve them ....if not then the kiss as you said was a weak moment when he missed hi EX the most.....and he found you to be understanding and now that she is back he has got wat he always wished for , while you will be a very special friend for him much more then a friend forever but then ...it will be better for you if you move on in life ....its easy to say move on but i have on through a break up and i know how difficult it is to move on .....but with time every thing will change yes there will be some special person for you too.....and if it is him....he will cum back to you and if it is not....then the right one will cum to you.

Originally posted by: tetuty66

When he was depressed he needed a support....
He got you.......as an alternative......you supported him...
And now he has his Gf back.....why not...he will make you as a friend only na........You will hurt yourself everytime you ll see him.......when you feel for him how can u be friends....
He left you as soon as he got her....thats the signal...
My words can be harsh...but he is so typical......
Comeon...I know its difficult...but leave him now......
You think you will get him again...when he is happy with her...?
you know the answer dear....
A hug from me...🤗
Move on...I will say....your special one is waiting for you elsewhere..😉...

yeah, he kinda used her for emotional support.

i m in love with a guy and even he loves me...we plan to get married and hence we both spoke to our parents. But after speaking to his parents, his parents started demanding for dowry. And even he also took thier side. Now he wants to leave me and go along with whatever his parents says. I don't know what to do...my parents can't afford the dowry that they are demanding so i m completely helpless...

Originally posted by: distress

i m in love with a guy and even he loves me...we plan to get married and hence we both spoke to our parents. But after speaking to his parents, his parents started demanding for dowry. And even he also took thier side. Now he wants to leave me and go along with whatever his parents says. I don't know what to do...my parents can't afford the dowry that they are demanding so i m completely helpless...

rhea...

Seriously, the guy sounds like a greedy pig, and babe he does not love u if he's putting a price on your relationship.

Originally posted by: distress

i m in love with a guy and even he loves me...we plan to get married and hence we both spoke to our parents. But after speaking to his parents, his parents started demanding for dowry. And even he also took thier side. Now he wants to leave me and go along with whatever his parents says. I don't know what to do...my parents can't afford the dowry that they are demanding so i m completely helpless...

rhea...