Originally posted by: -Jess-
Divya.....what an interesting post...!! You missed the WAR yesterday and you came up with this...? *shakes head*
I have a lot to say about the two intimate...passionate scenes....where to start?... Let me see....
What is intimacy?.... it's physical closeness.....why?....because you feel the urge to express your love to the person your madly and deeply in love with.... and a tender human touch is the most beautiful expression of love.... you express your innermost feelings with passionate kiss or soft caress. Ultimately.... it's the feelings that lead you to physical intimacy that matter. It doesn't matter how one couple expresses their feelings while the other.... if the feelings are pure....then how you express them is upto the couple. And I don't understand why MN's feelings were not PURE and SG's feelings are PURE for the physical closeness... it's PURE nonsense to call one couple's love as cheap and the other's as PURE love. Both the couples are in love and were trying to express their feelings.
Talking about the feelings and understandings....In my opinion love is not all about talking....it not all about giving chocolates and flowers....and big display of your love....it's about making your partner happy with simple things that you do for her....love can be small gestures like cooking dinner for your partner....or filling the petrol in her car and making sure the car doesn't run out off petrol when she is driving... or leaving a breakfast on the table for her when she is taking a shower and you are busy getting ready for office.. or bringing a teekhi bhel to manofy your wife. And I have always seen those simple things between MN... they might not talk a lot like other couple...but they express their love and understanding with small gestures like these....and these simple things makes them my favorite couple. I never fall for the big show off of love.
MN talked during the barn scene... they talked about their dream house... their togetherness... thier little husband wife kids play was a clear picture of their understanding. I remember how SG fans jumped on bashing MN's physical closeness as cheap... I remember we even posted the post about the feelings that lead to that closeness. But people still keep themselves biased with their favorite couple.
See the pics....
If the first is cheap....then the other is cheap too....and if the first is pure...then the other one is pure too...
So my stance of intimacy is that we should not judge other's intimacy...it's their personal thing....and it's upto them how they express it. Fortunately for MN fans AB and RP always present their intimate scenes with decency...and that makes the scenes beautiful......😃