When should Sandeep marry?

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At what point do you think Deepu should marry?

Vrish

@Vr15h

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Posted: 15 years ago

Precap to Jan 25th

Padma & Deepu are having an argument regarding his marriage. Deepu angrily tells her that until he has sorted out things for both his sisters, the question of his marrying doesn't arise. Padma asks him whether he plans to stay unmarried if his sisters never get back to their sasurals, and Deepu asks her how she can think such a thing?

He then stops, and both of them turn around, and (what else?!) - Jyoti is there, looking shocked at them, having overheard every word!

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I see Deepu's point, but problem here is that whenever Jyoti or Sushma hear such things, like out here, they think that they are either unwanted at home, or a burden. As it is, it's w/ great difficulty that they got either of them to return home (or else, Jyoti might have stayed w/ Kalpana), and now, Deepu, not Padma, risks inadvertantly giving them the impression that as long as they are there, his troubles aren't over, and ergo, he can't marry.

In Jyoti's case, while there is a possibility of Pankaj relenting at some point and calling her back, in Sushma's case, her returning to Brij is the last thing they want. So what exactly does Deepu mean? Does he want them to re-marry, and if so, who does he expect to marry them? It would be one thing if they were both childless, but both of them are knocked up, making them singularly unattractive as potential wives to anyone other than Pankaj or Brij. Also, both of them are still wearing their mangal sutras, which he has to get them to lose.

If he doesn't expect them to re-marry, then what? In Jyoti's case, he can hope, but since he's heard that Pankaj is not even interested in his baby, why does he think that there is anything anyone can do for him to call Jyoti back? And in Sushma's case, what's his solution? Send her to Brij's relatives, who she presumably doesn't know, and who don't know her?

So question: when should Sandeep marry? (Assumption: he's found a girl he wants, and who wants him)

Edited by Vrisha - 15 years ago

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Samirah Hossenbux

@samirah23

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Posted: 15 years ago

Sandeep should marry when he's financially fit to take a wife. Right now (as Jyoti had before - and no one was upset that she was the only earner), he's the only provider for a full house, and two babies on the way ...

Unless someone else is going to work and bring in money, how can he aford a wife - his wife will only resent the family and her husband for not being able to support her.