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I never read all these till now....
First of all, every moderator is first of all a member. He.she will have her own favourites, there is no harm in that. I personally feel if any moderator says that he/she is neutral, it cannot be, it is not possible. Everyone will have a favourite. But the important stuff, when someone holds a neutral position like a moderator,he/she has to give it a try to remain neutral..this is difficult but not impossible.
A moderator is meant to lead a discussion when something is going astray. But it is completely not found in these days' Bidaai forum. In one hand, it is said that young people visit this forum, although there are adult topics open. I have always watched Bidaai as a neutral viewer only to fall in more and more love with Sadhna's character. If someone reads my posts in RS blog, that person will understand that I speak only about character. My discussion has no inkling to actress Sara Khan.
It is after all a show, as many people will say and try to laugh it off. But is it so simple? Dont we face these type of real-life situations...we have to deal with different types of people...this discussion is getting a light nature by giving names like Ragvir or Salekh fans... this forum should be a place for the entire Bidaai team and not any particular fan group...although labelled as Salekh fan, if someone gets through my posts, I have opened many posts which have no connection with Sadhna... I made posts for Natasha Rana...People have plagiarised my words, I complained to mods, Kiran wanted to follow it up, but I didn't have time for following it up...
I'll conclude with one real-life example... when a no-confidence motion was passed by opposition party against India-US nuclear deal... there was a person from the opposition party who was then the speaker of the parliament. His name was Somnath Chatterjee, a veteran communist leader. His party instructed him to vote against the gov and leave the post, but if anyone remembers what his reply was...that a speaker is a neutral position and that he, as a speaker, does not belong to any group.
So, the mods should try to act likewise..all our mods are young people, there have long way to go...but there is a saying "morning shows the day"...if one makes his/her character strong from a young age, no storm can waiver the person when he/she faces real life challenge... one can get over two bad vices that India is facing now...nepotism and corruption...
I have no grudge against Sanjana, I made this post just to put an end to what is going in Bidaai forum because I felt it was not right..many new members came in and left, anyone who wanted to say good about Sadhna's character has been made mockery of....
I informed Sanjana that I'ld be knocking the doors of higher authority of india-forums about this issue...she was well aware that I was going to do this...
Also, thanks for recommending my name as a mod...I do not have time to take up any such responsibility....thank you
Best
Bani
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