Abhi plz do not hate me!!!

If simi can tell abhi she wil tell him abhi plz do not hate me because I love you but I love my family more as I have know them for 20-30 years.

Originally posted by: ramas

If simi can tell abhi she wil tellnhim abhi plz do not hare me because I love you but I love my family more as I have know them for 2-0-30 years.

My papaji wil be heart broken and shattered. if my leaves. he may pretend to be stron byt i know him He wn't be able to live without my mom.

Abhi is thinking very rationally and realize all this is his sister's evil mind's by product and decides to help simi . Even though he is hurting so much he decides to repay for his sister's crimes against her in laws and may be plan to seaprate him from simi

We think simi is master manipulater and using abhi to do all her work. But simi loves him and trust him and knows he is the only one who can help her. Simi told him not to ask for her hand. How can aloving daughtter lieave her father or even talk about her happiness when his own life is being shattered. plz put your self in simi's sitation and think hard. Is she using abhi to hurt him or is she acting this way to destroy him.

Simi is desperate and looking for the only thing she can hold on to save her family. She is even hurting more than abhi does as she is also hurting the man she loves. If not she had returned the ring. She wants abhi with all her heart and she proved that.

If abhi was aware about anita's situation he would not have told simi did I force you to love me.

What i still dont understand is why is she worrying so much about abhi asking her hand? why does she assume that she wll have to leave her family? cant she still solve their problems even after this? Who's getting married tomorrow? all abhi wants is formally telling everyone about them...
I agree abhi is being a little too persuasive about doing this but that doesnt justify simi's behavior of taunting him..that was just uncalled for ... she could have quietly explained to him the situation when they were in the kitchen but teasing hm means she disrespects his wishes....

Originally posted by: pjwa

What i still dont understand is why is she worrying so much about abhi asking her hand? why does she assume that she wll have to leave her family? cant she still solve their problems even after this? Who's getting married tomorrow? all abhi wants is formally telling everyone about them...
I agree abhi is being a little too persuasive about doing this but that doesnt justify simi's behavior of taunting him..that was just uncalled for ... she could have quietly explained to him the situation when they were in the kitchen but teasing hm means she disrespects his wishes....

i totaly agree and true simi is not thinking rationally. But then she has too much to worry at the moment with nitu manju and anuj anita. Being an older sis she feels she has to slove all before she cna think baout her happiness. Als may be she does not know whether manju or rS will over react to the stiuation or even manju taunting her while getting rid of your brother you are thinking about your happiness behind our back making us all miserable.

Thank you Raskha... I totally agree ... simmi is in a tough situation... she needed to be smart to handle this situation ... she knows how manipulative anita is but its her own brother that she cannot figure...

Originally posted by: ramas

i totaly agree and true simi is not thinking rationally. But then she has too much to worry at the moment with nitu manju and anuj anita. Being an older sis she feels she has to slove all before she cna think baout her happiness. Als may be she does not know whether manju or rS will over react to the stiuation or even manju taunting her while getting rid of your brother you are thinking about your happiness behind our back making us all miserable.

May be she is worrying needlessly. But we know manju she may even kick abhi out.

I agree they might over-react to the sitation and manju will definitely have somethign to say...but that just tells me simi's scared to face the circumstances... also, she worries about everyone but doesnt really have the guts to stop what's really going on.....neetu might still run away and anuj might get what he wants...In fact, i think if she tells abhi her problems, he will definitely see to it that they are resolved :)....but that's just my take on this... i guess being elder has its pros and cons....

Raksha repeatedly Abhi has told her WE can do things together !! Is he mad to leave all the things he can have in life to be with this 29-30 year old.. He is doing all this for her but yes in return he was something which is lets help your family together. Your father is concerend abt your future Simi and he wants to see you setteled I am ready to hold your hand and lead you to the path of happiness.. Weither it is to get your brother back in the house or explain to Neetu what she is doing is ot right or make Vicky understand that society will not accept an unmarried mothger..

Abhi is capable and confident that he can help Simi thorugh all this then WHY is she not understanding this !! She is just going round the bush..

OK even if the roblem with Anuj and Anita is solved what next Nakul's proposal will come to her Will she have any reason to say no to the proposal

If she had let Abhi ask RS her hand o hld for life long and even if Manju had walked out of the house These two together cud have resloved issues and made RS realise that Anuj may have been deserted but you still love him and he is your SON

Now even if Abhi asks for Anuj back in the house as his woish from RS what next Neetus issue .. In the precap they showed Neetu has ran away from the house What will SImi do run to Abhi for help

Maybe ths wud'nt have been necessary if she and Abhi worked together on this issue once they are officially together

BACK again the CV's are beating around the bush .. These issues will be coming up again and again and it will NEVER resolve and Simi will either ave to be forced to leave i,e Marry Nakul and Abhi has to be out of the picture forever

Originally posted by: ramas

i totaly agree and true simi is not thinking rationally. But then she has too much to worry at the moment with nitu manju and anuj anita. Being an older sis she feels she has to slove all before she cna think baout her happiness. Als may be she does not know whether manju or rS will over react to the stiuation or even manju taunting her while getting rid of your brother you are thinking about your happiness behind our back making us all miserable.

May be she is worrying needlessly. But we know manju she may even kick abhi out.

Raksha how much will she worry tomorrow neighbours will cme and talk arrey yeah 30 saal ki ho gaye aur shaadi bhi nahi hua and then again it wil strike her o Yes I am a burden in thois house I shud get married to anyone soon and get myself out of the house.. Will she be able to explian to them I have to make sure my brother and my mom are happy and my sister Neetu is either arried to the babys father or she aborts the child..
Her worries will never end if she dose'nt put a full stop I mean CVs don't stop using her like a pendulum

Simi my disappointment in the series really bothered me then I will not look behind it will not find a better result

Originally posted by: sray76

Thank you Raskha... I totally agree ... simmi is in a tough situation... she needed to be smart to handle this situation ... she knows how manipulative anita is but its her own brother that she cannot figure...

I wish Abhi wont leave her side as that way Anita will succeed... let them come back home but anita not succeed... anuj understand....manjuji understand.....

Please creatives no family is soo bad....that they dont see through the evil.... anita is soo evil doesnt understand what she wants... anuj is soo stupid doesnt see how is prey and tommorow anita will just drop him and go away... and she will have nothing to loose...

but have to say what an excelent actor Neil is and so is Smriti... the pain was visibly felt....

yup they both excelled today, I don;t think abhi will leave her bcos he will figure it out this is all anita's doing. Most likely he will go to anita and ask her to stop her dirty deeds.