why at simi's throat when problem isn't her? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Regardless of how Manju and Anita are, Simi does not have to act the way she is acting. There is no execuse for that kind of behavior. She's pathetic and feeding in to their garbage and too blind to see the avenues she has available. She acts as though she is on some higher moral ground but fails to be good to those who have helped her and continue to help her. I think that is digusting and doesn't make her any better than either Manju or Anita.

The sentences I have underlined make no sense to me so I have not commented on them. Perhaps you might wish to clarify them for us.

"Simi loves abhi and wants to proect him from her mother's fury" Where on earth did you derive that from?? 😕 And don't you think Abhi can take care of himself. And what happened to telling someone something? And why deman someone to protect them. Stop trying to make excuses for her behvavior and just call a spade a spade. Manju is not going to like him no matter what Simi does, so why all the berating of Abhi? She wants to put him off her? I hope she succeeds and let me find someone more deserving of him.

Raksha she needs ti see Abhi busy with something else and not give her attention and let her resolve things herself ..

THis is will be the best medicine for her

Originally posted by: bee5

Since Nakul is Abhi's boss now, once she marries Nakul, she will be boss' wife and hence, he will be her employee (indirectly) too! She was telling, like employee run errands for their bosses, he might also have to run errand for her since she is also the boss!

Basically hurting him to the core .. poor Abhi yaar ... I can't get over those tears today .. bechare bachche ki zindagi karaab kar di yaar.😡

Wondering where u were missing in action

Originally posted by: shanti05

Wondering where u were missing in action

Originally posted by: shanti05

Raksha she needs ti see Abhi busy with something else and not give her attention and let her resolve things herself ..

THis is will be the best medicine for her

Originally posted by: ramas

Laila simi was horrible no doubt taking cheap shots at him to stop him from revealing. what simi has done in no doubt unacceptable, But this is not going to kill their love. Neithr abhi ws going to lok for anoter girl. Ye sh ehs been hurt so badly and he trulydid not deserve this from simi or any one after all sacrifices he made. But relationshis are formed when both are ready to take plunge. and simi even though accepts abhi is still not ready. May be she needs to see someone with abhi to realize how much he means to her,

That's a pity has I have not seen anything in the show that depicts "love" on Simi's part. If I was a guy I would have dumped her in a heart beat. I was telling some guy friends on FB and they were like, what a baitch. She should take a hike. And these a really nice guys. It's a pity the writers don't have Abhi looking for another girl. Until he does, only then will Simi learn anything. I mean Abhi never used any cheap tactics with her. He could have called fat, plump and old (hope he does), perhaps then she'll know what it's like. I am sorry, but there is just no excuse for Simi's behavior. And if she's hurting, it never showed.

What you mean about Abhi is still not ready? He got a frigging job, a flat, he sold his car, he did everything she wanted. She asked him to take her out of his house. What the heck, he's not ready. Where in heavens name do you derive all these ideas from?

Originally posted by: bee5

Totally agree.

and it was a such a cheap thing to do by her and the creatives .. These kinds of tricks were used in 70s & 80s movies yaar ... didn't the creatives get any better idea?! Making the hero hurt by the heroine so that he forgets her? Atleast in movies, the heroine would want to do bcos she has to marry the villian .. here Simi was doing it for such a lame reason and she is neither giving him up or accepting him ! All the way, she wants to win.!! And to stop him from asking hand did she have to resort to such disgusting tricks ..! How pathetic ...😡

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Simi's reasons for trying to dump Abhi are so lame it's pathetic. It's not like she has to marry because her family is in debt or that she is being threatened. She's doing it because she thinks her family cannot handle it as there is so much Manju-Anuj-Anita drama going on and Neetu-Vicky. So what? At least talk to your father. If she didn't want Abhi to ask for her hand in marriage, she should have sat down and told him the truth. What's with all the secrets from the one who has protected your secrets in the past, been there for you and also loves you. He's not going to betray you - he's offered to help you. If Abhi is supposed to be a friend, isn't that what friends are for?

Abhi had no clue that Anuj and Anita are moving to their own place how wud Simi expect Abhi to know!! They planned somthing they say smthing to Abhi and another thing to Simi and third thing to Manju is Abhi exected to know all these things
Kya he has t do jassosi ..

Even if she told him on the phone not to ask her hand for marriage atleast if she had told the state of affairs in the house he could have help around gettinf a solution.. He is such a mature guy ( which Simi dono why she dose'nt realise) that he would have helped her get a better way of convincing Anuj Anita Neetua nd Vicky and above all Manju

Now after solving the problem with Aa and Manju next is Neetus pblm Abhi will be sent to go and chanse to searg where Neetu has ran away
Poor Guy dose'nt have his jeep also Kaisay doonday ga !!😆

Originally posted by: shanti05

Abhi had no clue that Anuj and Anita are moving to their own place how wud Simi expect Abhi to know!! They planned somthing they say smthing to Abhi and another thing to Simi and third thing to Manju is Abhi exected to know all these things
Kya he has t do jassosi ..

Even if she told him on the phone not to ask her hand for marriage atleast if she had told the state of affairs in the house he could have help around gettinf a solution.. He is such a mature guy ( which Simi dono why she dose'nt realise) that he would have helped her get a better way of convincing Anuj Anita Neetua nd Vicky and above all Manju

Now after solving the problem with Aa and Manju next is Neetus pblm Abhi will be sent to go and chanse to searg where Neetu has ran away
Poor Guy dose'nt have his jeep also Kaisay doonday ga !!😆

You know wht Abhi should not pick up simis phone and not even help her for the time being atleast. this way he can show his anger on her.

Originally posted by: shanti05

Coz we can't get to anyone elses throat 😆😆😆
Well jokes apart but She sees it that way Raksha !!

Has Simi sat and talked to her mom or made her mom understand or tried to tell her mom hey mom let us both go talk to Anuj you talk to him abt what you want to say I will represent dad and give his pov AND TELL HIM WHY HE ASKED YOU TO LEAVE

Has Simi told her mom abt Neetus condition and she likes a boy and wants to settle with him maybe she can cover up the pregnancy part as it will not be appropriate to bring it up or let Neetu talk with her mom

Inspite of knowing soo many things she has'nt thought of telling her family You want to unite the family but as an individual you cannot do everything since everyone has their own POV but share the problem are try to unite and then approch a member who has been seperated in the first case Anuj wud resolve the problem and no one will be at Simi's throat.. She is not tactful in doing things and falls in a bigger mess

Here Abhi wud'nt be of much help since he tried to get Anuj to come for dinner

Soo I see it that way

I like that and yes simi does not know how to handle situations and always fall in big mess and than abhi at rescue. But the problem is the ppl who creates problem are either stupid or cunning. like Nitu and manju both are totally irrational and stupid taken by cunning ppl .