why at simi's throat when problem isn't her?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I do not understadn why are we at simi's thorat when problem isn't her or abhi. The problem is manju a stupid insensitive mother and wife. She should have pooja a th ehr her house for getting back a ahop and she hsould worship and honor abhi for that.
Instead she looks away inslulting him.
Does maju even care if they have food to eat or place to stay. I mean how stupid. 2nd problem is anita and anuj. But no one blames them. Ye abhi came to help but how was he treated my manju?
She ignored him like he was an enemy. and she with her opne harm ready to accept her off spring who can and will make her life living hell.
I don;t know why we can't see simi doing all this to prevent pain. Would she bale to take abhi being insulted by him mom and asked to leave their house.
or she may insult simi in front of abhi and say bad things.
Let simi has her and abhi's respect intact as she does not want to look bad in front of abhi. or called names. Why don't we all balmes situation created by anita and a stupid manju traped in it being misery to entire family.
Simi loves abhi and wants to proect him from her mother's fury. Abhi may not feel as bad about what simi says; but she knows abhi will feel bad if manju or RS says bad and may not step in her house again. like first time manju asked him to stay away he did and refused to come in.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I'm really a big fan of Karolbagh..But slowly this serial is losing its charm..Too much of anything is not good and it applies to Simi's character..Whatever mistakes ppl do, Simi is the one who suffers. Its slowly moving away from concept of entertainment. We hardly see ppl laugh or smile in thisepisodes recently..I'll try to hold my patience for few more episodes for Abhi, but not for long:)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

I do not understadn why are we at simi's thorat when problem isn't her or abhi. The problem is manju a stupid insensitive mother and wife. She should have pooja a th ehr her house for getting back a ahop and she hsould worship and honor abhi for that.

Instead she looks away inslulting him.
Does maju even care if they have food to eat or place to stay. I mean how stupid. 2nd problem is anita and anuj. But no one blames them. Ye abhi came to help but how was he treated my manju?
She ignored him like he was an enemy. and she with her opne harm ready to accept her off spring who can and will make her life living hell.
I don;t know why we can't see simi doing all this to prevent pain. Would she bale to take abhi being insulted by him mom and asked to leave their house.
or she may insult simi in front of abhi and say bad things.
Let simi has her and abhi's respect intact as she does not want to look bad in front of abhi. or called names. Why don't we all balmes situation created by anita and a stupid manju traped in it being misery to entire family.
Simi loves abhi and wants to proect him from her mother's fury. Abhi may not feel as bad about what simi says; but she knows abhi will feel bad if manju or RS says bad and may not step in her house again. like first time manju asked him to stay away he did and refused to come in.

Coz we can't get to anyone elses throat 😆😆😆
Well jokes apart but She sees it that way Raksha !!

Has Simi sat and talked to her mom or made her mom understand or tried to tell her mom hey mom let us both go talk to Anuj you talk to him abt what you want to say I will represent dad and give his pov AND TELL HIM WHY HE ASKED YOU TO LEAVE

Has Simi told her mom abt Neetus condition and she likes a boy and wants to settle with him maybe she can cover up the pregnancy part as it will not be appropriate to bring it up or let Neetu talk with her mom

Inspite of knowing soo many things she has'nt thought of telling her family You want to unite the family but as an individual you cannot do everything since everyone has their own POV but share the problem are try to unite and then approch a member who has been seperated in the first case Anuj wud resolve the problem and no one will be at Simi's throat.. She is not tactful in doing things and falls in a bigger mess

Here Abhi wud'nt be of much help since he tried to get Anuj to come for dinner

Soo I see it that way

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bindus123

I'm really a big fan of Karolbagh..But slowly this serial is losing its charm..Too much of anything is not good and it applies to Simi's character..Whatever mistakes ppl do, Simi is the one who suffers. Its slowly moving away from concept of entertainment. We hardly see ppl laugh or smile in thisepisodes recently..I'll try to hold my patience for few more episodes for Abhi, but not for long:)

Bindu we all are . they have truly runied the best character. Simi should have told abhi to leave and tell him that she will talk later . she will tell him everything. Rather than hurting him so much. But i guess the creatives like the drama with big blasts. more on the way I guess.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

I do not understadn why are we at simi's thorat when problem isn't her or abhi. The problem is manju a stupid insensitive mother and wife. She should have pooja a th ehr her house for getting back a ahop and she hsould worship and honor abhi for that.

Instead she looks away inslulting him.
Does maju even care if they have food to eat or place to stay. I mean how stupid. 2nd problem is anita and anuj. But no one blames them. Ye abhi came to help but how was he treated my manju?
She ignored him like he was an enemy. and she with her opne harm ready to accept her off spring who can and will make her life living hell.
I don;t know why we can't see simi doing all this to prevent pain. Would she bale to take abhi being insulted by him mom and asked to leave their house.
or she may insult simi in front of abhi and say bad things.
Let simi has her and abhi's respect intact as she does not want to look bad in front of abhi. or called names. Why don't we all balmes situation created by anita and a stupid manju traped in it being misery to entire family.
Simi loves abhi and wants to proect him from her mother's fury. Abhi may not feel as bad about what simi says; but she knows abhi will feel bad if manju or RS says bad and may not step in her house again. like first time manju asked him to stay away he did and refused to come in.

Regardless of how Manju and Anita are, Simi does not have to act the way she is acting. There is no execuse for that kind of behavior. She's pathetic and feeding in to their garbage and too blind to see the avenues she has available. She acts as though she is on some higher moral ground but fails to be good to those who have helped her and continue to help her. I think that is digusting and doesn't make her any better than either Manju or Anita.
The sentences I have underlined make no sense to me so I have not commented on them. Perhaps you might wish to clarify them for us.
"Simi loves abhi and wants to proect him from her mother's fury" Where on earth did you derive that from?? 😕 And don't you think Abhi can take care of himself. And what happened to telling someone something? And why deman someone to protect them. Stop trying to make excuses for her behvavior and just call a spade a spade. Manju is not going to like him no matter what Simi does, so why all the berating of Abhi? She wants to put him off her? I hope she succeeds and let me find someone more deserving of him.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Girls I did'nt what Simi said she is the boss and he is just an employee !! WHen over the rof can anyone explain what she was refering when Abh said he got a job
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

Girls I did'nt what Simi said she is the boss and he is just an employee !! WHen over the rof can anyone explain what she was refering when Abh said he got a job

actually that was a horrible thing to say. may be double meaning. she was trying to say as nakul's wife she is the boss or may be she is the boss in their relationship. It was a very cheap shot to take at abhi to hurt him. even tell RS about mirchi was bad thing. Simi at all cost wanted to stop abhi from revealing their realtionship at this point and she used very mean tactics to do that. 😡
This was just like abhi calling her anuj's mom 😡
Edited by ramas - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laila2009

Regardless of how Manju and Anita are, Simi does not have to act the way she is acting. There is no execuse for that kind of behavior. She's pathetic and feeding in to their garbage and too blind to see the avenues she has available. She acts as though she is on some higher moral ground but fails to be good to those who have helped her and continue to help her. I think that is digusting and doesn't make her any better than either Manju or Anita.
The sentences I have underlined make no sense to me so I have not commented on them. Perhaps you might wish to clarify them for us.
"Simi loves abhi and wants to proect him from her mother's fury" Where on earth did you derive that from?? 😕 And don't you think Abhi can take care of himself. And what happened to telling someone something? And why deman someone to protect them. Stop trying to make excuses for her behvavior and just call a spade a spade. Manju is not going to like him no matter what Simi does, so why all the berating of Abhi? She wants to put him off her? I hope she succeeds and let me find someone more deserving of him.

Laila simi was horrible no doubt taking cheap shots at him to stop him from revealing. what simi has done in no doubt unacceptable, But this is not going to kill their love. Neithr abhi ws going to lok for anoter girl. Ye sh ehs been hurt so badly and he trulydid not deserve this from simi or any one after all sacrifices he made. But relationshis are formed when both are ready to take plunge. and simi even though accepts abhi is still not ready. May be she needs to see someone with abhi to realize how much he means to her,
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

Girls I did'nt what Simi said she is the boss and he is just an employee !! WHen over the rof can anyone explain what she was refering when Abh said he got a job

Since Nakul is Abhi's boss now, once she marries Nakul, she will be boss' wife and hence, he will be her employee (indirectly) too! She was telling, like employee run errands for their bosses, he might also have to run errand for her since she is also the boss!
Basically hurting him to the core .. poor Abhi yaar ... I can't get over those tears today .. bechare bachche ki zindagi karaab kar di yaar.😡
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: shanti05

Coz we can't get to anyone elses throat 😆😆😆
Well jokes apart but She sees it that way Raksha !!

Has Simi sat and talked to her mom or made her mom understand or tried to tell her mom hey mom let us both go talk to Anuj you talk to him abt what you want to say I will represent dad and give his pov AND TELL HIM WHY HE ASKED YOU TO LEAVE

Has Simi told her mom abt Neetus condition and she likes a boy and wants to settle with him maybe she can cover up the pregnancy part as it will not be appropriate to bring it up or let Neetu talk with her mom

Inspite of knowing soo many things she has'nt thought of telling her family You want to unite the family but as an individual you cannot do everything since everyone has their own POV but share the problem are try to unite and then approch a member who has been seperated in the first case Anuj wud resolve the problem and no one will be at Simi's throat.. She is not tactful in doing things and falls in a bigger mess

Here Abhi wud'nt be of much help since he tried to get Anuj to come for dinner

Soo I see it that way

I like that approach of yours Shanti. That was very good. But you know sometimes people don't really welcome someone talk to them. Manju is one such person. It happens in real life also, we want to talk but are so petrified whether the person at the receiving end is welcoming our 'talking' to them. I see Manu also being like that .. she is totally irrational (doing hunger strike for a son who has stolen from their home) and wouldn't allow anyone to talk to her ...she did that even today when she cuts of RS and says I have packed my clothes. But, well, Simi could have tried your approach. Try karne mein kyaa jataa hain!
About Neetu's problem.. Simi really didn't do much .. She just decided that the boy was not good bcos he didn't respond in time and he impregnated her sister out of wedlock as if it was none of Neetu's mistake?!
yes, I agree she could have hidden the preg fact. She just decided that that guy is not good and didn't need to talk to her mom about it. Even if she talks, Manju wouldn't agree for getting Neetu married before Simi's unless the truth was revealed to her. And Simi has no clue that Vicky is infact a driver! If she had known that , then she definitely wouldn't have talked maybe?!

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