Mom I don't want to die. - Page 5

Originally posted by: Linux2.6.27

neetu must be killed.

I thought life was valued?
if abortion is killing a baby, what's justified about killing a person?

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Okay first, She was saying consequences of mistakes that might result in health related problems. Nothing about abortion.

& Killing a living kid or "slum boy" is different from killing a fetus. There is no comparison at all! Aborting an unborn and killing a kid are totally different! The member wasnt saying that we should kill the kids...she was saying we should take CARE of those kids who live in poor conditions. Why are you taking different meanings out of it? I also believe that those kids should be taken care of instead of ADDING more kids to that miserable life.


How about we start adopting the kids that already exist? Parenthood is about raising kids, not giving birth to them.But if it is born we normally raise it.No matter what the situation is?Here the baby is also born.


True, except some people that cant take care of their kids leave the kids in orphanages. Some even kill their own babies after giving birth to them! Some leave their kid with their parents and run away. There are also other instances where the baby isnt raised by the birth parents. Whats wrong with adopting kids? The child doesnt necessarily have to come from the womb to feel love for the child. There are so many helpless kids out there that dont get love...and some people dont want an abortion but they dont want the kid either. So they go to the orphanage and then there are more kids out there without parents

Originally posted by: rainabow

This kind of inflammatory language is what makes this debate so contentious. Jonaki, why do you bother to apologize, yet continue to use the same kind of hateful language and post links that promote your agenda (which you do have)? Your apology is empty if you continue to refer to those who have had, plan to have, or would have abortions as being murderous or killers.

I am pro choice because I do not believe parenthood stops at giving birth. I also believe in the autonomy and wisdom of women to make the best decisions they can, without me or anyone else initializing them by telling them what they can or cannot do.

India is not a country where people talk openly about sex. It is very possible that despite being educated, Neetu wouldn't know her options regarding contraception. She lives in a very conservative and gossipy community. At any rate, Neetu is human and humans make mistakes. If you have lived your life without making a single stupid mistake, congratulations. But most of us have. For some of us, the consequence might be monetary debt. For others, it might be a health-related problem. For Neetu, it is an unwanted pregnancy. I'm so tired of this uppity self righteousness and constant passing of judgment. Some of it sounds exactly like the kind of snarky remarks those gossipy neighbors make.

Personally, in a country where millions of children are living in such poor conditions, eating garbage off the street, and forced to live like street rats, I would rather see THOSE children taken care of than adding more to the pile. Our existing children are suffering so much. Some are in orphanages others in slums. And yet there are so many people promoting that we continue breeding like animals and bringing even more poverty-stricken kids into our already overpopulated world. How about we start adopting the kids that already exist? Parenthood is about raising kids, not giving birth to them.

I lovee what you wrote here....i have to agree with all of it!
Its everything iwas trying to say :D

i am also pro-choice. Everyone should do whatever they want to. Who are others to judge and point fingers? The woman is the one that's going to go through all the pain, depression, and birth. If you're not the one carrying the baby, you have no right to point fingers. EVERYONE makes mistakes. We're humans if im not wrong lol.

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

I am so happy that Neetu has decided to keep the baby.I was sure that she would realise the importance of keeping the baby.Now I think nobody will have any problem as it is her personal decision.

It's her personal decision to keep her baby. Would you respect that decision if she had chosen to have an abortion on the show and realize that she was not ready to raise a child as a single mother?

Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

I am so happy that Neetu has decided to keep the baby.I was sure that she would realise the importance of keeping the baby.Now I think nobody will have any problem as it is her personal decision.

o please stop...if she had decided to abort the baby u wud have spent another 10 pages labelling her as an unfit mother..

Originally posted by: anu rulz

o please stop...if she had decided to abort the baby u wud have spent another 10 pages labelling her as an unfit mother..

Originally posted by: Laila2009

It's her personal decision to keep her baby. Would you respect that decision if she had chosen to have an abortion on the show and realize that she was not ready to raise a child as a single mother?

Jonaki, without realizing, you just said what we've been trying to say!

It's Neetu's "personal decision" & it shouldn't matter if she chooses to keep the baby or not.



Now I think nobody will have any problem as it is her personal decision

I agree...since it is her decision, we are happy for her and we're not going to argue. We never said that if someone decides NOT to have an abortion, we will have problems with it. We dont have problems with keeping a baby at all! We're just trying to say that it should be the choice of a woman to do what she wants. ----> Pro-Choice

Originally posted by: anu rulz

o please stop...if she had decided to abort the baby u wud have spent another 10 pages labelling her as an unfit mother..

Thank you Anu for saying that !! You brought a Big smile on my face!!😃
1 more post, that falls under the category where I wish I had double, triple 'Like' buttons !! 😊

Btw the onus was not on Vicky to carry protection, it's as much the woman's responsibility to arrange and ensure protection as the man's.