Mom I don't want to die.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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It is said-GOD can't be everywhere so he created mothers.
Motherhood is the biggest blessing in a woman's life.It makes a woman complete.It is the most sacred feelings in one life.

It is proved that a baby can feel its mothers warmth when she is in her mother's womb.She can feel the love of her father and the whole family.She feels protected when the mother prays for her.She wants to come to the world.She want to be in her mothers's arm.She deerves to be loved,to be cared,to b protected.None have the right to snatch her rights.She is a form of God.None have the right to kill God.It's not her fault that she is unwanted.It's maybe the biggest sin to kill a life.How can anyone kill an innocent?So what if the baby is not born yet?Killing is a sin no matter whoever it is.In modern world people consider killing animals as a sin then how can they abort their own child?Even wild beasts love their babies.They grow furiuos when we go near their child?then how can we humans kill our baby?

Can you kill your baby?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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That is a pro-life view. The pro-choice view is that every child deserves to be born into a loving, financially and emotionally stable and mature family. Unfortunately, some people make some stupid choices, or an accident occurs, and they are not able to provide this environment for the unborn child. The mother may not be emotionally mature or financially secure or she might not have the support of the father. In such cases, abortion may be justified. Or, take the even more extreme case, if the mother's life is in danger. Can you trade one life for another?

Just providing the other point of view guys.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think dats enough of neetu-vicky..plz..show bit of simi-abhi scenes,...i enjoy the bachpana of abhi and the sweet muskurat of simi....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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this can open up whole new sets of questions, I agree why can't they want to keep the baby, But considerting the fact that Nitu has nothing and so does vicky. How will they raise a baby. they thought they were jut having fun without realizin that this can serious conseqynces, They could hae use the protection. I guess both Nitu and icky were naive and caught in a momment of passion now being punished for mistake.
Neither Vicky nor nitu knows seriousness of their action. Other wise vicky doea not have stolen that car on impulse nor did nitu sat in the car and gave her all the guy she barely knew or bother to get his phone number.
This is tough question do or don't? but keeping the baby how will raise it? What if vicky does not marry Nitu? then where Nitu go to hide her pregnancy and have baby? They hardly can survie where would they get that kind of mney to send nitu away? and who will raise the baby?
Even though there is fault of unborn and killing unborn is sin. They have no choice. Unless some one come faorward to marry nitu and accept the baby if vicky has cold feet.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Neetu and Vicky are not child.They are matured enough.Didn't they thought about the consequences before taking that shameless steps.Why did Neetu not eat emergency contraceptive pill?No matter what reasons you give Neetu and Vicky are criminals.Their act can never be justified.I hope Mili comes to know about all this things and pour some sence in Neetu's brain.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Neetu and Vicky are not child.They are matured enough.Didn't they thought about the consequences before taking that shameless steps.Why did Neetu not eat emergency contraceptive pill?No matter what reasons you give Neetu and Vicky are criminals.Their act can never be justified.I hope Mili comes to know about all this things and pour some sence in Neetu's brain.

I agree . They are . and no justification denies it, But the fact remains both are irresposible impulsive human beiings who do stupid things. True they should have taken precaution before and after but neither of them bothered about it. What is done it done. May be Nitu will keep the baby and vicky will marry her with the baby who knows.
let us hope vicky comes there to stop the abortion. I am 100% pro life and understand that killing an un born is a sin. and how precious children are
But under some circimstances one has no choice but to get rid of unborn as we live in a society were unmarried pregnent mothers are considered a shame on family and society and ppl will not let them live in peace if and when it is discoverd.
That is why it is important to provide kids with sex education and what it can do if the safe measures are not taken before having it,
Edited by ramas - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Even it weren't about being an unmarried mother and bringing shame to the family, I would still think abortion is a better option for couples like neetu and vicky. They do not stand anywhere right now, Vicky is a driver (and a partime thief lol) and neetu is unemployed. In addition, they are very impulsive, irresponsible and immature people.
Agreed, they are old enough to know the consequences of their actions but they don't. They should have used protection but they didn't bother or they just didn't care. This tells us how careless they are. A child born to such parents can only suffer. It would a bigger sin to bring the child in this world and then not being able to raise him/her.
Abortion would be a better choice in this case. It is better to kill a person immediately then giving them a slow and painfull death. If Neetu and Vicky are sinners for aborting the child and not taking responsibilities of their actions, they are also going to be sinners for having a child and then not being able to raise him/her in a healthy environment.
And this is regardless of whether they are married or not. They (Together or individually) are just not "ready" to have a baby right now. That is why there is a thing called family planning lol
Edited by BoredAtWork - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Just a clarification, although the morning-after-pill does not technically cause an abortion, it has three modes of function one of them being the prevention of implantation of a fertilized egg, which is not technically a fetus, but certainly on its way to being one. Some may think this is sinful too! The morning after pill is also not 100% effective.
It is interesting that the creatives have not addressed the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. In a country where the rate of HIV infection is so high and rising, HIV and other STDs should be addressed; TV is a good medium for this since so much of the population watches Hindi serials.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: -JONAKI-

Neetu and Vicky are not child.They are matured enough.Didn't they thought about the consequences before taking that shameless steps.Why did Neetu not eat emergency contraceptive pill?No matter what reasons you give Neetu and Vicky are criminals.Their act can never be justified.I hope Mili comes to know about all this things and pour some sence in Neetu's brain.




One problem in India is that they dont teach all this in schools...i know all about the emergency contraceptives & family planning and all that. But that is only because they taught us in school. If they didnt, i wouldnt know anything about sex, protection, std's, etc.


My opinion on abortion is different.
I do believe that if you have sex, face the consequences
but i also believe that everyone has their own personal life & if you're not involved in it, stay out!
If my best friend tomorrow wants an abortion or something, i'd ask her "are you sure?"
& tell her the pro's and con's & if she still wants one, i'll support her.

There are some people who just cant raise kids! How are Neetu & Vicky going to raise their kids without a good financial status? It would be a sin to bring that kid into the world and not take care of the baby properly. Sure, people can give their babies up for adoption, but there are tons of kids in the world that need parents, why add some more? Why give birth to a baby if you're not going to keep him/her.


I also think its wrong to abort, cause its killing a soon-to-be life
But thats my personal opinion & im going to keep it to myself & not force it on someone.
BUT, i've never been in a situation like Neetu's so i cant say that im against abortion whole-heartedly.

I'm all about abstinence for myself....but if tomorrow i did get pregnant
i have no idea what i'll do. I know that i'll consider a abortion. Heck, im 16! !hat am i gonna do with a baby?
If i abort the kid, i'll regret it/ think about it for the rest of my life.
If i dont, it'll ruin my life forever.


Im just wondering, if you're a girl & you're really really young & get into the moment & have sex and end up pregnant. What would you do? Think about in seriously...like if it actually happened.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: KAHLU

Just a clarification, although the morning-after-pill does not technically cause an abortion, it has three modes of function one of them being the prevention of implantation of a fertilized egg, which is not technically a fetus, but certainly on its way to being one. Some may think this is sinful too! The morning after pill is also not 100% effective.

It is interesting that the creatives have not addressed the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. In a country where the rate of HIV infection is so high and rising, HIV and other STDs should be addressed; TV is a good medium for this since so much of the population watches Hindi serials.



i just want to talk a bit about the morning-after-pill (and no, you dont have to take it in the morning, you can take it right away)
The emergency contraceptive(EC) needs to be taken within 24 hours...& NO its not an abortion pill. I've heard many people call it that who are against abortion. Right when we learned about it my teacher told us this first...its not an abortion pill! Lol i didnt want to talk about this but here i go...Sperm stays in the body for 5-7 days and it takes a while for the sperm to get to the egg. If you take the pill, it prevents the egg from being fertilized.


This is the only type of pill available specifically for emergency contraception in the United States (sold under the brand names Plan B, Plan B One-Step, and Next Choice). Progestin-only pills can reduce your risk of getting pregnant by 89% (What does that mean?). You are also less likely to have side effects if you use these pills for emergency contraception.

Link---http://ec.princeton.edu/info/ecp.html

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