The Poor of India this Winter, a recognition

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Imagine the troubles this winter will bring to the poor and needy, specially the ones at the lowest point below the bottom line of poverty!

Indian winters can be chilly, specially in the northern and north-eastern parts. To have an idea of how poor a big share of Indians are, one does not have to be a genius.

We have street urchins all over Delhi. Just go to some of the more NICHE spots of the Capital, and you will be surrounded by them, often without cloth (of with rags, if lucky) asking for the left-overs you probably will have. They dont let anything go to waste.

These children often are abused to the extent which is difficult for some of us to imagine. They are catastrophically deprived. And they are in very high numbers, all over India. They penetrate even the most POSH of areas, and they cannot be just pushed away, perhaps due to their sheer numbers, their reality cannot be denied.

This winter many will die. Undoubtedly. Many will shiver and with hunger will tie stones to their tummies (very usual, to try and keep hunger away). Others will get cramps, frost-bites, or just loose their ability to remain alive. Some will pray to grow up, enough old to be able to manage some mercy (sometimes in return of letting themselves being abused).

Their mothers, as helpless as they are, will send them away to manage something for herself and themselves. They will wait outside the DELUX Cafe's of Delhi. For a glimpse of mercy.

From my personal experience, when I came Delhi first time after leaving for UK. I had Julia with me (she being a white, European)! Right when we came out of McDonalds and were about to get into our cars, she was surrounded by these angels, pulling her jacket, growing in numbers. Horrified she hurried to get into the car ... but her eyes later had tears. She felt for these kids ... That day I should've had those tears in my eyes. That day I felt ashamed. After all these years, now we found them again, different faces maybe, but they were the same angels in distress.

How can we, Indians, no matter where we are, manage to sleep cosy in our blankets ... while our children (yes they are our children) remain shivering in the streets. Their numbers being massive. Much more than our privileged next generation (who often remain unaware, or are taught to be indifferent).

Are we doing enough? Should we (I am not talking only about the government) consider ourselves as failures?

Where is solace? What is the color, of this winter?


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Its sad but what are the factors responsible for this? I would like to add one point here that though we see these ppl in such miserable condition they are not all that unhappy as we think ! Surprised? I have noticed many of these street children happily playing & skipping once the begging was over esp at the street light corners . May be they have got used to their condition, or perhaps happiness is no ones property. It visits the rich & poor alike.
This is not to say that I approve of such deprave living conditions. I certainly dont ! The govt & some samaritans have been trying hard to rehabilitate these ppl but many of them do not co operate. Its a very complex situation. It has multifactorial reasons . May B we shud discuss some of the reasons for these cond . Both society & individual contribute t this. We cud also discuss ways to help.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: angie.4u

Its sad but what are the factors responsible for this? I would like to add one point here that though we see these ppl in such miserable condition they are not all that unhappy as we think ! Surprised? I have noticed many of these street children happily playing & skipping once the begging was over esp at the street light corners . May be they have got used to their condition, or perhaps happiness is no ones property. It visits the rich & poor alike.

This is not to say that I approve of such deprave living conditions. I certainly dont ! The govt & some samaritans have been trying hard to rehabilitate these ppl but many of them do not co operate. Its a very complex situation. It has multifactorial reasons . May B we shud discuss some of the reasons for these cond . Both society & individual contribute t this. We cud also discuss ways to help.

I've seen them smile too. But they smile out of their acceptance to their condition. Its not the happiness, but the helplessness which is keeping them bondage. Its not a sign of wisdom to accept every smile of laughter as an expression of joy or satisfaction.

Rehabilitating them is not easy. And how do you think the children not cooperate? They are children afterall. And who will earn for their parents? ... and the growing mistrust and burden of poverty which does not only distort the physic but the soul which sometimes dies out ... can also be a reason.

Look at Europe and other developed nation. No one will approve those smiles of the deprived as happiness. This can only be a protection for the privileged to lessen their guilt.

Yes, its the guilt of a nation. Its certainly our failure (according to me). We lay naked on streets of this world, shivering and unprotected ... We abuse and misuse our own children ... or just simply turn away being indifferent. Those of us who try, are limited. Is it not the responsibility of us all, whoever-whichever one of us who claim a share of the identity India has given us - as Indians.

I think there is no way to name it or disown the straight truth in this painful sight of unhappy hallowness ... present so massively around us.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Just bcoz a person wears rich clothes does not mean his smile is genuine just as it does not mean that every smile of an ill clad man is deceptive.
As for non co operation heres how- There are schemes for rehab of beggars . night shelters, food, new clothes , new blankets, chance to earn a livelihood were offered. Many declined as new clothes hampered the effectiveness of begging. They earned a much larger amt by begging than by working.
There are some ppl who R genuinely miserable & want to improve their lot. These R the ones who can B helped . But U cannot help those who do not want to B "helped "!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: angie.4u

Just bcoz a person wears rich clothes does not mean his smile is genuine just as it does not mean that every smile of an ill clad man is deceptive.

As for non co operation heres how- There are schemes for rehab of beggars . night shelters, food, new clothes , new blankets, chance to earn a livelihood were offered. Many declined as new clothes hampered the effectiveness of begging. They earned a much larger amt by begging than by working.
There are some ppl who R genuinely miserable & want to improve their lot. These R the ones who can B helped . But U cannot help those who do not want to B "helped "!

Maybe they are afraid of change. They dont know if the society will actually accept them. They are weary ... and want to spend the remaining part of their lives like animals.

They go through hell .... its not secret.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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To be frank, I don't like seeing pictures of poor or sick kids no matter how real they are, they make me go round. I don't like wondering how many will die this winter, but how many can be saved and how.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: gumsum

To be frank, I don't like seeing pictures of poor or sick kids no matter how real they are, they make me go round. I don't like wondering how many will die this winter, but how many can be saved and how.

So how many can be saved?

Looking at the true India can be painful. India is not confined to the metropolis.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: angie.4u

Just bcoz a person wears rich clothes does not mean his smile is genuine just as it does not mean that every smile of an ill clad man is deceptive.

As for non co operation heres how- There are schemes for rehab of beggars . night shelters, food, new clothes , new blankets, chance to earn a livelihood were offered. Many declined as new clothes hampered the effectiveness of begging. They earned a much larger amt by begging than by working.
There are some ppl who R genuinely miserable & want to improve their lot. These R the ones who can B helped . But U cannot help those who do not want to B "helped "!

Really agree with this point. I've heard of many rich folk who are genuinely unhappy with their lot in life because they cannot experience true happiness due to the pressures and duties which come with being rich, and also the prejudices which many, including relatives, feel toward them. I've heard of rich folk commiting suicide due to their unhappiness. Not saying that's right, but it happened and it continues to happen.
I'm not saying that I don't feel for the poor. I definitely do, and seeing these kinds of pictures really breaks my heart, but there are different kinds of happinesses and unhappinesses, and the unhappiness we're seeing in these pics is one form.
But instead of simply dwelling on the poor state of the poverty in not only India but other countries as well, we should think about how to help them, or if we ourselves can't do anything first hand, we can donate to the various charities which sets out to help them. The situation today is not like how it used to be yesterday. More and more organizations are becoming aware just how serious poverty has become, and they're doing everything they can, but no one matter how much help is being given out, there is more that needs to be helped.
Like Angie said, sometimes it's hard to help people who don't want to be helped as well, because they become defensive and just don't accept your help.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Just cos people are rich does NOT mean they are happy.
Look at all those rich celebs who have millions of $$ yet are still unhappy in life, commit suicide/get divorced etc. My heart reallyy goes out to those poor kids though, I've been to a lot of hill stations and boyy does it get cold in winter at those high mountain points. Almost as cold as London's winter! lol
You're right, something needs to be done and SOON! Maybe once we can get rid of corruption then we can find some sort of solution to poverty and world hunger where people die of starvation every day. :(
I guess i don't really have much of a solution. =\
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Crimson_Sky

So how many can be saved?


forget it.
Edited by gumsum - 15 years ago

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