Anxiety and Alacrity

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I open this post with a confession that i have only recently turned into a "Bandini" fan. The rural flavour of the story, its blend of characters and the chemistry is astounding, as is the sensitivity visible in its handling of everyday problems. Just writing in to share my thoughts. Anxiety and Alacrity👏👏 - What is in store!
The culmination of a positive relationship between man and wife is one that evokes awkwardness in stages. The november 13th episode is a hallmark episode in Bandini and the subject has been dealt with maturity, humour and tenderness. Both characters are vulnerable in their own way and insecure about how to carry the next part of their relationship forward.😳
DM - insecure about the decades between him and his wife, torpedoed with this new and unexpected passion he reluctantly feels for his wife.
Santu - young, scared and in total awe of her domineering spouse is eager to please him. But set with the mammoth task of competing with the perfect and omnipresent dead wife, she is nervous.
What do the creatives hope to portray with this episode? Lets share?
1. Build a slow saga of a besotted DM slowly wooing his wife?
2. Does age ever impact a relationship built of a foundation of trust, mutual respect and acceptance?
3. Driving the viewers into a frenzy to anticipate and predict the next issue in the Mahiyavanshi household - i think the next one is going to take long with DM, Motiben, Kanji, Maulik and a dead sibling?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Welcome Chalia to the forum.. great post dear👏..
Both the actors rendered the scene with grace.. not a moment of embarassment for thr viewers but all are blushing with them...
They might show how DM falls forhis newly wed wife...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Thanks Ammoos for the ready acceptance into this very active forum. If Ronit Roy is the director of these few episodes i think he deserves a standing ovation for this one.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Chalia, welcome to the forum. You have started with a very thought provoking post. You totally have the essence of this story which has spellbound all of us.

Today's episode was beautiful and romantic without any crudeness or vulgarity. It was very sweet and tender and funny! RR and Aasiya excelled in every moment of the bedroom scene and the direction was done exceptionally well. Kudos to the whole Bandini team👏

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Posted: 16 years ago
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NO more words to describe that scene.. simlpy awesome👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
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this scene was way, way better than anything i had expected to see.
you could feel their physical passion, nervousness, excitement and love. and it was all done with such large brushstrokes of humour.
loved the way she brushed off the invisible mosquito off his back. no duffod this young woman.
these two are so alike deep down, and so different on the surface.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Bingo Gawker! She is certainly no Duffod!
DM i think was first attracted to her maturity which made up for her lack of years. A human (man or woman) needs some intellectual stimulation or the world would be infested with clones of bimbos. And seeing this maturity in Santu was what made that first crack in the ice wall that DM had built around his persona.
I also loved the way Santu just sat on that cot and put her hand out beckoning to DM as if silently saying -- "this is your call! You want me, come and get me!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i think the only thing was embarrassing for both of them that they both have to step into the physical phase!!!!!
if it was only about words Santu is the queen of wisdom and DM himself is the master of sweetness if he wants !
i think Dm is still being arrogant and stubborn thinking after shoving her away all these months how the hell can i initiate the first move of touching her this easily ????!!! ... this is totally against all his rules MR.EGO!!
and Santu is just being the shyfull young bride who's standing between the hands of the GREAT FEARFUL MALIK OF DARAMPOR who's clearly desiring her ! ❤️
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Chaila Welcome the the Forum!
Wow such an awesome post.
I know it was so well portrayed, I was like it is such an awkward transition with everything that has happened in their relationship, and well they have become "friends" as well with mutual respect for each other but they are totally changing the dynamics to their relationship and watching it being shown so well is really great.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Awesome post yaar.. and Warm welcome..You have really put across exactly what I felt ..from day one..Thank you..and will be waiting for more from you..as I feel you put my feelings across very well..as one of my posts has been sent to thrash and no reason is given why because I feel I have not used anything bad abusive or Vulgur word in that..very strange...it is just that...I had just been a little excited about that last scene on Thursday when DM comes close to Santu to ask her to sit on the table & give Nyay as he is his culprit..yes I had used the word.."HOT"..but if that is bad then God ..I cannot post anything here 😆😆😆..

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