Vivek's reasoning

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mittijalebi

@mittijalebi

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

after watching today's episode we get to hear the reasoning as to why he never said anything to hitesh. basically his point was that he didnt want to stoop himself to the same level as hitesh.

do you guys agree with this that if one person is a jaanwar then should the other become one too? or do you agree with mom that he should've at least stood up for himself and said something to hitesh?

i agree with mom that vivek should've let hitesh know that he will not put up with his crap!!!

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mechocoholic

@mechocoholic

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

To some extent I agree, that one doesn't have to lower their dignity to retort to other's advances....BUT...if ur self-respect is being hurt, and the other person is taking advantage of your restraint, then you have to be able to stand up for urself in whatever way possible, so that other's don't call u a darpok...Vivke should have atleast given him something back...wo dus mar raha tha, to isko ek to marna hi chahiye tha.... 😊

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Fatima

@Rhimjhimsawan

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 16 years ago

same! I hate hate hate fights. I am the peacelover in my house. But Hitesh pushed him so many times the least he could do was push him once and say SHUT UP!! I do understand that he was hurt, and I am happy he didn't lower himself to HItesh's level.

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bratz007

@bratz007

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

its ok he was on national tv so he dont want to be lower himself as hitesh .

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sjain

@sjain

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 16 years ago

I agree......he is much more sensible

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Kevin

@orms

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

National TV be damned, I'd have beaten the crap out of Hitesh. Notice, people, even Vivek said today, that because Hitesh doesn't have the guts to pick on Yash, he picked on himself (Vivek.) Vivek, my friend, sometimes to get respect you have to demand it!!!!

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desicrowd

@desicrowd

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

I agree with Vivek, i too am not a person who can fight and resolve issues...If Vivek wud have given back the fight wud have escalated...Hitesh is not a personw ith whom you use any means to resolve an issue, the best is to ignore...

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Samia

@adiroykapur

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

same! I hate hate hate fights. I am the peacelover in my house. But Hitesh pushed him so many times the least he could do was push him once and say SHUT UP!! I do understand that he was hurt, and I am happy he didn't lower himself to HItesh's level.

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Samia

@adiroykapur

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

It's good that Vivek didn't hit him back but yeah he should stand up for himself and tell Hitesh that he wont just take crap from him. Since Vivek isn't doing anything, Hitesh is probably thinking "oh he's such a wimp. He's so scared of me and I can do whatever I want" So, Vivek should at least make him know that he is also capable of doing something, he just chooses not to stoop down to a level of a gunda!!