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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes, Dev is always whom Rads turns to, he is the one who understands her better than she does herself.
he knows she will not say much, but he knows her eyes speak volume, he reads in her eyes as to what she wants where vish and her fly is concern and why. that is why he supported her today. not because he is week. I do not think Rads was taking advantage of him,but she thinks him as her soul mate, a person who understands her and who will support her.

I think they both are each other's strength and support. They both balance each other.

Today, Dev Raj Purohit rose 2 inches more. Way to go DeV, please be there for Rads all the time.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Shelter Radhika by keep supporting her illogical and unreasonable thinking....She will never grow up or mature....
Go ahead Dev and make my day....One day you will come and tell me "Varsha you warned me 😉 Y ou told me so that this marriage is to be doomed but silly MOI I did not listen" 😆
BTW supporting your spouse for the right cause is honor but sheltering her for wrong cause is mere stupidity....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Usha,

Thank you and good post. I think what people want to see in Radhika's character is their reality for some reason, what they would do, how they would behave or what they would act on, how Dev should have been treated, how they would make things all better.

Radhika is a character, this is her story. We might not like what the creatives show from time to time BUT she is her own unique person in her own situation, no one can dictate what Radhika can or cannot do is this situation because our situation and our reality is not hers.

We choose to watch a story and its characters, willing them to come to our terms of reality is what is mere stupidity. From time to time, I think too that how come they make Radhika behave this way but this is the result of years of upbringing, noone has shown Shastriji and Devki to be perfect parents..

As adults we would behave in what we perceive to be is the right thing to do, Radhika is doing what she thinks is right, how Radhika deals with the consequences is to be watched.

I am actually very proud of Dev- Dev is Dev because of his selfless and unquestioning love. I think I wrote somewhere a long time ago that she is so incomplete yet she completes him so......



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Drawing parallels between CB and Mahabharat or Ramayana is also our own wish and thoughts for the show to end up as we like....That is also plain old stupidity...
Lie In name of Dharma even when it comes to sacred bandhan like marriage....wow
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sigrid, Love your post..

I think the reason we all love Dev as he has always stood by his Radh.. Because he has always put his Radh above himself and have always seen that her wish is fulfilled.. and If he did not stand by her unconditionally than He would not be the DEV we admire and love so much?

Dev.. He does not feel used or gets angry in anyway (temporarily he might but than he sees her reasoning and than complies with her) ...

He trusts his Radh and knows in his heart that Radh will always have the best interest in her heart.

He knows that she is so pure and divine in her heart. Always have looked for good in other people and have never complain about anything bad happening in her life..

Many times we think that what Radh asks of Dev is nor fair to him.. but in that she does not ask those thing for her own selfish motives? What ever she does she includes Dev in that because He is the only one she can blindly trust and he is the only one who will come to her side without any reservations?

When Radh does not say anything and just looks at him in silent plea how can he not stand by her side.. He knows that when Radh is asking for help he has to give it to her.. He has to be the reason behind all her happiness.. He has to bring the solutions to her problems.. He does not want Radh to fight alone for any cause.. He wants to stand by her. Cause her worries are his worries.. Her battle are his battle.. Her silent pleas are his problems.. Yes I salute you Dev for being there for your Radh even though it was hard decision for you..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sigrid & Deefan, I applaud you both for standing up for Dev 👏
Many of viewers want Radhika to be the way we are and stand up for ourselves-that for me is not realistic. Radhika, most likely will never do so. We forget that Radhika is not a "typical today's girl." Dev supported his love today-plain and simple as Sigrid said. He sees what some of us viewers cannot.
So, Sigrid, I'm with you on that Salute to Dev Raj Purohit. Within his character, there is a love that most people will never find-maybe that's why we are all hopelessly addicted.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Eva - Dev is undoubtedly Dev. I think it is proven that Dev loves Rad and stands by her whatever may it be. You post itself highlights what people are frustrated about. Flow of love from Dev to Rad - one way. Viewers want to see it happening in other direction too, at least occasionally.
May be Dev was never in such scenario which can highlight Rad understanding of Dev just like he understands her and ACT upon that.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Many of the members don't see as some of the other mature & wiser members who has seen alot in life as women and are speaking from personal experiences or otherwise....
No one wants to just come and bash any one here....especially the characters without any reason...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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What is true love?

It is only giving... not expecting anything in return. It is loving without limits... not worrying if you will get the same. It is losing yourself and surrendering your soul to the one you love... not worrying about your self respect. It is keeping a solemn vow even when you lose faith, it is choosing to stay when you'd rather leave. It can make you laugh or cry, it can let you down or lift you up. It is giving up your dreams to someone else, it is being strong for when you are weak inside. It is all about selling yourself and lay down your life in the hands of the one you love. Thats what true love is.

Isnt this what our Dev Raj Purohit does? He is a true lover... he loves Radhika without limits... he doesnt worry about his self respect because when you truely love someone you lose yourself in love... there is no self respect in love. He supports her to every extreme like a true lover. He cares for her happiness and only her happiness, not caring what damage it might do to him. To my view, he is a man of words... he promised her that he'll take care of her every happiness, he promised her he'll protect her from anyone's bad intention, he promised her to be with her in every step all the way..... and that is exactly what he has been doing.... keeping his promises without hurting anyone else.... whether its family or his Raj Purohit status.

I salute Dev... the lover and the Raj Purohit.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Brishti 👏 👏

Absolutely well said....

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