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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: brishti78



Dabulls, to me love is love. Its not different for god or human. Whether you're loving god or you're love human.... your love shouldnt be differentiated. I respect both, I care for both, I bow myself in front of both..... Thats how I see love. 😊

I respecct that Bristi....
😃I would show same type of unconditional love to the person who is honest and truthful to me especially my spouse....
We both are on same page but are applying it to wrong type of people and personalities....I bet you would not love your spouse unconditionally if they were lying to you of such sort.....Time to be honest here...
FOrgiving is whole different issue after that...we are not talking abt it here...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aviation-ca

I don't have problem with Dev agreeing, that is his greatness... I am just troubled by fact that Rad never stops to ask his viewpoint, opinion... no matter your intention, nobody is saying that Rad intentions are bad or harmful, it is the utter disregard for him that is troubling, expecting him to understand her, agree with her no question asked.... if he is her soulmate, she is his soulmate too, when is she going to realize it... when you are single, you can do what you think is right, no questions, but the moment you are part of an equation, you have to stop that behaviour, man or woman.... for example, Dev need never have asked for her view for HM... even after she said whatever you choose... he stopped by and asked her, wanting her agreement...
That is a bond that is unique in a marriage... to me it is troubling to see this dipicted with so many young unmarried girls watching....

Hi Aviation ... good post
When I watched the show today I did not think that Rad disregarded him ... she did ask him for permission, talked to him and asked him for his support. She did not just walk out and say she would do whatever she wanted no matter what he thought. She reached out for his help. I think it is a testiment to Dev's love and open mindedness that he agreed, though reluctantly, with what she said.
The precap could cause people's blood to boil, though. I think it is misleading ... we do not know what Rads and Dev have talked abt ... is he okay with it now ...maybe his family knows abt it. We are just assuming that Rad is superseding Dev's opinion or feelings in this matter.
I do think they are showing a bond that is unique ... this couple can just ditch everyone and go away and get married. Dev does not need to be RP, Rads does not have to go through the torments of her MIL or Mircha gang or being known as a varna sankat's mom. However, both sides are showing that they respect their elder's opinions and want to listen to them ... upto a point. If it starts going against them ... Dev did stand up and say he would leave his family. They are both the product of different upbringing ... but share a lot in common.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: deefan

Usha,

Thank you and good post. I think what people want to see in Radhika's character is their reality for some reason, what they would do, how they would behave or what they would act on, how Dev should have been treated, how they would make things all better.

Radhika is a character, this is her story. We might not like what the creatives show from time to time BUT she is her own unique person in her own situation, no one can dictate what Radhika can or cannot do is this situation because our situation and our reality is not hers.

We choose to watch a story and its characters, willing them to come to our terms of reality is what is mere stupidity. From time to time, I think too that how come they make Radhika behave this way but this is the result of years of upbringing, noone has shown Shastriji and Devki to be perfect parents...

I guess then a lot of viewers like me , and many who feel upset with the way this Radhika character is portrayed on this show ..............taking advantage of a man madly in love with her and always making him do her bidding cloaked in a spiritual atmosphere , r indeed stupid ?😊 Coz u r saying ' willing Tv characters to come to our terms of reality is mere stupidity ' . Coz there is quite a coterie out here on this forum who read a lot of spiritual , ethereal , out of this world aspect in just two Tv characters .......Dev and Radhika on a Tv show and write oodles and oodles of their perspectiives on it .............so they r willing them to come to their terms of imagination or reality ...........does this make them stupid too ?
So I beg to differ here Deefan . I do not see their perspective as stupid either , neither our attempts to wish sanity in this show as stupid . There is a large number who literally go ooh aah over this Tv jodi and compare them constantly with Radha Krishna...........exactly the way creatives intended , and I totally respect that . And there is an increasing number who have diffrent concepts of love and post their views wishing that creatives inculcate these ideas of love in their next tracks by reading our posts on this very popular forum ............shudn't their views be respected too , instead of defining their attempts as sheer stupidity ?
When there were rumors that the wedding was gonna be cancelled after creatives made us dance by dangling the carrot of Radev moments before marraige ...........all members , ones who approved of Radhika's sacrifices and ones who didnt ........came together to ask the creatives not to do it . I had myself written a post ........Why the Wedding must happen , and it recieved unanimous support . Coz both types of viewers did not want the wedding cancelled . That means all the viewers were willing their wish in a show designed by creatives right ?
There r quite some viewers who were initially loving the way Radhika's character as it was portrayed but each Tv character evolves with diffrent tracks and opinions of viewers undergo many changes . In Ghar ki Laxmi Betiyaan initially everyone loved the spitfire character of Laxmi but later on found her very unreasonable and voiced their opinions on it . In this serial , many started out loving both Rads and Dev .........then slowly found Dev as the steady lover more attractive and with this wedding track , were disappointed to see that in their bid to magnify Dev the lover , creatives r again going overboard and painting him as too adjusting and Radhika as too demanding . So they voiced their opinions , hoping creatives do not butcher these characters in over dramatization..........a common mistake that they do . If u note ..........many viewers r of this opinion .........and definetely they r not stupid or incapable of realizing that this is a serial .
In Fact they love CB as much as those who regard DEv Rads bas contemporary Radha Krishna on this forum . Maybe .........just maybe thats the reason they visit this forum so much and post so much ..........not to ' bash ' as they have beenn unfairly accused of often , but to wish to make a diffrence and not to allow this show to go down the drain ? Has this ever occured to so called CB loyalists ?
So I request those who hold opposite views........do not get irritated with us and dismiss us as ' stupid' . And do not consider our frank posts , written keeping all forum rules in mind , as " bashing ' . I do not consider the imaginations of those on this forum as Rad Dev's love as ethereal as stupid at all . If our posts offend the involvment of some with this serial , we truly r sorry . Just remember we too love CB.......as much as u guys do .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Rajshri,
I agree with your post. Today's episode was good as Radhika did not demand from Dev to forgive Vishaka. Even when she came out, she kept quite and only spoke after Dev asked her to speak up. Also, she showed that her actions are resulting due to her being grateful to her family. It is another thing that she has more than repaid her family.
I just don't like tomorrow's precap, but maybe this is after she has a conversation with Dev or it is something different than what we are assuming. I truly hope so.
I liked Dev's character today. Initially, he was very angry. Later, he was upset but relented to some extent. Actually, it is great that he saw Vishaka today. Now, he will be prepared for the worst for his wedding. I still think Vishaka is pretending to be good,but she is here for some other purpose. Even though she was never shown to be evil, but she also was indifferent towards Radhika's feelings. So, this is a drastic change for her. Hopefully, when she shows her true colors, Radhika will stand up to her.
I think sacrificing for your family is good and forgiveness is a great thing. But, you should not sacrifice to the extent for a dubious character (Vishaka) that may cause hurt to somebody who is good (Dev or Daadi). Besides sacrifice, one also needs to be just as told in Geeta. As Radhika is shown to be Kanha's devotee, she should be aware of that. She can forgive Vishaka, but should not impose her views on others.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ameen................ KoolSadhu you sure are Cewl.....👏
BTW I am not at all sorry for voicing my opinion...It might not be someone agrees to....I am no pundit and my opinion might not be seeked by others....I stand alone...The posts I like I applaud and the ones I dont agree to I respect and put my own thoughts across....
I am very confident in my views b/c it has many many yrs of life experiences and wisdom.....Might not draw parallel to mythological stories but I sure can relate some of these issues to real life events I have witnessed in my short mature life 😃
Edited by Dabulls23 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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koolsadhu, you misquoted me and I resent that....i have not called anyone stupid.

I said: We choose to watch a story and its characters, willing them to come to our terms of reality is what is mere stupidity.

I include myself in the category of people watching the show and many others- for and against Radhika's and Dev's present actions. The fact that we try to see our sense of reality on a TV show with characters is stupidity. I never called any person stupid...




Edited by deefan - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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this is an awesome post
thank u so much for this

and i completely agree ith you on what you said
dev and rads are each other's strength,,,
and dev will always support rads with everything....

RaDev rocks
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree Rajsri that she asked his support, but she had already taken the decision, at this point it was too late... would she have sent Vish back if he still insisted? I don't think so... remember the sequence.. Dev is angry, he tells her ask her to leave... she comes in room, Vish says should I leave because Dev is angry, Rads says don't worry, I will talk to him, then she goes out and talks him around... the problem is she gives him no choice but to agree with her... just like she isn't given a choice in the shastri household, she in turn doesn't give Dev a choice.. it is an unhealthy relationship...

there is a term in physcology about this condition where an abused person in turns treats the person who cares about them in the similar manner they were treated... we are seeing a form of this...
I am hoping that this behaviour changes during/after marriage...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: deefan

koolsadhu, you misquoted me and I resent that....i have not called anyone stupid.

I said: We choose to watch a story and its characters, willing them to come to our terms of reality is what is mere stupidity.

I include myself in the category of people watching the show and many others- for and against Radhika's and Dev's present actions. The fact that we try to see our sense of reality on a TV show with characters is stupidity. I never called any person stupid...






I totally agree deefan. We all discuss and write what we think and feel.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: deefan

koolsadhu, you misquoted me and I resent that....i have not called anyone stupid.

I said: We choose to watch a story and its characters, willing them to come to our terms of reality is what is mere stupidity.

I include myself in the category of people watching the show and many others- for and against Radhika's and Dev's present actions. The fact that we try to see our sense of reality on a TV show with characters is stupidity. I never called any person stupid...




Deefan ........I know u didnt call any one person as stupid . When I quoted u , i did not do it ad verbatim . I tried to put across what viewers like me wud feel about that comment . Kindly do not resent it as misquoting . I really do understand that u didnt call anyone specifically as stupid . Still , the comment was , in my opinion not so fair and so I gave my view on it . Especially since for the past few days many started calling posts like ours as ' bashing ' . They are not . All those posts glorifying Rad Dev's ethereal love can then be called as ' mooning' but this will only be childish and lead to squabbling . So I never said anything like that and maintained a silence .
I respect ur posts immensely and believe me I wud not like u having any feeling of resentment even for a second ! If I hurt u ........sorry dear . Simply understand my view , shake hands and forget .😊

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