Salute to Dev Raj Purohit - Page 4

aviation ... i guess what happened is in the eyes of the beholder.

Great debate, to each his/her own. If all this ends up with the truth being revealed on the day of the wedding, more power to Radhika 👏

Having said that I seriously doubt the truth coming out cause that means Vish is out of the show. However, my only fear is Vish will be seen on the day of the wedding and the wedding is stopped which I think is where its headed with this cover-up.

I do not want Dev the RP(he upholds Dharma) to be dragged into these lies either.... Daadi is the only clean character in this show. Dev and Shastriji to some extent are right behind. I hope they do not drag them down.....

Instead of viewing Rad and Dev as 50-50% ideally in RaDev relationship, let us see it as one complete sphere where you cannot differentiate the % of love from each other. Although individual contribution looks imbalanced, the whole sphere looks complete. As Dev drags Rad into this sphere the LOVE grows otherwise it remains constant and still performs as one complete sphere. This sphere is what we are interested in. Isn't it?

Just to get out of this difference of opinion mood.

Three things.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Three things.

1] Radhika takes decisions first and then expects others to understand them..........the others being her lover Dev . Her decisions r not taken with consulting him ........they always r unilateral .

2] The decision to have Vish in the wedding is a decision that will make ALL uncomfortable ..........The Shastri family AND the Purohit family . It is such an uncomfortable decision that both families will be subjected to unecessary pulbic ridicule . The plain question that remains is .......why shud Radhika's opinion be given precedence over The Shastri's , Dadi ma'as , The Purohits , and even Dev's ? In a public event like this ....majority of the people 's comfort level must be taken into account . Why shud Purohit family be again put to ridicule by public and why shud so many be over ruled for the silly impractical request of one girl?

3] Lying is a habit with the girl and till now the women were lying . From today new chapter opens in CB where she is coaxing and moulding Dev to lie too . Is this a positive influence on a man ? Imagine how the oy's fanmily will feel if he lies to them to hide some secret of the girl's family that is unpleasant in the extreme . Will even Shastri like this ? How coolly she asked him to lie for her !

How can we like this character and read greatness in her that just doesn't exist ? At least I cannot , for my life , see it . Nor do i see blindly agreeing to any nonsense ur lover tells u as ' unconditional love ' . Also ., losing identification with value called self respect is also not love . Agreeing to any silly demands of ur lover cannot be love at all . Bringing ur silly lover on the right path is instead love . At times in love one even has to take a stand . That is true love . This ' Agar tum muje pyaar karte ho toh yeh karo ' is selfishness not ethereal love at all . Listening to it is weakness .........not strong love at all .

Thank you Radev fans for keeping the faith in Radev. They belong to each other.

We rock due to their divine love. 👏 👏 👏

Sigs loved the post and sorry I am coming in so late on this. I agree that we have to see the worldview of these characters. Look at the way Mrin treats Rad and actually had her thrown out of the house. Dadi and other practically beg her to take part in the wedding. Not once has Dev confronted Mrin on that heinous act. She of course has to be part of the wedding as is custom. Rads would never dream of asking Dev for Mrin not to participate. Therefore I think Dev is indeed trying to understand Rads within their worldview

Dabulls: I have to come out and say that I find this a extremely insulting and condescending comment. I debated answering this because the last thing I want to do is lower myself by enter into any kind of verbal sparring; however, I am extremely insulted by the condescending comment that you have thrown out. Please think before you write. Words are serious tools and should not be tossed around.

I respectfully ask, who are you to say what members here have wisdom and experience? And if they do not agree with with you are they not the "mature and wiser" members of this forum? If they do not agree with you then "they have not seen a lot in life?"

This is an absolutely ludicrous statement. I really ask that you stay within debating the topic at hand vs. making hurtful generalizations that categorize whole groups of people.

Thanks!

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Many of the members don't see as some of the other mature & wiser members who has seen alot in life as women and are speaking from personal experiences or otherwise....

No one wants to just come and bash any one here....especially the characters without any reason...

Originally posted by: jpalagrawal

Dabulls: I have to come out and say that I find this a extremely insulting and condescending comment. I debated answering this because the last thing I want to do is lower myself by enter into any kind of verbal sparring; however, I am extremely insulted by the condescending comment that you have thrown out. Please think before you write. Words are serious tools and should not be tossed around.

I respectfully ask, who are you to say what members here have wisdom and experience? And if they do not agree with with you are they not the "mature and wiser" members of this forum? If they do not agree with you then "they have not seen a lot in life?"

This is an absolutely ludicrous statement. I really ask that you stay within debating the topic at hand vs. making hurtful generalizations that categorize whole groups of people.

Thanks!