Yash's Mom!! - Page 4

it was so pathetic of yash's mom to force yash into talking to other girls... n not "allow" him to talk to gurpreet.. like comeon.. hes what.. 22?? he can decide who he likes.. n who he doesn't! poor gurpreet is stuck in the middle of all this... i feel bad for her. she should move on.. even if yash's mom get convinced later.. she shud reject them cuz that kind of mum in law would definitely make her bahu's life hell...

Originally posted by: wassup28

i agree with Perfangel5655 about Yash taking a stand...if he really likes Gurpreet then he should have insisted on talking to her with his mom....but you could actually make out by watching them together (yash and his mom) that his mom hardly listens to him...he also said that you never understood me...the precap for tomorrow seems interesting...histesh's mom is arguing with yash's mom about atleast giving gurpreeet a chance...i mean think about it...she's never spoken to her....hardly ever and whenever i think gurpreet has tried talking to (whatever they have shown) yash's mom, she has usually never answered her properly....i just feel bad for the girl... 😔

Originally posted by: rani712

i personally dont believe gurpreet is suitable for Yash... yea they make a hot couple and all.. but i think the mom wants a cute, innocent and sweet girl that cares fro teh family.. and has the values. but on teh other hand..gurpreet's attitude is the opposite.. she is very blunt... she'll say whatever comes to her mind on ppl's faces.. and i can sense a family melodrama if she marries yashdeep.. and in addition to that.. remember the 1st epi and amrita asked her a question..and she said.. there is no way i can adjust or live in a farm..if my hubby had to do that.. i'll tell him to go by himself and i'll stay with the mother or something like that.. n you can tell it wasnt a haha joke.. according to that she doesnt seem to be very supportive ... she just wants what she wants..n i dont think she'll be able to adjust into a diff.. strict type environment.. where they have customs and values..n following them is a necessity.
Just my opinion... and ofcourse the brides are groom's choice.. but the guys dont look @ other things.. beside preety and is she compatible.. who knows it can be short term... but this is india.. so they have to stay in the huge families..n together.. and of course moms want the sensible.. innocent type bahus.. not party girls.. :S like Rumpa was liked by both mom n gurav... and Pooja... mom n hitz.. so yea..
I'm sorry if any of u are against what i said..but these are just my views

I agree with all that has been said, but theone thing that bothers me - is when there is a new person who comes into the family then everybody has to adjust, not just the bahu. However, the adjusting part is always left to the bahu - how come? I think that since the bahu is new to the environment and place - everybody in the family should accomodate for her. Now I agree that the bahus also need to appreciate and value their in-laws.

Originally posted by: lastmin

I agree with all that has been said, but theone thing that bothers me - is when there is a new person who comes into the family then everybody has to adjust, not just the bahu. However, the adjusting part is always left to the bahu - how come? I think that since the bahu is new to the environment and place - everybody in the family should accomodate for her. Now I agree that the bahus also need to appreciate and value their in-laws.

But after close to 20 years of marriage, my in-laws have never treated me nicely - and mine was an arranged marriage. So what is the guarantee that even if Yash marries someone who is mom like that she will be happy!! Based on her attitude of "I will be the one who decideds who my son will marry" , can she not consider the son's happiness too.

Granted that Gurpreet may have acted in a silly way, however she is just 21 years old - it would be sad to write off a girl just because she was hungry in the morning!!!!

In Indian society women is not valued. Even now the birth of son is celebrated and birth of girl is not. It is funny the girl is thought to marry the whole family and boys lives in his home in familiar surrounding with his own people and girls is supposed to make no ripples.

Gurpreet is very accomplished she would be wasting her life if she marries into Yash's family.