Dosti to Love - who else had such an experience? - Page 2

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: balshik

sinhactnt

Yes, i can't think of any words while talking to him. its just completely different than my other friends. i remember when he hugged me during my graduation day, i felt complete for the first time. i can still feel that hug. but when i see him, i heart starts to beat really very fast.
this never happens with my other male friends.
I really hope he understands my feelings before its too late. even the thought of leaving him scares me to death.

Aww...Balshik you sound exactly like me. When me and my husband were just friends, I remember he once held my hand...and boy, I was a gone case for a long time!
Now onto business....you need to remember to be yourself w/him. Do not get tongue tied. The aim is to become his best friend and closest confident. When he thinks of you, he should not be able to imagine a life w/o you. In some ways you might need to do much more than you would for other friends. i.e. pay close attention as to what is going on with his life...give him encouragement when he needs it...just be there for him. It worked for me, and I am sure it will work for you.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I did!! And its amazing!! We just got married last month!!!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I have same experience but we are not even close to getting married. I have known him for about 2 yrs now and i started having feelings for him about a yr ago but I am not sure if he does. Few of my friends think that he does. I want to be his best friend before I think about all that. His best friend knows that I like him so may be he ll find out eventually.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sinhactnt

Congratulations! This is a really special time in your life :D
Based on my experience I had no nervousness when we got married. There was no reason to be nervous, as I was about to spend my life with my best friend.

i haven't really told my mom yet. im just REALLY scared to tell her. maybe she wont accept my decision or something. man, i wish i could just tell her. but maybe she should also try accepting some of my personal decisions. hmmm.....someday i will have the courage to tell her.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: navreet143

I did!! And its amazing!! We just got married last month!!!

thats sooooo NICE. ur lucky! im still waiting. 😔
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: navreet143

I did!! And its amazing!! We just got married last month!!!

Wow! Congratulations 😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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no but my cuzin was my very gud frend but i knw he likes me but no way i cnt marry him eventually
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetladki87

I have same experience but we are not even close to getting married. I have known him for about 2 yrs now and i started having feelings for him about a yr ago but I am not sure if he does. Few of my friends think that he does. I want to be his best friend before I think about all that. His best friend knows that I like him so may be he ll find out eventually.

Good idea...let the friendship grow, and see where it takes you. Best of luck 😛
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Laadli_Bebo

i haven't really told my mom yet. im just REALLY scared to tell her. maybe she wont accept my decision or something. man, i wish i could just tell her. but maybe she should also try accepting some of my personal decisions. hmmm.....someday i will have the courage to tell her.

Well being scared does nothing. I was horrified to tell my parents.
And the truth was, when I did they reacted just like I expected...they were upset and said no. So I told them, I am really not asking for thier permission, but we need thier blessings.
It took four years ... but it was well worth the wait. My parents now love my husband. I tease my husband that when we got married he got two moms and I got two mother-in-laws!
Hang in there...things do work out.

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