Dosti to Love - who else had such an experience?

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Sharmilee Sinha

@sinhactnt

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

I have recently discovered this show..and spent most of this weekend watching youtube videos from the beginning.

The concept of friendship to love, is just to sweet. And it reminds me of how me and my husband progressed from friendship to best friends to now happily married.

Just curious, did anyone else have a similair experience? Personally, I think if your relationship is based on a solid foundation of friendship, nothing could be better for the long run. What do you think?

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@virmaan-virika

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Posted: 16 years ago

i had this experience except we're not married yet

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Sharmilee Sinha

@sinhactnt

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: bmtd_ks
i had this experience except we're not married yet

Congratulations! This is a really special time in your life :D

Based on my experience I had no nervousness when we got married. There was no reason to be nervous, as I was about to spend my life with my best friend.

Edited by sinhactnt - 16 years ago

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simran

@sweet_simi

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

yeaahhh..

i didd.. butt im not marriedd yett eitherr

butt.. itt was a good thing

i loveedd it

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fatty112

@fatty112

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

well i have a friend whom i really love, but he just considers me as his best friend. i don't know if he has the same feelings for me as i have for him. however i consider him my best friend whom i really love and dream about getting married to him one day.

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Sharmilee Sinha

@sinhactnt

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: balshik
well i have a friend whom i really love, but he just considers me as his best friend. i don't know if he has the same feelings for me as i have for him. however i consider him my best friend whom i really love and dream about getting married to him one day.

Balshik, I am probably not the best person to give love advice, but my situation was very similiar to yours.

I am not the typical model-type girl, actually are very plain jane. My husband was one of the most eligible bachelors in our college, many girls used to hang around him trying to get his attention. We started as friends, and at some point I realized that I had developed a HUGE crush on him. We were friends anyway, so I decided the best way to make myself a permanent fixture in his life is by becoming his best friend...the one that he always counts on. I had seen the movie Lamhe several times and I wanted to have the same effect on him...when he closes his eyes, he should think of me. Well my tactic worked and one day he himself came to me and said, "mujhe se shaadi karoge." hehe!

That was really funny because we went directly from friendship to talks of marriage...believe me I did not expect it, but I loved when it happened. And even now when he comes home and gives me a hug I feel blessed that I could marry my best friend.

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fatty112

@fatty112

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

(sinhactnt) thanks for that. i hope it really works for me as well.

but everytime i see him i get scared to even talk to him. i mean the way he looks into my eyes completely shuts me down. but something clicks. i dont knw its just wired.

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rbb88

@rbb88

Beginner

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: sinhactnt

Balshik, I am probably not the best person to give love advice, but my situation was very similiar to yours.

I am not the typical model-type girl, actually are very plain jane. My husband was one of the most eligible bachelors in our college, many girls used to hang around him trying to get his attention. We started as friends, and at some point I realized that I had developed a HUGE crush on him. We were friends anyway, so I decided the best way to make myself a permanent fixture in his life is by becoming his best friend...the one that he always counts on. I had seen the movie Lamhe several times and I wanted to have the same effect on him...when he closes his eyes, he should think of me. Well my tactic worked and one day he himself came to me and said, "mujhe se shaadi karoge." hehe!

That was really funny because we went directly from friendship to talks of marriage...believe me I did not expect it, but I loved when it happened. And even now when he comes home and gives me a hug I feel blessed that I could marry my best friend.

awwww...it was cute.

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Sharmilee Sinha

@sinhactnt

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: balshik

(sinhactnt) thanks for that. i hope it really works for me as well.

but everytime i see him i get scared to even talk to him. i mean the way he looks into my eyes completely shuts me down. but something clicks. i dont knw its just wired.

What do you mean it shuts you down? Do you get tongue tied?

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fatty112

@fatty112

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

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sinhactnt

Yes, i can't think of any words while talking to him. its just completely different than my other friends. i remember when he hugged me during my graduation day, i felt complete for the first time. i can still feel that hug. but when i see him, i heart starts to beat really very fast.

this never happens with my other male friends.

I really hope he understands my feelings before its too late. even the thought of leaving him scares me to death.