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The episode starts with Rads telling Dev she is ready to marry him. Dev says say one more time. I have waited so long for you to say Yes. Please say yes again, please. Rads says I am ready to marry you. In the background, you hear the song Hum did de chukka sanam. Dev to rads I wish this moment stops here. I want to relive this moment again and again. I got reason to live. I got what I wanted. But yet my heart does not belive that you have said Yes even after listening it 2 times. I just want to hear your yes over and over again. What happened you are so quite after saying Yes. Please look at me. Please. Rads is smiling and feeling so shy. Dev goes towards her and takes her chin and faces her and they both gaze at each other. Oh my god what a Radev look. She feels shy and runs away. Dev thanks rad for making me the happiest man in the world.
Dear friends no words to describe the scene. What music and scene

Part 2
Dadi, Vaishali, Vivek, deepa and Briju are waiting for Dev to come. Dadi says Rads must have said Yes. Vaishali we should start preparing for the wedding. Vivek says before that we have to file the paper for divorce. The lawyer said if both the sides are happy it is good but…… Dev comes in. Chacha, Mirn and Arjun come intio. They all ask what happened did rads say yes. Dev looks very Serious and says Rads said and than he smiles and says she said Yes. All are happy except the tro. Dev hugs all of them. Vaishali says we must thank god for hearing our prays. Deepa says we should have better wedding than the last time. Dadi says let me call Shastriji. All are happy and smiling except the tro. They are making faces and getting very angry. Dadi calls Shastriji and tells hom that congrats. Rads said yes. She did not tell you. Shastriji says that she must have gone to meet Dev and after that she must have gone to thank Kanha. Dadi says yes Kanha had given us so much happiness. I want to have no delay and have the wedding soon. Shastriji says good. She is your daughter in law, you can do what you want. Devki and Amma are hearing all this. Amma is making faces. Dadi when is the muharat for Gabesh pooja tomorrow? Shastrji says at 10. Dadi says we will do the god bahari pooja that time itseld. Shastriji says ok.

Part 3
Shastriji is very happy and tells the family how all are happy. That Dev's family want to do the wedding soon. Amma gets angry and says this is all wrong. That tine Rads walk in. Babuji is happy but amma curse left and right to Rads and says you wanted Dev for yourself and you were just acting. You said that you want Vish to have Dev back but no. Amma os so mean. You feel like crying.
Shastriji says amma please says few words of love to her. Amma says she is not saying anything wrong. Devki says I pray to Kanha that no evil eye falls on you.
They show Dev's home. Vaishali goes to Vivek and says what to do. I have no new saree for Rads as the stores are close. Chachaji says why worry. Rads is second wife. Dadi walks in and says not to worry. She knew Dev will persude rads to say Yes. She has everything ready, Deepa says where is the kangan ? Dadi says Vish has it. They are sad but Vaishali says not to worry she has the kangans which Dadi had given to her for goda bari. All are happy. But Mrini says why they are so much concern as Vish ran away and this is the second marriage and that Rads will be the second wife. Dadi says shut up to her and says please watch what you say. Rads is and will be the choti bahu there is no second thoughts about it. If anyone has any objection can leave tis home. Dadi tells Briju to takes all these clothes and jewels to Rads as she has to wear them tomorrow

Part 4
Devki comes with some sarees for Rads and says for you god bahri. I do not have any new sarees but sarees worn by Vish one time. Rads do not worry I am taking Vish rights so I wear her old saree what is the harm. Devki says you are getting back your rights and happiness. Do not say anything. You are getting back what belongs to you. Do not worry. Do not burden you heart. Amma say whay burden? Amma says what are you saying. She is taking away my Vish's rights. You had unlucky for us and now you will bring unluck for them too. You have ruined us and them.You went and said Yes to Dev . Shastriji says please amma do not say anything I an requesting you. After so long there are few moments of happiness in Rads life.
Rads is praying to Kanha and asking if she is doing the right thing. She couls not see the Dev unhappy. That is why for the first time she listen to what het heart was saying. Please kanha do not take ne on the wrong part and please be with me all the time.
They show Dev very happy in white kurta . Teri el jalka is playing and all the scenes from the begining to now going on in his mind and ends in Rads saying yes to the wedding. While Rads is remembering all the curses of Amma. He calls Rad and says hello Rads it is me. I could not resist and called to hear your voice. Remember how before we used to talk on phone. Before I knew you were my DG, my love , my Radhika., the person who helped me to mend my heart with your voice. I want to relive all those moments. Say something rads. I want to hear. Rads is crying all thw while talking to Dev, and at that time she starts to cry loudly and Dev says rads what happened?
Dev looks and sounds worried and rads keeping on crying. The episode ends.

Precap

Chachaji, the why engagement is taking place in same way it can break.

What does God Bharai Rasam means
The groom's female relatives perform the God Bharai Rasam for the bride where they shower upon her gifts and sweets. Clothes, jewellery and cosmetics are given to the bride. A small doll is also given to the bride to augur a happy and prosperous married life blessed with children.
It also means


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god barayi is done when someone is pregnant right? why r they going god barayi? i think it is sagayi
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Originally posted by: smalladi

god barayi is done when someone is pregnant right? why r they going god barayi? i think it is sagayi



Goad bharai is not done simply at pregnancy...It is like giving gifts to the bride to be...kind of like the Tilak ceremony of the boy


IT is also done at time of engagement in traditional hindu ceremony of UP, RAJASthan, MP and Bihar..so the heartland of (northern )hindu culture..

It is not done in Punjabi culture - which is why it doest show up in movies - which show more Punjabi culture.

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uh oh... why is Rads crying on the phone with Dev? having second thoughts?
hope it is only because of Amma's rant and not from the guilty feeling for taking Vish's rights.... it scares me as she did not accept the proposal for the pure love Dev has bestowed upon her but was a compromise of sorts to make all concerned happy (except amma of course).
Thank you for the update!
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Yes, Radhika crying worries me also. Hope she wont go back on her word now.
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Hi
A similar kind of 'rasam' is also done in Punjabi culture - which is called Chunni Chadhana. Or, Roka. Basically unlike what is shown in Punjabi Weddings on TV, A Punjabi wedding has the following
1. Rokka (Tilak Ceremony of Boy)
2. Chunni Chadhana (Optional some families do it, some don't) which is the 'female' counter part of above. Traditionally the boy doesn't come during this ceremony its just the ladies of the house
3. Sagan - One day before the wedding parents of bride take sagun items for the boys side
4. Mehndi (Female version of Sagan) These days families do a combined Sagan-Mehndi function and also exchange rings during this ceremony
5. Kwar Dhoti - This is done on the day of the wedding where boys sister brings sweet kheer for the girl, as a 'welcome to the family gesture'
6. Phere/Var Mala
7. Bidai
So, you see, we have the chunni chadhana too - just that it is not called god bharai. Usually a red / pink chunni, dress is given to the birde along with some sagun jewelry (usually heirloom) and other shringar items or gifts (bag/watch etc.) Sometimes, the girl 'wears' this chunni/suits then and there itself, and in some cases, this is the chunni which is used to cover the brides' head during the pheras. It is dependant on castes - which option is chosen... Sometimes, the chunni itself is heirloom, but most of the times it is new...

Originally posted by: kukuraja



Goad bharai is not done simply at pregnancy...It is like giving gifts to the bride to be...kind of like the Tilak ceremony of the boy


IT is also done at time of engagement in traditional hindu ceremony of UP, RAJASthan, MP and Bihar..so the heartland of (northern )hindu culture..

It is not done in Punjabi culture - which is why it doest show up in movies - which show more Punjabi culture.

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Indiafmm......thanks for the info..

I am marwari but married a Punjabi and they didnt do this ceremony

😭 ...

I will have raise this with my mum-in-law 😆

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