Was Naitik's behavior justified? - Page 3

Originally posted by: _charu_

for him , the idea of love is different..it's the the way he loves akshara...he wud have thought ke pyar aisa hi hota hai..but as VArsha correctly said, love happens only after two people know each other well..therez a difference in crush and love..but naitik doesn't know bec. he never experienced it..

yes, a few of his actions were not justifiable..(specially NOT tht one where he asked his mom to put food for him..tht he will do even now)

crush is something that we are now feeling for naitik....😛😉😆
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Originally posted by: desertrose21

<br><br>you mean to say...he'll still only get served by his mom? 😕<br>

i doubt it...he wants everything his way..lets wait n watch whether or not his attitude changes..

Originally posted by: lats55

Well said points charu... but i am not happy with the psycho behaviour, which i think too much to digest.. probably your thinking line is from your own experiences which may be matching to what is been shown.. but still i feel it was too much of psycho behaviour, as it has gone deep into the viewers mind and i could not even enjoy the sudden change in naitik when Bhabi rasam was going on, naitik was sitting and shouting/smiling for akshara could not believe it.. it can never happen all of a sudden... i still could not adjust my thinking to that level that RR coming close to Akshara for anything for that matter... <br><br>So as a viewer i cannot accept this (due to the psycho behaviour of naitik) and how come he is accepting it is unbelieveable.. this character still can have doubts .. who knows!! there is no gurantee for his senseless behaviour..<br><br>he says he is totally in love with her... if that was true, he would not have behaved the way he behaved..no emotions shown out in true love.. as you said it may hurt, but you will not react to the extent what is been shown.. love should remove all those kind of psycho behaviour.. he is too immatured, and childish.. Akshara character turned out to be more solid and wise.<br>

i understand your point Lata...ur right at ur place.I'm not trying to justify his actions but his thinking which made him react the way he did..therez no justification for all tht he did..the biggest one being refusing to marry Akshara..freezing at the time of jaimala, phere and vachan..of course it was due to his young age, immaturity, sensitive nature, moulding everybody around him according to his wishes and all the factors which we've been discussing from long...

i feel tht it's an idealistic thought that when you're in love, you can't react in that way..you can never say that with surity..love is a double sided sword..it can make you and it can break you also....there are no set rules for human behavior..this is right and this is wrong..one should act this way in this situation..the opinions are personalized....but yes, in love you CAN think the way he did.it CAN happen to u..how a person reacts to all this depends on his nature and personality....

No i haven't experienced it or seen such ppl. around me.....his changing all of a sudden proves that he just needed tht little bit of reassurance from Akshara...I don't think he will repeat this mistake in future...not now bec. they are husband wife ..as the time passes by they will understand each other better...BUT the pace of REAL change is always slow.. 😊

Charu U have given such an amazing explanation to the whole things with such good examples. & that means U say that he was right the way he behaved

Originally posted by: _charu_

i understand your point Lata...ur right at ur place.I'm not trying to justify his actions but his thinking which made him react the way he did..therez no justification for all tht he did..the biggest one being refusing to marry Akshara..freezing at the time of jaimala, phere and vachan..of course it was due to his young age, immaturity, sensitive nature, moulding everybody around him according to his wishes and all the factors which we've been discussing from long...

i feel tht it's an idealistic thought that when you're in love, you can't react in that way..you can never say that with surity..love is a double sided sword..it can make you and it can break you also....there are no set rules for human behavior..this is right and this is wrong..one should act this way in this situation..the opinions are personalized....but yes, in love you CAN think the way he did.it CAN happen to u..how a person reacts to all this depends on his nature and personality....

No i haven't experienced it or seen such ppl. around me.....his changing all of a sudden proves that he just needed tht little bit of reassurance from Akshara...I don't think he will repeat this mistake in future...not now bec. they are husband wife ..as the time passes by they will understand each other better...BUT the pace of REAL change is always slow.. 😊

True love can never bring those kind of thinking charu... if it does then it is not love it is something else, which needed to be identified.. in his case he is a psycho, and can never predict what he will think tomorrow.. as far as TV story is concerned they may rectify his behaviour but in real life, i doubt about a person changing his thinking just the way he did..

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>True love can never bring those kind of thinking charu... if it does then it is not love it is something else, which needed to be identified.. in his case he is a psycho, and can never predict what he will think tomorrow.. as far as TV story is concerned they may rectify his behaviour but in real life, i doubt about a person changing his thinking just the way he did..<br>

true love is found only in words, in books, bollywood and tellyland..it's too idealistic ....i believe true love is not in which any such problem cannot happen..but true love has the power to overcome these problems

Originally posted by: _charu_

true love is found only in words, in books, bollywood and tellyland..it's too idealistic ....i believe true love is not in which any such problem cannot happen..but true love has the power to overcome these problems

Originally posted by: _charu_

true love is found only in words, in books, bollywood and tellyland..it's too idealistic ....i believe true love is not in which any such problem cannot happen..but true love has the power to overcome these problems

it look like you are yet to know what love is charu..

Hi Charu, I understand Naitik feeling & I'm agree with you.But don't you think he made 1 mistake.He should aksed Akshara about RR nicely.He believed RR's every single word & he lost his trust.He never tried to understand What type of girl Akshara is & what she wants. He met her so many times but he never understand Akshara's mind. We can call him a possessive person.

Originally posted by: lats55

<br><br>it look like you are yet to know what love is charu..<br>

may be ....but for me, it's just "love", it's not true or untrue...but those who say that they know what true love is, are wrong..bec. love has so many different meanings , different dimensions , different perceptions....i don't wanna discuss it ny further bec. it's getting off the topic n very personal.