Wish Everyone would stop putting Rakhi Down

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I feel bad that so many of the participants int eh forum have so bad comments for Rakhi. I know that everyone should have a chance to express how they feel.
But, did anyone think that maybe Rakhi is serious about this - I mean, we are criticizing her for having her swayamvar and meeting with so many guys. But, in many arranged marriages, the girl may get only to sit with the guy for a short while and then say yes or no to spending her entire life with him. So, shouldn't she know the guy before marrying him?
Why does everyone think that Rakhi being sincere is such a long shot?

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Chits1 thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
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majority thinks abt rakhi thsi way..so there must be a reason..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chits1

majority thinks abt rakhi thsi way..so there must be a reason..

In history, many people were persecuted wrongly by the community ... that didn't make it right. Just because people think this way does mean that this is the way it is.
Read some of my answer regarding decency and who determines this ... then you will see what I mean.
My life has been littered with people who are unjust by judging without knowing what is real. As such, I am able to understand and feel bad for someone else ... what if her heart is real and we are just judging her incorrectly?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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ya samirah u r rite..........i really lyked ur topic......................
mrsnishusharma thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
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hey u r d same samirah who use to do written update in d mata ki chowki forum.....
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nishu sharma

ya samirah u r rite..........i really lyked ur topic......................

Thanks - I am getting a bit peeved by all the negative comments towards her. If people don't like Rakhi then they should not watch the show ...
I don't think anyone would like it if we judged them the way that they are judging Rakhi.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: nishu sharma

hey u r d same samirah who use to do written update in d mata ki chowki forum.....

Yes, still doing them as well! Come and visit and check out what's happening! 😉
mrsnishusharma thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
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ya i use to visit it but now a days i didnt go dere..........but keep doing d job....ur written update r really gud...................
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Posted: 16 years ago
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samirah u knoe since wen i knoe u frm dat forum i wanted to send u d frnd req but couldnt i thought u'll not accept it and i hardly had any frnds in indiaforum.............
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Posted: 16 years ago
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chill,my friend,samirah..thousands of pple..thosands of diff thoughts..each to her own isn;t it..let ppl give their opinion..thaz ok..some will like her way..some won't..we can still state our opinion.😊

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