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Posted: 16 years ago
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oh thank you to original poster! People should really stop putting her down. Especially in this forum. If you do not like the show simply don't watch it.

I personally think Rakhi is a complete drama queen but I really like her.😃 She is hard working and I believe has a very honest heart. The concept of marriage on tv might be ridiculous but so is the concept of arranged marriage at times. I liked when rakhi said people put GROOM WANTED on newpaper, she is doing it on tv. Because everything she has is through tv. She likes drama so she is doing this in a dramatic. I find it funny.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Rakhi is not changed at all :)

It's fake show.... 😆 😆 😆 Sometimes she act like she is shy, but not really..... She is faking and the show is fake too... I think her boy friend is already in the show and so at the end he will marry with Rakhi..... When she is choosing boys, doesn't she should tell that she doesn't want married guy??? Although she selected him make a drama and by letting him go people like you would think that she is nice... But it's not true....

So stupid......... 🤣 🤣
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I agree! Thanks for this topic! I actually like Rakhi a lot. Yes, she's a BIG drama queen, but she's really good at heart. She's a nice and emotional person. She may not be very polished in her ways, but that doesn't give us the right to insult her!
I don't think it's wrong to laugh at some her ways and find what the guys do funny, but I think it's unfair to give her ill wishes or put her down because she's doing a swayamvar.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree .. i think she deserves a fair chance .. y criticize her just becoz she is bold & a celebrity .. she deserves a fair go .. whether her intentions are genuine or not .. we will find out when this show ends

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I dont get it.. I mean yeah its great that she is getting to know the people before they get married. But she isnt knowing them AS WELL as she should. I mean tthe dulha's are just some people who are either good looking or have some connection with the industry.
In arranged marriage, the family knows the other family (not neccesarily) but they will know abt their background and occupation and status etc etc. So you can trust your family that "yeah I have gotten a good guy as my family know them".
Yeah it sux that in arrange marriage you get a lil time, but atleast your family knw the opposite people and you can trust ur family.
But over here, does rakhi know abt their background like why did they break up with their gf's or wht type of people are they and wht do they usually do.
Yeah she knows the general stuff that "he is from this country, he does this, his age is this" not much info. So is that it that you need for a marriage? Yeah she is having short dates with them and playing around with games and dances but through those things do you want to choose your life -time husband?
I dont think that through these things you can find a trust worthy husband who loves you for who you are. And this is what Rakh is looking for and personally I think she will get hurt in the ending.
the difference in arrange marriage and what rakhi is doing is just knowing the people. She is gna choose someone in the ending whom she doesnt know QUIET WELL and later on problems will occur and she will get hurt.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhavi parikh

Rakhi is not changed at all :)

It's fake show.... 😆 😆 😆 Sometimes she act like she is shy, but not really..... She is faking and the show is fake too... I think her boy friend is already in the show and so at the end he will marry with Rakhi..... When she is choosing boys, doesn't she should tell that she doesn't want married guy??? Although she selected him make a drama and by letting him go people like you would think that she is nice... But it's not true....

So stupid......... 🤣 🤣

Hi - you haven't understood my point - my point was that we should not make judgements - these are assumptions, and we cannot assume anything! We don't know what is going on behind the scenes, or how much is done by the producers without Rakhi's knowledge ...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: n0sh

I dont get it.. I mean yeah its great that she is getting to know the people before they get married. But she isnt knowing them AS WELL as she should. I mean tthe dulha's are just some people who are either good looking or have some connection with the industry.

In arranged marriage, the family knows the other family (not neccesarily) but they will know abt their background and occupation and status etc etc. So you can trust your family that "yeah I have gotten a good guy as my family know them".
Yeah it sux that in arrange marriage you get a lil time, but atleast your family knw the opposite people and you can trust ur family.
But over here, does rakhi know abt their background like why did they break up with their gf's or wht type of people are they and wht do they usually do.
Yeah she knows the general stuff that "he is from this country, he does this, his age is this" not much info. So is that it that you need for a marriage? Yeah she is having short dates with them and playing around with games and dances but through those things do you want to choose your life -time husband?
I dont think that through these things you can find a trust worthy husband who loves you for who you are. And this is what Rakh is looking for and personally I think she will get hurt in the ending.
the difference in arrange marriage and what rakhi is doing is just knowing the people. She is gna choose someone in the ending whom she doesnt know QUIET WELL and later on problems will occur and she will get hurt.

Don't want her to get hurt, and understand what you are saying. But, from my side, I have seen tonnes of arranged marriages go badly because the girl's family think they know the boy's family and the boy. And, then after marriage, they find out that the family is not what they thought and the boy is definitely not what they thought. This happens all the time ... so Rakhi is trying to take hold of her destiny.
We only see small parts of what happens. They go 24/7, but we only see an hour ... so we don't know what else is happening in the background.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: samirah23

Don't want her to get hurt, and understand what you are saying. But, from my side, I have seen tonnes of arranged marriages go badly because the girl's family think they know the boy's family and the boy. And, then after marriage, they find out that the family is not what they thought and the boy is definitely not what they thought. This happens all the time ... so Rakhi is trying to take hold of her destiny.
We only see small parts of what happens. They go 24/7, but we only see an hour ... so we don't know what else is happening in the background.

I think for Rakhi to find someone who loves her for her, she should date some good guy from her connections.. to get more connections... and find a great guy!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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yes nosh,this is just not the way to find a dulha..games and stuf...don't decide yr future hubby,right !
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: samirah23

I feel bad that so many of the participants int eh forum have so bad comments for Rakhi. I know that everyone should have a chance to express how they feel.

But, did anyone think that maybe Rakhi is serious about this - I mean, we are criticizing her for having her swayamvar and meeting with so many guys. But, in many arranged marriages, the girl may get only to sit with the guy for a short while and then say yes or no to spending her entire life with him. So, shouldn't she know the guy before marrying him?
Why does everyone think that Rakhi being sincere is such a long shot?



Thnxxxx for this topic!
I def agree with u!
😳Hope every1 understand😳


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