Originally posted by: mandy1024
nandani went to jail only coz she'd committed a crime and there was no point in making someone else the scapegoat. 😕 why are U guys blaming tanya in the first place for all that happened? 😡 she left everything for nandani when she came out of coma inspite of having given 3 years of her life to shantiniketan while nandani, hardly a few months. I know it wasn't nandani's fault she went to coma but what was tanya's fault in all this? 😡 😡 😡 she loved her friend's kid as if it were her own and not out of sympathy alone. she could've demanded her rights as she was pregnant with karan's kid when nandani came to shantiniketan but she didn't do that. what's wrong if she met karan after that? she was still his wife and besides bhumi too loved her more than nandani and tanya will always be her mother whereas nandani is just her maasi maa! 😆
now no1's blaming tanya.she shudnt b a scapegoat.nands shud go to jail if she killed gujral.agreed.
but i dont undertsand tanya's rights?first,when nands came out of coma,legally she never had ne rights on karan whatsoever.
second,was she a child tht she cud b forced into this marriage?she perfectly knew tht nands cud return yet she chose 2 marry karan just bcoz she loved karan,no other reason not bhoomi not nething.tanya married karan bcoz she luved karan.but karan married her for bhoomi.
talk abt leaving everything .hah!!didnt she kno tht it was goin 2 happen neway?if nands cud leave them both 2gether for 14 yrs,then i guess tanya leaving them for a few months isnt tht gr8.may b she wud nt hav left,she wud hav turned evil n then karan nands wud hav been 2gether.😆
bhoomi will obviuosly love tanya more bcoz tanya never told her tht nands is her mother.😡and dont worry dear...when bhoomi grows up n cums 2 kno tht nands is her real mother...she'll not b her massi maa nemore.its not actually a verything gud thing or nething 2 laugh about tht the child doesnt call her own mother maasi maa.3yrs or 9 months ,both r painful.but it wud b more painful for nandini as bhoomi is her child,where as tanya knew bhoomi is nandini's child.both r in pain,but i really pity nandini bcoz she suffers for no fault of hers where as tanya knowingly gets herself into trouble.if she cant think of her own happiness,then no1 can help.
its only bcoz of circumstances tht bhoomi luvs tanya more but tht doesnt make tanya her mother.right.now if nands wud hav 2 take care of tanya's child,she wud hav done the samething.so u can never judge a child's mother just bcoz the child is unaware of facts.truth is nands is her mother n no1 can change tht.where bhoomi's love is concerned with time everything changes n she will too.
if tanya's 3 yrs of luv for bhoomi makes it so painful for her,just imagine what nandini wud hav gone thru?.tanya's pain is nothing infront of what nandini has tolerated.😭
its easy being tanya fan or nandini fan but its very difficult to position urself in each of these ladies situation n understand their pain.but i still maintain tht these 2 ladies r 2 different characters,personalities n shudnt b compared.but yes u can compare their circumstances.
i dont hate tanya.i dont pity her either.i wudnt say shes evil or sumthing but yes she has done sum mistakes.just my thots completely😊
Edited by gaurimisha - 19 years ago
