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Sheena

@sheenakohli91

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Posted: 16 years ago

People say i give good advice when it comes to relationships... be it friendship, love, or family.

So i was just out here and reading some of yalls posts and honestly some of you look depressed to me. And well if you need someone to talk to im here. And if you need some advice. just shout it out at this page and you will get a response. And if you think , it helped you. I'd feel great about it .

Also please remember that this isn't only for "LOVE" its all bout relationships. Friendship and Family included.

If you feel that your issue is a bit personal and you would not like to shout it out here....feel free to pm me. I dont mind at all.

Keep smiling 😊

Love,

Sheena

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@sheenakohli91

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Posted: 16 years ago

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TrueLover15

@TrueLover15

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Posted: 16 years ago

ok here is my situation i need help ... i started thread 1 month ago and also got replies but i think that they didn't understand my situation.. i hope u can here it is ... read my situation and help me ...

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/advice-corner/1111450/long-distance-relationship-i-need-ur-help

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toddbertuzzi712

@toddbertuzzi712

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Posted: 16 years ago

You have got to help me Sheena - you are my only hope!

I am a middle-aged guy, and I work at a local fast food place with my best buddy. We spend loads of time together, and I think I am beginning to have special feelings for him. I mean, every time I see him, I feel something tingly in my heart. I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't want to ruin our relationship as good friends. What should I do?

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suki1321

@suki1321

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Posted: 16 years ago

Hi. I am in a weird situation. Me and my boyfriend were at a party and his ex, who also happens to be MY ex-best friend, came up to him and kissed him and i didn't even think twice before I slapped her and knocked her to the ground. She had no right to do what she did and now my boyfriend's mad at me for making a scene. What the heck do I make him see that what I did was completely legit and that bi*** completely deserved what she got?

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Miss.Netherland

@Miss.Netherland

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Posted: 16 years ago

I'm still in school and i like this guy.

but yh well he doesn't give me any notice we rarely ever talk.

I did look at him a couple of months ago but i stopped like tat coz i thought that he think tht i like him.
we do kind of talk but then not too much.
i want to be frens wid him
how can i start ,,,,- so he can ask me for friendship ?

and my frens make fun of me and him even if we guys talk a liiltle bit

a couple of days ago i heard that he has a gf n i know that girl she a gud fren

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Sheena

@sheenakohli91

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: suki1321
Hi. I am in a weird situation. Me and my boyfriend were at a party and his ex, who also happens to be MY ex-best friend, came up to him and kissed him and i didn't even think twice before I slapped her and knocked her to the ground. She had no right to do what she did and now my boyfriend's mad at me for making a scene. What the heck do I make him see that what I did was completely legit and that bi*** completely deserved what she got?

I think he's taking her side maybe because he might still have feelings for her...if thats not the case then its the fact that he loves his rep. And he doesn't want to ruin it. I think hes not understanding you for either one of those two reasons. You need to talk to him and ask him straight up "Do you think what she did was right?" what would have you done if that was me and my ex... would you have done the same thing or cared about my reputation and just stayed there and watched??"

You need to ask questions hun. Dont let anyone may you feel low..even if its your boyfriend. Ask him if he trusts you...and if he supports you. If he does, he should understand. You cant say anything ...because what you did was right. Although punching her ....is something i wouldn't have done but i would have definately slapped her across her face. I mean if he cares about his rep...he should care about urs too...after all that was YOUR boyfriend she kissed.

Hope it helps :)

Love,

Sheena

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Sheena

@sheenakohli91

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: toddbertuzzi712

You have got to help me Sheena - you are my only hope!

I am a middle-aged guy, and I work at a local fast food place with my best buddy. We spend loads of time together, and I think I am beginning to have special feelings for him. I mean, every time I see him, I feel something tingly in my heart. I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't want to ruin our relationship as good friends. What should I do?

I think you should talk to him. And see if he feels the same way. It might be awkward otherwise. But you have to take the risk and ask or you'll never know

Hope everything works out for the best,

Love,

Sheena

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Sheena

@sheenakohli91

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Miss.Netherland

I'm still in school and i like this guy.
but yh well he doesn't give me any notice we rarely ever talk.
I did look at him a couple of months ago but i stopped like tat coz i thought that he think tht i like him.
we do kind of talk but then not too much.
i want to be frens wid him
how can i start ,,,,- so he can ask me for friendship ?

and my frens make fun of me and him even if we guys talk a liiltle bit

firstly dont worry about what your friends say....THIS IS ABOUT YOU!

You need to build up your confidence, he's only a guy...not some prince of england. You CAN go up and talk to him. Is he in any of your classes? If yes...start talk by asking about help about some school work...see if he can explain something to you. Ask him for a pencil or something. If you only see him around school...then go up to him and talk. but u definately should know what ur going to talk about before u go up to him. Do you both have anything in common??? Something you both like. Go and talk to him about that. If you know someone who is good friends with him...get them to introduce you to him. just like walk with that person...and naturally if that friend of yours stops and talks to him...introduce yourself. "Hi...im. ____ (ur name)" and carry on the convo from there. If you see him around school after that smile at him and see if he smiles back. the key to getting someone to be friends with you is to have confidence on yourself. Be who you are! and be happy with it.

Be natural infront of him...dont be shy or nervous. Guys like...girls who have a good balance . And they know how goodlooking they are...thats why they play "hard to get" and you must too. But for that you need to bring out the inner you. Be infront of him the way you are with your friends. Consider him your friend. Make him want to talk to you. Pretend that you are talking to your friend and say something you know hes interested in...maybe he'll kick in ...in the conversation and you can go on from there.

Hope it helps! Lemme know how it goes :)

Love,

sheena

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toddbertuzzi712

@toddbertuzzi712

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Thanks for the awesome advice Sheena! I just talked to him, and he feels the exact same way! Oh I'm soooo happy 😃😃😃!!!!!!! We are heading out in a couple of hours and planning to have a great time...

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