Long Distance Relationship.. I Need ur Help.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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hi guys i live in usa. we(me and girl whom i want to ask out) both are 17... i just came in usa 2 years ago. and i love a girl in india who was in my class since 1st standard.. i love her since 7th grade,now we are in 12th grade but i couldn't tell her that i lover her. when i was in india, even i don't know if she loves me or not.as u guys know that in india, girls don;t talk to guys in school... well i know in big city girls are talkative.. but in small town like i used to stay. i mean they are very shy.. well now time has been changed but in our school it was like that so we didn't talk too much in class. we didn't talk verbly but we just talk by eye. we made eye contact everyday. she always smile at me and i always smile at her . she never smile at other guy. when we were in 10th standard i had to come to USA for permanent. and the girl i love is my true love. its my first love, now i want to propose her. my cousin is friend of her. i asked my cousin to ask that if she likes me but my cousin said she won't ask that girl. but my cousin gave me her phone number so i have her number but don't have courage to call my love... please give me some idea how can i ask her out on phone cause calling her is the only way i can tell her that i love her.. pls give me some ROMANTIC ideas, so she can remember that whole life.. please ....answer this....and one more thing she is in 12th standard now and she has board exam coming on march so should i wait until her exams over?? and u guys know that 12th exam is very important in india .. so should i wait to call her?? when i call her what should i say pls help...she is my true love .. i miss her everyday in USA... pls help


hey guys thank u very much for all ur answers...as i promised u that i will post here if she accepted me or not.. and i have gottan ma reply... she said YES... actually she loved me to... and as i have included in question that in my town it was very hard to talk wid the opposite sex... so she couldnt tell me .. now we are in relationship.. we text each other.. and we talk on phone every day.. i just wanted to share this wid u guys .. reply. .and thank u..

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TrueLover15 thumbnail
Posted: 16 years ago
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guys pls help me.... its urgent
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Posted: 16 years ago
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no one can help me???
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Hey, i really appreciate u as u still love her alot although u havent talked to her fr 2 yrs...i knw board exams r veryy imp.as her career depends on the result..so i think u should wait to say abt ur love but i feel u shud definitely contract her through phone or net..juz ask her hwz she n skool n all that n see if she remembers u or if shez interested to talk to u or nt..if she uses net then chat wid her..add her on ur frndlist..hope i helped!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I can understand from what phase you going through
I think u should wait until her board exams. Let her concentrate for her exam and not you
If u'll ask her out now or even call her, she will start thinking abt u and less abt her exams
right after exams, call her, exchage emails but dont ask her out right away, lot of things changes in two years, u dont know precisely how her life has been in those past two years
If she still likes u, she will definately chat with u without looking at time zone, if she doesnt she wont waste her time one net chatting to u
I mean its day here nd night there and vice versa, so she wont look at darks nights but at bright chat screen.
She will definately by angry on u, bcoz u left her and came to US (talking from experience, I was not in love but my best friend since UKG but I had not even told her that I was coming to US, started being absent and my aunt told her later)When I started talking to her after a year, she was upset, which was justified,)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Moving to Advice Corner, All help threads should be posted there.

Thanks.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think u should call her again and be really good friend of her....

its really nice that u still love her though b/c that usually don't happen its not like --- out of sight out of mind............
I can get into ur situation b/c my friend she also likes this boy he also looks at her bt never really talks 2 her so she doesn't know if he likes her or not..... what i mean by that?????
U should talk 2 her on the phone and after a few days of talking 2 her u should ask her what she wants 2 do in her future n all that stuff........
Also u really need 2 find out that she doesn't have boyfriend b/c so many thing can change over 2 years.....
I hope it helped though...... and I also hope that you get her..........
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Posted: 16 years ago
#8
well thanx for answers guys...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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let us know what happens with u n her!..:-)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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ok i will post it... but it will take 3 or 4 months... cause i m gonna call her after her exams are over and her exams will be over in April... but i will surely post the result of my story

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