well...trishna confessed that she loves rajdeep now...also this show is about "Vivah " (marriage)... I dont think there is any harm to have relation first and then have feelings......I have seen many times...even with me you never think that you would see the person in another light but when spend quality time with the person you do develop a feeling for the person and esp Its very possible that people can awake the love......its human psychology..and in this case too ....tanya and raj has been spending time maybe not in love but quality time ...and its very possible that u can have feelings.......for me marriage holds much more status than your past relations or anything else.......there is an emotional logical .....aspects of one's personality............ yuv/tanya marriage was not in love but they promised to be commited...so there are expectations......also in indian culture when there are are arranged marriages both husband and wife have expectations even if you are daughter in law you have expectations ...just having the title is enough........having the title of husband/wife might not be enough but consiously or uncosiously you do develop expectations...this is life you get hurt and then you move on we are created to love be realiistic people do fall in love more than once.
Also one thing to remember love is not just feelings ......maybe feelings are just a part thats why before marriage and after marriage there is a difference , there is a boundary..you cannot do complete love before marriage there is commitment in love...there is decleration....there are other aspects....expectations...right over each other and verbal decleration means alot....thats why complete loves come after marriage......resposbility is also part of love..love includes romance, caring for someone,affection all those are included in love....in marriage even sometimes you get hurt you cant leave the person so easily becoz ur not only breaking up you are breaking the relation.....which is harder....thats why in west many people live without marriage and ends up getting broken coz there is no commtiment ..you can leave that person........there are many things in this world you dont choose but once you get used to them you dont want to loose them...
Raj knows trishna loves rajdeep, trishna said she does...tanya knows trishna loves rajdeep....tanya's reaction is much better .she is hurt but she is not hurting anyone..we all feel the same way but what comes out as reaction can break or bind something.
Edited by anushe khan - 16 years ago