what's worse - an alive baby or a not?

What's worse - thinking your baby is dead and somewhere in the Heavens or knowing that your baby is alive and being tormented everyday wondering whether your baby is safe and sound?

I mean I'm sure a lot of people would say that if your baby is alive you still have the hope of finding them but I don't know how I feel about either situation.

On the one hand, if you think your baby is not alive - you eventually move on thinking that it is part of your destiny and is how it's meant to be. You eventually cope with everything. Some women get pregnant again and for those that can't they either find surrogate mothers or adopt a baby or just think of it as part of life and try to live the best they can with their husband or significant other.

But on the flip side, if you know your baby is alive - everyday would feel like torture. You search for your baby with all your might for months and months or years and each day you realize that your search is unsuccessful. You hope and pray that no sex-trafficker has took your baby. You hope and pray that your baby is safe and sound and in good hands. You go through the whole process of torture until you find your baby - in some cases, most people are not that fortunate. Some that are may have to wait years before they are reunited.

I don't know what would be worse. I wish that the producers would have came up with a better concept then to have babies kidnapped all the time in Sath Phere. First it was Jiji who took the baby and now it's Kalika. It's like a joke. Sad and pathetic. Think of all those women who have underwent such unfortunate cases. There are many cases of that too in real life.

I'm not asking anyone to necessarily agree or disagree with me. Just some thoughts I had so decided to make a post on it.

I think baby alive is good then there is chance. as long as sal and Nahar does not know it till they finds out.

I think that baby being lost is the worst thing parent will never know if they will see them again and where they are, how they are ...however i agree they can have closure if they think the baby is dead.

it's worse to have ur baby lost coz u don't now in wat condition it is in or anything. if ur baby died u'll atleast have it's soul rest in peace

They had showed the scene where Saloni's child was telling Saloni she was going to Mata Maharaj – so she believes her child in heaven. In the case of Jiji she kidnapped her 'own' child as she was the child's mother and she kept the child save because it was her 'meal' ticket/trump card as well as she has personal attachment to this child.

The twist to the current situation is in Kalika's case she hates Saloni so the well-being of that child is very much in question…..Which is very disturbing because this kidnapping could end up really bad. It depends on what is in the mind of the creatives….

I think in a death there is a sense of closure while in the kidnapping of a child you are tormented day-in-day out wrt to its safety and well-being. You always have this hope that you will get back this child – in my opinion this is a slow death or torture. So death may be preferable….

Personally I find Saat Phere reflects life a lot. I believe it happens to Saloni because I really don't care if some-one kidnaps Kaveri's child or Kaveri had a miscarriage but as a viewer NS has gotten my sympathy.

I agree this does happen outside but the question not all end up as happy as maybe Saat Phere. Whether its babies/adult people are kidnap day in day out. In a way as a topic it needs to be brought to people's attention. However it is a disturbing topic more so when its children - defenceless.

I imagine myself in Saloni's place, and I think that in either situation I would try to keep faith and look for a way to fill the missing piece of my heart. Whatever your grief is you need an outlet for all the rush of thoughts and worries invading your mind. That's why some people start organizations and go talk to others about what happened to them and how they are getting through it.