Due Diligence on Prospective Life Partner

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Article From The Hindustan Times.

First, there were character checks. Then there were bank balance and property checks. And now, there are health checks.

Increasingly, detectives in the city are being hired to run background checks on the health history of prospective brides and grooms. "These days, a lot of young people want to ensure that the person they are marrying does not have any chronic ailments like HIV/AIDS or tuberculosis," said Sameer Prabhu, a detective. Sexually transmitted diseases and impotency are other common concerns.

Ajit Singh of the Satya Niketan-based Hatfield Detectives says many more parents put in requests to check the prospective bride or groom for health problems. "One fifth of our pre-marriage investigations now are regarding health."

Detectives of Secret Eye Detective Services, for instance, keep a tab on medicines brought from the chemist and the specialty of the doctor a person visits, says its managing director D Kumar. "And, it's not just health that's a concern. A lot of our clients want to know the sexual orientation of the spouse-to-be."

An agency in Janakpuri recently handled a case where the bride's parents wanted to know if the groom suffered from a venereal disease. "They wanted us to surreptitiously take blood samples. For such cases we ensure the place where we take the sample is close to a laboratory," said Abhishek Gupta, owner, Max Detectives.

In the U.S. a marriage license requires the prospective couple to have a blood test. This practice was introduced way back when syphilis was rampant. Should the Indian Government introduce a marriage license, if they don't have it already? Should the government do blood tests on the prospective spouses to check for HIV? I am all for it. For a change this would be a very sane policy, and may help control the spread of this deadly disease that is rampant all over India. It will also help protect the innocent spouse that is currently entering into matrimony not knowing the entire truth about their partner.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Due diligence on prospective life partner.....hmmmm.....a bit late for that Bunny ji. Hamari gadi toh kab ka station chhod chuki hai 😆 Apni toh jaisey taisey, thodi aisey ya waisey kat gayee hai aur aagey bhi kat jayegi janaab-e-aali 😛 😆

Jokes apart. Nice topic. Will be back later with my views. Too tired to write something serious or heavy duty right now 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Due diligence on prospective life partner.....hmmmm.....a bit late for that Bunny ji. Hamari gadi toh kab ka station chhod chuki hai 😆 Apni toh jaisey taisey, thodi aisey ya waisey kat gayee hai aur aagey bhi kat jayegi janaab-e-aali 😛 😆

Jokes apart. Nice topic. Will be back later with my views. Too tired to write something serious or heavy duty right now 😊

Gauriji.

Zhindagi kah "suffer", hai yeh kaisa "suffer" koi samzha nahi koi jaana nahi.

Hai yeh kaisee "dagger", chaalatay hain subb maagar, koi samzha nahi koi jaana nahi.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Personally I think blood tests for marriage license is a good idea. Of course you want a life partner whom you can trust and such test do mildly erode away from the trust. But better to be safe than sorry.

Even if you know each other well and trust enough that none of you have STDs etc, a blood test will also check for other problems and potential problem with childbirth.

Who knows it may even save you from marrying your long lost unknown twin. 😉
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Personally I think blood tests for marriage license is a good idea. Of course you want a life partner whom you can trust and such test do mildly erode away from the trust. But better to be safe than sorry.

Even if you know each other well and trust enough that none of you have STDs etc, a blood test will also check for other problems and potential problem with childbirth.

Who knows it may even save you from marrying your long lost unknown twin. 😉

Haila return_to_hadesji kya doore kih soch hain aap kih. Lugta hain bollywood kah aasar phail raha hain


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Posted: 17 years ago
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Well I guess this is important...
Our Govt has everythin - its nt jus careful and when we talk of marriages...this is important...it will help so much...

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