If your mom is not fair to you SIL then?

If your own mom is not fair to your sister in law, can you trust her advise when it comes to your hubby/spouse? yeah yeah even though she is darl for you, think practical before answering, life is kinna of selfish for all lol

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Originally posted by: raj5000

If your own mom is not fair to your sister in law, can you trust her advise when it comes to your hubby/spouse? NO

yeah yeah even though she is darl for you, think practical before answering, life is kinna of selfish for all lol

It is best to keep those type moms out of personal-married life 😛 Instead of helping they can break your relationship 😳

depends on the situation on wat she's advising..there's no harm in listeng to it..after all she's experienced and wud want the best for her daughter...whether to follow the advise or not is one's choice...

whether my mom is fair or unfair to my SIL..how does that effect on her advise for her daughter? 😕

All I have to say is love is blind.....

There are plenty of mothers who will think nothing of advising their daughters regarding marriage/ in laws relationships, and promptly continue to terrorise their DILs.....

as the kahaavat says...kisi di noo changi nahin, kisi di beti mandi nahin....


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Yeah because she may not care for sister in law, but when it comes to darling daughters best interest is in mind.

Do most DILs treat their MILs as they treat their moms? Would a mom severe all ties with a daughter who doesn't get along with her MIL? Don't know Raj....I grew up hearing "blood is thicker than water".

I would still trust my mom even if she is not on her loving best behavior with my SIL. Thank god do not have to worry on that account though. Both my SILs are so loving and caring that it's next to impossible not to reciprocate the love and affection they shower upon us 😊 God bless them both 😳

I would say that most "good Indian Sub Continent girls" are brought up to treat their MILS better than their Mums. The fact is, most Indian MILS are not "good" and will never treat their DILS like their daughters.

For all lovely MILS out there - you are exceptions to the geberal "Indian Sub Continent" rule

Sorry guys with "Indian Sub Continent" but have to be politically correct.....

No generalizing from me, no sir.. 😆

i am not really sure!! i dont think i would!! may be i will just listen to her but at the end of the day i will do wat i think is right!

I dont know... I have always been independent in taking the decisions and my parents have also given me that freedom to choose what I want to do, atleast in case of my career and studies.. Never has my mother given me advice nor have I ever asked her.. And ya, this maybe more because Im the only daughter..

My maternal grand mother supports her DIL more than her own daughter 😆 She cares for her more because she has to live with her DIL for the rest of the life and if the DIL wishes, she can always ask her MIL to move out of the house.. It depends upon who has the hand over the things.. If its DIL, then the MIL turns out to be a mother.. But in my house, my paternal grand mother has hand over the things and she controls the house than my mother.. Ya, she is unfair to my mother and I always see to it that I always make her understand about things.. Ya, I dont take any advices from her too.. If a person has so much negativity inside, then I dont know how true the person will be.. 😕

Originally posted by: Madmadgirl

I would say that most "good Indian Sub Continent girls" are brought up to treat their MILS better than their Mums. The fact is, most Indian MILS are not "good" and will never treat their DILS like their daughters.

hmmm....I don't think most DILs from Indian Sub Continent are what you feel they are. In fact I have seen well educated girls from real good families go around bad mouthing their MILs unnecessarily. It is the Indian Subcontinent time pass to find faults with in-laws ....especially DIL finding faults with MIL nad vice versa.

For all lovely MILS out there - you are exceptions to the geberal "Indian Sub Continent" rule

😆 well, that makes my MIL an exception then. She is the sweetest person I have ever known...and I have known her for pretty much my whole life😊 I literally grew up playing on her lap. My inlaws and my parents are real good friends😊

Sorry guys with "Indian Sub Continent" but have to be politically correct.....

No generalizing from me, no sir.. 😆

😆😆 yeh MMG kab sey PC ho gayee bhai😆