'some people say u are fat'- VIDYA

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Posted: 17 years ago
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'I am not here to keep everyone happy'

Vidya Balan in a freewheeling chat about being overweight, the criticism that she receives for lack of style and, of course, her relationship with Shahid Kapur

Vickey Lalwani


• You are constantly being criticised about your weight and dressing sense…

I have become a deaf frog. You know the story of the frog who reached the top simply because he wasn't bothered by people's criticism as he was deaf. He reached the top while the other frogs fell as they were distracted by people's comments when they were competing in a race.

I am amused by the way that television and print media is talking about me. Initially, it used to bother me but how long can I worry? I have really stopped caring.

• Really?

Yeah. If my clothes have become a national issue, then I must mean something. If I didn't matter, they wouldn't be picking on me.

• Is there a possibility that you will change your style of dressing?

No. I am my own person. I am very comfortable in my own skin. I am not here to keep everyone happy. Try to understand me. It could happen that maybe an outfit went wrong, but of late, the kind of criticism I am getting is definitely not constructive.

• But surely, the recent pictures of you shooting the hot music video of Kismat Connection must have harrowed you, especially a media picture which had Shahid Kapur looking at your cleavage and a speech bubble that said, 'I have seen enough of that'…

Look, I am not Hrithik Roshan or Shahid. Moreover, I haven't done a dance like that before. So, I took a few more takes than I would have normally. What's the big deal?

I burst out laughing when I saw Shahid's speech bubble. Is the media so starved to make up news like this? Are we cartoons?

Pardon me for saying this, but didn't that speech bubble hint that you and Shahid are seeing each other?

Why hint at it? People are openly saying that Shahid and I are seeing each other.

• What is your current relationship status with Shahid? Are you and Shahid seeing each other?

Current status? I am fed up of this. I am not seeing Shahid.

• Tell us something more about Shahid.

Shahid is a friend and I won't deny that. But, there's nothing more to it.

• Does he confide in you about his 'friendship' with Sania Mirza?

No. We don't talk about our personal lives. Trust me, we are hardly in touch after we returned from the Kismat Connection shoot in Toronto. Yet people write whatever they want to. (Sighs) What can I do?

• Okay, do you think that your link-up with Shahid will help Kismat Connection?

If you insist, maybe 0.005 per cent. Nothing more. Pehle din hi pata chal jayega picture kaisi hai. Guru did not run because Abhishek Bachchan and Aishwarya Rai were going to get married; it was genuinely a good film.

• You didn't say anything about the talk on your extra kilos.

I don't think that people are talking about my weight. It's my clothes that they are talking about.

• Some people say that you are fat.

I really don't want to say anything about my weight.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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You didn't say anything about the talk on your extra kilos.

I don't think that people are talking about my weight. It's my clothes that they are talking about.

Some people say that you are fat.

I really don't want to say anything about my weight

thats soooooooooo ruuudde on the interviewer's part!
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: loverman40

You didn't say anything about the talk on your extra kilos.

I don't think that people are talking about my weight. It's my clothes that they are talking about.

Some people say that you are fat.

I really don't want to say anything about my weight

thats soooooooooo ruuudde on the interviewer's part!

The interviewer was kinda rude...but i should say he was kinda straight in some cases too!😃

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Posted: 17 years ago
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👏 very good vidya you tell those people you are great the way you are and films are great
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Posted: 17 years ago
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It's great to see someone with alot of confidence, and i agree that the media have not been very kind to her at all.

But on some level Vidya needs to understand that alot of the criticism that she is receiving in regards to her clothes, is coming from her fans and the general public.

Vidya is after all in the film industry, part of which is all about an actor's appearence/glamour, as they important details noted onscreen and off screen.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I'm happy Vidya's not too shaken about the weight thing. My mom said that she's looking a little heavier these days... but I think she looks beautiful neverteless. She may not be super skinny.. but she's so graceful with whatever she has. I think that makes her look even more beautiful. It's something to learn from...
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Posted: 17 years ago
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I like the interview,I like how she answered all the questions without getting to offended. 😊 😉 ❤️
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Posted: 17 years ago
#8
vidya looks great as she is...she doesn't need to loose weight
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Great answers 👏 👏 Vidya is good the way she is 👏 😊
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Posted: 17 years ago
#10
Vidya has infinitely more patience than I would. If some interviewer asked me that, I would have come with some rude comeback. Such as, "What do you mean? When was the last time you looked at yourself in the mirror? I don't think I have anything to worry about."

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