Mannat Har Khushi Paane Ki: Episode Discussion Thread - 42 - Page 7

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

Neetu instigated Vikrant and he directly served legal notice to Mannat. Just few hours and my man went extremes. The same woman has been constantly triggering, berating, threatening, insulting, making Dhairya feel small for so many days and yeh react bhi naa kare?

But why are you blaming Mannat? She was always like this — weak in the knees for Vikrant.

DK is also listening to Yashika now. I think all vamps have hipnotic powers. How come a strong man like DK also starts listening to Yashika's crap? Knowing that Yashika just plotted against him? He is made dumb within a day. Actually he was shown NOT falling for malla and yashika in previous episodes, but when mannat herself is showign signs, he is getting freaked out.

I agree he is wrong if he places mannat over dua. Till now we dont see that, do we. It is shown that he is more worried about losing dua, BECAUSE mannat is weak for vik. He knows that mannat still loves vik. He even told that to her, but mannat is the only way for him to have dua. I still think, a decent convo would have placated him. His arc is natural for slowly cutting off ties...and moving on! Instead of making Vik utter those dialogues of "wanting to become like DK", they could have shown him become like his brother and DK remaining the same would have been perfect redemption arc for vik. keep DK positive and elevate Vik. simple.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I will not give my child to anyone...no parent will right? bhai mare, koi mare... why will i part with my kid. i can only trade a part. DK is not willing to trade because he is not trusting anyone. vik did win the case framing. him(neetu did). So he is worried. Manvik should win his trust.

why are we forgetting DK is emotionally Dua's dad? they both bonded like that. it is his subjective truth. right?

ifff he wants mannat and dua is medium then yes he is negative. Did it come out like that? Thats what i meant...If it did then negative

But she is not his daughter... its a name sake relationship 😒

And its not about 'giving' the child... its sharing the child... which Vik is ready to do but DK is not!!! Vik clearly said he is fine as Mr. Saluja.. he is not even contesting the dad position.

DK doesnt even say it just for saying it... even when Vik is not going to hear it anyway and hold him accountable!!!

Also just because DK has bonded... are we supposed to forget Vik is the biological father??? Vik is not a random person jisko vo apna bacchha de raha hai... he can share Dua with the biological parent!!! How difficult is this to understand 😕

And its been proven now that Vik didnt actually disown the child... he rather loves the kid too... why should I be bothered if my kid is getting extra love!!!!

Also if Vik is his brother, whats the problem in sharing????? Does Dua trump Vik/Aman in this case??? Aren't both related to him by blood... Vik more closely? So love for Dua trumps blood relation with Vik???

DK doesn't trust Mannat and Ronnie who are openly supporting him against Neetus plans!!!! What kind of support should one expect when Mannat was ready to move to Indore... he didnt even consult her!!!! Even Ronnie is ready to leave Neetu for DKs sake.

Also he said twice... come and fight with me for Mannat... and I am against my brother!!!!

Its not just for Dua!!!!

It is clearly for Mannat as well... since he knows once Dua accepts Vik, Mannat wont have anything to stay with him... and vice versa for Dua!!!

Originally posted by: Moor278

But she is not his daughter... its a name sake relationship 😒

And its not about 'giving' the child... its sharing the child... which Vik is ready to do but DK is not!!! Vik clearly said he is fine as Mr. Saluja.. he is not even contesting the dad position.

DK doesnt even say it just for saying it... even when Vik is not going to hear it anyway and hold him accountable!!!

Also just because DK has bonded... are we supposed to forget Vik is the biological father??? Vik is not a random person jisko vo apna bacchha de raha hai... he can share Dua with the biological parent!!! How difficult is this to understand 😕

And its been proven now that Vik didnt actually disown the child... he rather loves the kid too... why should I be bothered if my kid is getting extra love!!!!

Also if Vik is his brother, whats the problem in sharing????? Does Dua trump Vik/Aman in this case??? Aren't both related to him by blood... Vik more closely? So love for Dua trumps blood relation with Vik???

DK doesn't trust Mannat and Ronnie who are openly supporting him against Neetus plans!!!! What kind of support should one expect when Mannat was ready to move to Indore... he didnt even consult her!!!! Even Ronnie is ready to leave Neetu for DKs sake.

Also he said twice... come and fight with me for Mannat... and I am against my brother!!!!

Its not just for Dua!!!!

It is clearly for Mannat as well... since he knows once Dua accepts Vik, Mannat wont have anything to stay with him... and vice versa for Dua!!!

Both have to basically take 1 step at a time.

Vikrant has agreed to take 1 step. Its now DKs chance.

Neither Vikrant can ignore Dua & DK's reality nor DK can ignore Vikrant's & Dua's reality.

Mannat needs to be the mediator and needs to keep away all the other people from discussion esp Neetu.

The decision has to be mutually now taken by all the 3 people. One cannot solely take decisions not even Mannat because now the situation is different as Dua is aware of the reality.

All your points are correct but I am just saying DKs insecurities are valid. My main point is this

Pakhi used Vinu as a means to the end goal. Is that the goal for DK too and using Dua? I didnt get that feeling till now.

Why he is not sharing is because he is terrified that vik will take away Dua completely, which he almost did with his court case and entrapping him in false case(Neetu ofcourse). Even before that Mannat tried to explain the same to Vik that DK is behaving like this ONLY because he is terrified. Should we not trust mannat also here? DK is blaming mannat that he will lose Dua because of her bias towards Vik. He is clear, isnt he? Look what happened? Whatever mannat is saying to vik in private, she has to say in front of both that dua will remain DK's daughter, then DK will understand. It is all going well, except that DK is shown to be causing damage in his fears, despite Mannat assuing him (future BTS). Which is the way writers want to take unfortunately

How can DK love Dua with "name sake" relationship as boundary. Was he shown to love Dua with that condition? No right? He loved Dua like he is her father. He "became" her father emotionally. If you forcefully break it, it will be traumatic which we have seen already. I can connect to that. DK's emotional reactions are valid. However, for him to THINK, he needs to see thinngs objectively which he is not doing because of his fear of losing Dua.

Vik should wait for him to cool down. That much patience he has to show for his own child. He is not able to do that in action, he utters so many words. That is the problem. He first did court case, and now he put himself in an accident on child's words?! He has to grow up and allow himself and the child sometime. You cant magically become someone's dad emotionally. Thats the issue here. If he takes time, gives time, in action, not words....you can connect to Vikrant. Dua rejected him and he goes and get himself into accident?!! what is the difference between a child and adult? He could have easily gone to Indore...slowly and steadily win Dua back. DK has "capability" to accomodate that. But they want to compromise him for the sake of Vik. Instead of showing Vik growing up.

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Originally posted by: Moor278

But she is not his daughter... its a name sake relationship 😒

You dont love with boundaries do you? It is not shown post leap that DK loved Dua conditionally.

And its not about 'giving' the child... its sharing the child... which Vik is ready to do but DK is not!!! Vik clearly said he is fine as Mr. Saluja.. he is not even contesting the dad position.

He says words. Doesnt do it. He gets into accident because 6 year old rejected him?! All the words he says, he should walk them. He is not given that chance by the writers.

DK doesnt even say it just for saying it... even when Vik is not going to hear it anyway and hold him accountable!!!

Also just because DK has bonded... are we supposed to forget Vik is the biological father??? Vik is not a random person jisko vo apna bacchha de raha hai... he can share Dua with the biological parent!!! How difficult is this to understand 😕

Absolutely not! Because vik made a terrible mistake, and HIS own child is bonded with soemone else, for her mental well being, he has to give time. If he truly loves her, he will give her time. Mannat asked him the same.

DK would have shared, given his current character, ifff vik had slowed down. not gone for court case or gotten into accident.

And its been proven now that Vik didnt actually disown the child... he rather loves the kid too... why should I be bothered if my kid is getting extra love!!!!

Also if Vik is his brother, whats the problem in sharing????? Does Dua trump Vik/Aman in this case??? Aren't both related to him by blood... Vik more closely? So love for Dua trumps blood relation with Vik???

Dua trumps vik, yes. My kid trumps my sister, mother, husband and everyone else. parent-child relationship trumps anything. DK-Dua is not same as Dua-vik. That is what is shown. It is not same as Pakhi-Vinu vs Sai-Vinu. Vinu didnt bond with Pakhi. Vinu had natural inclination for Sai. Also Vinu is means towards the end goal. And the attachment later was mostly psychological fear/obsession. DK-Dua's is not shown YET like that. It is as natural as it can be.

DK doesn't trust Mannat and Ronnie who are openly supporting him against Neetus plans!!!! What kind of support should one expect when Mannat was ready to move to Indore... he didnt even consult her!!!! Even Ronnie is ready to leave Neetu for DKs sake.

Yeah that is gratitude right. Boht mannat and Ronnie are right here. THey are paying back DK. DK would have understood, given his current character, if given time.

Also he said twice... come and fight with me for Mannat... and I am against my brother!!!!

His emotions are running high. His saner brain is not working. He needs time.

Its not just for Dua!!!!

Thissss! I dont see it yet strongly. I didnt watch today's episode yet. Will he choose mannat when given a choice over Dua? Or mannat is just means to have Dua? Or Dua is means to have Mannat?

It is clearly for Mannat as well... since he knows once Dua accepts Vik, Mannat wont have anything to stay with him... and vice versa for Dua!!!

So yeah we are not yet clear. Thats what I am saying, till we are clear, I think he is positive and only behaving out of his emotions. If Mannat is his goal, he is negative.

I cannot believe I will be defending P to you and I told you earlier I dont like post leap Sai... she has taken some questionable decisions... this is one of them.

P had already achieved her means of marrying VC. Even she didnt knew Vinu is the same Vinu she birthed. And when VP marriage happened, P was supposed to have reformed and Sai was dead. P cannot be compared to DK.

Sai never bothered to inform VC of her being alive or she had Saavi. Sai was wrong here in believing VC didnt need to know. Neither was it right to keep Jags around however reformed he was.

But none of this matches the situation in Mannat.

Mannat has said multiple times in front of everyone that DK remains the father. In upcoming BTS she still says it even after Vik has patched up with her.

She says that to Dua when Dua asked about 2 set of fathers... that DK still remains a dad. DK udhar hi baitha hai. Does he think Mannat is lying to Dua then?

Ronnie is openly supporting him.

Vik did file the case but apologized and handed over sole custody to Mannat. He too is content with being only Mr. Saluja. He went against Neetu as well. And he is not contesting the dad place in case its not clear from updates.

No one is asking DK to give up Dua entirely... its treating Mannat and her as his possession which is the problem. And not acknowledging Vik as father.

DK is not consulting Mannat on what she wants. He earlier told her to give a chance to Vik but leave Dua with him... so is it fair for biological mother to give up her rights as well???? One who he has supposedly seen rebuild herself after an intense trauma and for whom Dua is the reason to be alive???

What I meant to say is why cant DK share??? Vik is his brother afterall, he is not a random person... they can all live together... I dont defend Neetus actions... but her point is exactly what all of us make (across FD) ki DK tauji ban ke Dua ke life main kyun nahi reh sakta???? Will he love her less if he is Tauji??? Then he is not Shruti isnt it???

To put another question to you... now that ManVik will patch up and possible marry... you believe DK should move ahead in his life and marry a nice girl himself.

If he has his own progeny... wont it bring out a conflict then??? Between Dua and other child????

Originally posted by: Resham

Aaj ka full episode hospital pe focussed tha.....just what we had seen in entire BTS. The only good part was Vik remembering all his moments with Duman. And seeing them fade away before going into an unconscious state. Then tadaaa..Mannu comes and he again lives for a while. Khoon bhari Maang.

And total filmy moment when his heart stops, Mannu adjusts her maang ka Sindoor/khoon and Viks heart beats again.....

More than the episode I am interested in precap. Manvik love confession. Bas.

I am back to check on our bs shows and their TRPs 🤣. Thanks a lot for your constant tags despite my absence..I took a much-needed break and feel totally refreshed !

Great! The TRP dropped, so Mukta finally got the sense to reunite the leads. Hopefully, there will be no cheating the viewers this time.🤣🤣..

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Originally posted by: Moor278

Sai never bothered to inform VC of her being alive or she had Saavi. Sai was wrong here in believing VC didnt need to know.

I actually like post leap sai turning into mature mother living solely of her kid. The moment she leave chavan house she has no looking back n she give birth to her only blood family in the world. She give birth alone with struggle n challenges raising her kid alone in small village otherwise how could sai give birth if she was in chavan house knowing how she got her miscarriage n first born happen in house. Also sai is living not far place from virat n he is ips officer he can find her if he search for her carefully instead of just saw her piece of clothes n think she dead. Jagtap is neither there when sai give birth nor he is her kid papa nor she forgive him he never step inside sai home in kankavli. Only stay outside n secretly become her kid friend till her daughter revelation as post leap sai forgive everyone n only living for her kids.she is human sometime make mistakes thinking it's best decision for her kids. Here dua has adopted grandparents n uncle staying with mannat n raising dua together. So cant be compare different character different situations.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

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Maine bhi vahi kaha... both shows are different, so are the characters and their situations...

P cannot be compared to DK either.