Seher Hone ko Hai: Episode Discussion thread 1 - Page 106

My two cents on the whole if it's love or not conversation.

They have been married for a month and possibly known each other for about a month so total of 2 months. So is love possible in this short time?

I believe so. Some people find love young and it lasts decades. Some wait and never find it.

Initially it was definitely curiosity from both of them. They had never encountered someone like the other. After that it was basic human decency, basic care you would offer another human who was in trouble or pain.

Mahid fell for her first. I think as he was around her; even though his grandfather made the decision for the marriage; he could see a future with her. Mahid has had time to sit with these feelings and they are run deep. Seher on the other hand fell harder. She really didn't get to know Mahid till after the marriage especially the essence of who he is and what makes him tick.

I think Seher thought he cared for him deeply but she didn't think it was love till Kausar said it. Kausar called it puppy love but the depth is much deeper and I don't think Seher fully understood her own feelings till the Nazima drama.

So in short, I think the love is real and they just didn't understand the depth of it till it was too late.

Kausers character has been written in a very negative way, the writer seems to be confused. When she needs any help she will keep on saying shukriya and next moment she shows her real side whether its the case of Dr Fareed or anyone.

When she heard mahid talking to Dr Fareed couldn't she understand the emotional side of mahid when he says seher is not his wife as she is just 16 and on that context he is giving divorce to her.

I dont think she is just being protective for her daughter I feel she is obsessed, controlling, and a lady who takes everyone's help but wants to show herself as a traumatized woman.

Being a mother couldn't she realise mahids pain seeing his face. Couldn't she see despite of giving divorce he stood by seher all the time though she insulted him and asked to leave

Did u all check her dialogue aapne walime ke din mujhe seher se door rehne ko kaha tha aaj main aapko keh rahi hu. It shows she was just waiting to give it back despite seeing mahids help and concern towards seher.

When she can make seher study without others letting know why can't mahid do the same.

Seher after her trip to aligarh also had told kauser that mahid gave her money to buy books.

Writers plz dont spoil the show by showing such negative side of a lady. Kauser uses her brain in everything couldnt she When fufi told her about mahid and Nazia. She actually got what she wanted and thus used it as he wants.

They have love. But they shouldn't, sp it will destroy Mahid completely. One side his past, mother and etc, dadajaan's dream to make him the next mufti. He has like pile of responsibility, wipe the bad name on his head which he thinks was his mother's fault. With that enormous mental pressure which he can't control. Now Seher is a plus. With her comes Kawsarm , seeing her daughter's action she blames Mahid...as her daughter is a child to her. Now she becomes another extra headache. Now Mahid calls for next trouble ...Nazima. If they marry according to Muslim law he can't pretend as her husband but not fulfill husband's duty. He has to. If he was an ordinary Muslim boy...okay ..Chalo. But he is pious. How can he deny Nazima after marriage? Pretending after saying Kalema? Qabool?That will a sin. Pretending husband wife if not married properly will be another worse sin. The guy is already a psychological patient. His brain is going to burst very soon.

What's to Seher? When did they promise anything? Nazima was there she knew it. She didn't even ask a clarification from Mahid after seeing them close. Just one sidedly blaming him and creating such a scene that her mother is actually torturing Mahid.

More than other I am feeling bad for Mahidm No matter what path he takes he is the sinner, the criminal.... although he is a victim here. Poor Mahid.

Originally posted by: dreamstrue

Kausers character has been written in a very negative way, the writer seems to be confused. When she needs any help she will keep on saying shukriya and next moment she shows her real side whether its the case of Dr Fareed or anyone.

When she heard mahid talking to Dr Fareed couldn't she understand the emotional side of mahid when he says seher is not his wife as she is just 16 and on that context he is giving divorce to her.

I dont think she is just being protective for her daughter I feel she is obsessed, controlling, and a lady who takes everyone's help but wants to show herself as a traumatized woman.

Being a mother couldn't she realise mahids pain seeing his face. Couldn't she see despite of giving divorce he stood by seher all the time though she insulted him and asked to leave

Did u all check her dialogue aapne walime ke din mujhe seher se door rehne ko kaha tha aaj main aapko keh rahi hu. It shows she was just waiting to give it back despite seeing mahids help and concern towards seher.

When she can make seher study without others letting know why can't mahid do the same.

Seher after her trip to aligarh also had told kauser that mahid gave her money to buy books.

Writers plz dont spoil the show by showing such negative side of a lady. Kauser uses her brain in everything couldnt she When fufi told her about mahid and Nazia. She actually got what she wanted and thus used it as he wants.

When she was shot and in hospital bed Mahid didn't allow Seher to stay with her mother at hospital , where he was shedding tears and etc for his dadajaan. That was so cruel of Mahid. He hates all mothers because of his own mother. And also the teaching his family gave. To him Kawsar is a villain who teaches only wrong to Seher. To him Kawsar is an evil woman.

Now the way he behaved with Kawsar he is getting that back. Nafrat vs nafrat. Hate vs hate.

Sp no mother in law will ever like a son in law like Mahid. Even Father in laws will not like him. All FIL MIL wants a caring, funny, obedient, humble, cute , kind , happy, entertaining son in law. That's a fact. Mahid has none of these. Except his family name and money he is a short tempered abusive man who beats brutally people at street. Police sends him to psychiatrist. Why will anyone like him?