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Posted: a day ago

Originally posted by: MUNNII

I too became soft towards her..

Also I feel she had the hardest journey being not having Father's love .. cornered by family members and locals..her love for nanu and nanu angry with her and bring not able to speak and win his love back ..the guilt after that..hardship faced from around .too tough to imagine...

I feel she wasn't good to express it..

I was able to connect with Pranit stroy more...he expressed his hardship and life more better..it's more relatable to common people..

Bold: I could understand that as well...

So she grew up teaching herself strength instead of softness.She learned to stand.Where others cried freely, she learned to hold back.Where others felt protected, she learned to protect herself.so may be Toughness has become such an integral part of her personality that vulnerability just doesn't come naturally to her...


Pranit, I also loved a lot...very raw, relatable and pure and the way that circle completed with him finally buying a house of his own for his parents..I could get what a big deal it was for someone living his entire life in rented house...


But but for me GK broke something inside me yesterday.

I genuinely ended up crying .. not a little, but hard .. because I resonate with that man on so many levels it almost felt like watching a mirror speak.

The way he talks… the softness mixed with hesitation.

The way he tries to hold back tears with a forced smile because he doesn’t want to make anyone uncomfortable.

The way he slips into awkward humour the moment emotions get too heavy as if cracking a joke will protect him from breaking down.

The way he smiles even when his eyes are grieving.

The way people misunderstand him as “fake” simply because his emotional language isn’t loud, isn’t perfect, isn’t common .. it’s awkward, quiet, messy, human.

Every bit of that… felt personal.

His self-talk... specially..His fear of trusting friends because of past betrayal,

his loneliness outside the family circle,

his emotional dependence on the few people he calls home - his wife, his mother ,his desire to rise high but only if Akanksha is right next to him…

Ahh And somewhere in the middle of all that, I felt as if I were standing there instead of him


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Posted: a day ago

Originally posted by: ScienceBitchYo

BB ney external struggles ka task rakha hi is liye tha k Pranit aur Farhana ko sympathy miley smiley11

Sabse unfair toh Tanya ke saath hua…smiley19

Itne din tak woh bas phekte the, aur suddenly unhe struggles bolne pad gaye..

Waise I feel she had her own struggles too..

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Posted: a day ago

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Bold: I could understand that as well...

So she grew up teaching herself strength instead of softness.She learned to stand.Where others cried freely, she learned to hold back.Where others felt protected, she learned to protect herself.so may be Toughness has become such an integral part of her personality that vulnerability just doesn't come naturally to her...


Pranit, I also loved a lot...very raw, relatable and pure and the way that circle completed with him finally buying a house of his own for his parents..I could get what a big deal it was for someone living his entire life in rented house...


But but for me GK broke something inside me yesterday.

I genuinely ended up crying .. not a little, but hard .. because I resonate with that man on so many levels it almost felt like watching a mirror speak.

The way he talks… the softness mixed with hesitation.

The way he tries to hold back tears with a forced smile because he doesn’t want to make anyone uncomfortable.

The way he slips into awkward humour the moment emotions get too heavy as if cracking a joke will protect him from breaking down.

The way he smiles even when his eyes are grieving.

The way people misunderstand him as “fake” simply because his emotional language isn’t loud, isn’t perfect, isn’t common .. it’s awkward, quiet, messy, human.

Every bit of that… felt personal.

His self-talk... specially..His fear of trusting friends because of past betrayal,

his loneliness outside the family circle,

his emotional dependence on the few people he calls home - his wife, his mother ,his desire to rise high but only if Akanksha is right next to him…

Ahh And somewhere in the middle of all that, I felt as if I were standing there instead of him


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GK was also emotional… he was able to express it properly. Glad he did it and didn’t hold back..

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Posted: a day ago

Originally posted by: MUNNII

Omika dear..we missed your updatessmiley9

I don't think Pranitwa going to pick bag..

Waise did they have bag option every year??

Not every year they do but they are very chalak bro 😎

I hope this year it was only Car no more Bags or any other goodies !

Just winner 🥇

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Team Gaurav

Posted: a day ago
The trophy is so ugly
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Posted: a day ago

Originally posted by: MUNNII

GK was also emotional… he was able to express it properly. Glad he did it and didn’t hold back..

Yeah....pura season HMs tried to decode GK's personality, but I hope yesterday they understood why he is the way he is...why he is so guarded..❤️

Even Amaal...

I am genuinely saying this without any intention to criticize him unnecessarily but he just doesn’t know when to speak and what to speak..

I completely agree that Gaurav, Farhana and Pranit’s journeys probably connected more with middle-class audiences. Their graph feels relatable -struggle, setbacks, slowly rising, working without shortcuts. But at the same time, people could have understood Amaal’s journey as well.

If the audience could empathize with someone like Deepika Padukone talking about her depression, why would they not understand Amaal? Pain is pain. Struggle is struggle. Mental health doesn’t differentiate between backgrounds.

When you carry the burden of a legacy on your shoulders and battle your own personal demons at the same time… the journey stops being just a journey. It becomes a war. Every step feels heavier, every expectation feels louder, every doubt feels sharper.Because at the end of the day, no matter where you come from, the purest dream remains universal - to see your parents’ eyes fill with pride when they look at you...


But where Amaal really went wrong for me was Saying things like “acche script likhenge” to Gaurav or “acting kar rahi hai” to Tanya - that was simply not needed...

You don’t say these things, especially when you yourself come from a far more privileged background in terms of access, connections, exposure, and opportunities.

On one side, you had GK opening up about hitting rock bottom literally standing at a point where he felt life collapsing around him. A man who had to compromise on his passion and take up projects he didn’t even want to do just to ensure financial stability for himself and his family. That is raw struggle. That is survival.

And on the other side, you have Amaal , a man who, even in his darkest phases, still had Salman Khan, an entire musical lineage, and even the luxury of staying in New Zealand to reset his mental health, was mocking it calling it "fake". That’s not his fault - privilege is not a sin but mocking someone else’s grind while having such a strong safety net behind you will always look insensitive, especially in front of a middle-class family audience.

I understand his urge to establish the narrative, to for GK being "Fake or undeserving" in the finale week, to present his own version of truth. That’s the game. Everyone does it.


But there is a time and a place for everything.

And yesterday was definitely not the place..


It's what I personally felt...I saw few comments again doing same thing like "nepo would not understand outsider's struggle" etc etc....which is unfortunate as his struggle was also Real...I felt bad when he was saying that there were days he wished to not wake up....and cried..

Baas this is what I felt

Edited by asmitamohanty - a day ago
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Posted: a day ago



Trophy bhi Trophy lene walon se twin kar rahi hai

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Posted: a day ago

Originally posted by: Deviant_Pixel

Amaal gifted farmhouse smiley37.

Aur bata bhi diya tv pe ... Bilkul hi gadha hai

Kuch nahi seekha is ney GK aur PM sey k sympathy kesey leni hai

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Posted: a day ago

Originally posted by: asmitamohanty

Yeah....pura season HMs tried to decode GK's personality, but I hope yesterday they understood why he is the way he is...why he is so guarded..❤️

Even Amaal...

I am genuinely saying this without any intention to criticize him unnecessarily but he just doesn’t know when to speak and what to speak..

I completely agree that Gaurav, Farhana and Pranit’s journeys probably connected more with middle-class audiences. Their graph feels relatable -struggle, setbacks, slowly rising, working without shortcuts. But at the same time, people could have understood Amaal’s journey as well.

If the audience could empathize with someone like Deepika Padukone talking about her depression, why would they not understand Amaal? Pain is pain. Struggle is struggle. Mental health doesn’t differentiate between backgrounds.

When you carry the burden of a legacy on your shoulders and battle your own personal demons at the same time… the journey stops being just a journey. It becomes a war. Every step feels heavier, every expectation feels louder, every doubt feels sharper.Because at the end of the day, no matter where you come from, the purest dream remains universal - to see your parents’ eyes fill with pride when they look at you...


But where Amaal really went wrong for me was Saying things like “acche script likhenge” to Gaurav or “acting kar rahi hai” to Tanya - that was simply not needed...

You don’t say these things, especially when you yourself come from a far more privileged background in terms of access, connections, exposure, and opportunities.

On one side, you had GK opening up about hitting rock bottom literally standing at a point where he felt life collapsing around him. A man who had to compromise on his passion and take up projects he didn’t even want to do just to ensure financial stability for himself and his family. That is raw struggle. That is survival.

And on the other side, you have Amaal , a man who, even in his darkest phases, still had Salman Khan, an entire musical lineage, and even the luxury of staying in New Zealand to reset his mental health, was mocking it calling it "fake". That’s not his fault - privilege is not a sin but mocking someone else’s grind while having such a strong safety net behind you will always look insensitive, especially in front of a middle-class family audience.

I understand his urge to establish the narrative, to for GK being "Fake or undeserving" in the finale week, to present his own version of truth. That’s the game. Everyone does it.


But there is a time and a place for everything.

And yesterday was definitely not the place..


It's what I personally felt...I saw few comments again doing same thing like "nepo would not understand outsider's struggle" etc etc....which is unfortunate as his struggle was also Real...I felt bad when he was saying that there were days he wished to not wake up....and cried..

Baas this is what I felt

Yeah because staying in NZ is the cure for depression smiley5

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Team Amaal

Posted: a day ago

Amlu is so humble ke apney sarey privilèges board per hi likh diye

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