Why Abhira will eventually forgive Armaan?

I am predicting Abhira will forgive Armaan eventually and will end up with him, based on her ever forgiving personality and perpetual love for Armaan:

When Abhira was introduced in the beginning of Gen 4, we all thought she is another Sai Joshi. She was shown to be feisty and overly talkative and fixated over being a lawyer, so we didn't really expect her to have such a big, bleeding heart where she forgives everyone or more accurately doesn't get mad at people even when they do the most vile, horrible things to her.

Case #1: Vile Vidya: She has been extremely horrendous and abusive to Abhira, derailed most of her marriage, has been the cause of her brother's accident and subsequent disability, never ever even apologized for her actions, separated Shivani and Armaan, don't forget how she cursed Abhira and Armaan and taunted Abhira for her infertility, and has Abhira ever even talked back to her? We compared Abhira with Anupama, but at least Anupama admonishes Baa, gives her paanch panno ka bhaashan every episode, but here Abhira does not say anything. No matter what Vidya says or does, she will always be her maa.

Case #2: Dadisa: Dadisa has also not spared Abhira and also never apologized for her actions. Abhira has definitely been meaner to Dadisa than Vidya, yet she still clings to her. Even after knowing that dadisa separated Armaan and Shivani, she didn't tell Armaan because she didn't want to break the family. When they moved back, she happily celebrated dadisa's birthday. Dadisa instigated Ruhi, called Abhira irresponsible and stupid for pretending to be pregnant, said she can never be pookie's maa, but Abhira didn't care. It's like nothing fazes Abhira, she just became closer to Dadisa by the end.

Now after the 7 year leap, Abhira who was not even treated or regarded as bahu as become Dadisa's and Vidya's beti. Abhira who could have left the city and established her career, stayed back and took care of the oldies. Abhira who found them work and helps them so they can live on some scraps of pride. Abhira who never abandons family.

Abhira was never angry at her mom for hiding so much about her past, never angry at the Goenkas for casting out her mom, never angry at Ruhi after they made up after the wedding. No matter what Ruhi said about her mom, in the pregnancy track for BSP, she never insulted her or talked back. All she wanted was everyone to love her. Abhira's endless patience did pay off though. Ruhi and Abhira became close as sisters after BSP and Pookie tracks and the Ruhi got to know the truth of the childhood incident and gracefully accepted it. Abhira got the Goenkas love, she got her brother Abhir.

Even now, she made the oldies go for Krish's engagement because for her, he is her little brother no matter what venom he spews or what actions he took. She has no anger for anyone, then how does one expect her to have anger for Armaan? Right now, she is pain solely because Armaan is engaged to Geetu otherwise she would have accepted him back in a heartbeat.

I don't want to delve in how many times Abhira has forgiven Armaan, that's been done many times in this forum but instead lets talk about why Abhira will forgive Armaan.

Because Armaan has her precious Pookie. Losing a baby, is the worst thing for a parent. Even worse than the baby dying. In Pookie's worse case scenario, aside from being dead, she could have been sold to human traffickers and raised in a brothel. Or she could have been in a bad orphanage, and sexually and physically abused. Best case scenario, taken in a good orphanage and adopted by a decent couple. But then even if Abhira found her Pookie, and she was adopted, how would she get her back?

At least now Pookie has been raised safely by her biological single father Armaan. Right now, Geetu is not her mother and she knows she's not her real mother. It would have been different if Armaan had married Geetu 7 years back just like it was the case of Akshara and Abhinav. Here there is a still a chance for Pookie and Abhira to bond as mother and daughter. However the chance lies utterly in Armaan's hand. Even if Abhira fights custody for her daughter, Pookie would not choose her over Armaan. I do expect initially after learning Abhira is her mom, she would dislike her for separating her from Geetu. She will not instantly bond with Abhira and will miss Geetu. Only Armaan can help Abhira get her Pookie back. I am not sure how Anshuman will fit in this scenario expect they can drag Maira is Pookie's revelation and show Abhira deciding to marry Anshuman but at the end she learns Maira is Pookie.

Ideally, Abhira would happily get rid of Armaan forever and move on with Anshuman. But cvs have not written Anshuman as Anuj. At least I don't see his screen presence as that. Abhinav was a far more memorable cameo and yes it was his chemistry with Abhir and Akshara-Abhinav-Abhir chemistry as a family that really clicked. But I don't see any chemistry between Abhira and Anshuman except he is a really nice guy and fell for Abhira in a few weeks.

Holding grudges and gussa karna abhira ko atta hi nhi hai

Dekhna BSP reveal mai jo drama tha was besa hi kuch hoga or lamba kichenege par end mai toh inka silly girl silly boy he suru hojayega

Thx for the summary , its summed up well.

Yeah there r 99% chances that abhira is going back to garbageman ..

But your last line tells why.. chemistry toh anshuman se nai hai so she shouldn't choose a respectable life nai ?

It will be the end of her character if she goes back to the same man who abused her and stripped her motherhood from her without any fault of hers. As much as I may troll Anupamaa, at least she never went back to Vanraj and accepted him as a husband after he cheated on her. Ideally, the only relationship she should keep with Armaan is him being her Bacchi ka Pita not as her husband.

But I see a lot of potential in anshuman & abhira , not only chemistry wise but plot wise. I dont want to see sensual scenes & frankly , if they write anshuman well & not flip him from time to time, they will achieve this also..

There is no chemistry or biology in anupama show , still its running at top position for years.

Imo chemistry b/w abhiman was nill bata sannata to begin with so I don't understand why chemistry will be the reason to keep them together...ultimately its the ph wish how they wanna go about it ..

Sai joshi herself became doormat for her abusive husband.

Abhira is only talks no actions from beginning. She is obsessed with armaan. Can't leave him no matter what he does.

Originally posted by: Sparkle232

Sai joshi herself became doormat for her abusive husband.

Abhira is only talks no actions from beginning. She is obsessed with armaan. Can't leave him no matter what he does.

Hope toh 0.1% hi hai but still...as of now she doesn't know anything abt the big kaand that arman pulled 7 yrs bk .she just knows he left her bec she was negligent mother , 7 yrs later he proposed another woman and now they're divorced ..so ab bhi self blame chal raha hai in her mind ..

Originally posted by: Krinya

But I see a lot of potential in anshuman & abhira , not only chemistry wise but plot wise. I dont want to see sensual scenes & frankly , if they write anshuman well & not flip him from time to time, they will achieve this also..

There is no chemistry or biology in anupama show , still its running at top position for years.

Imo chemistry b/w abhiman was nill bata sannata to begin with so I don't understand why chemistry will be the reason to keep them together...ultimately its the ph wish how they wanna go about it ..

Also chemistry is a very subjective point. The ones we see chemistry in might not be the same for others. I have seen many who claim Sam and Shez had more chemistry than Sam and RoPu and vice-versa. So all this does not matter at all. Like you said, if they write Anshumaan well (which they have so far), he'll make an excellent partner for Abhira. It is the character consistency and arc that are important. Going back to a man like Armaan would be the end of Abhira's character.

Originally posted by: Tani16

Ideally, Abhira would happily get rid of Armaan forever and move on with Anshuman. But cvs have not written Anshuman as Anuj. At least I don't see his screen presence as that. Abhinav was a far more memorable cameo and yes it was his chemistry with Abhir and Akshara-Abhinav-Abhir chemistry as a family that really clicked. But I don't see any chemistry between Abhira and Anshuman except he is a really nice guy and fell for Abhira in a few weeks.

DKP has been very careful in not to introduce any more Anuj or Abhinav. They won’t give any strong scenes to Anshu. They won’t be able to manage both Anshu and Armaan then. Either Anshu would become a table or a villain and eventually would exit. It would be good for the character. Abhira would never move on and both of them should ruin each other’s life instead of others. After all they are a match made in hell