Savi's turbulent life

Hlo everyone

I am not a regular viewer of this show....just an on and off viewer.The recent changes in the show had me shocked so I could not stop myself from writing.I am really very much disappointed with the makers for trying to pair Savi with someone else for the third time ...I mean how many times will her husband die with whom she had had true love just to move on and than call her new husband her true love .People who really believe in marriage and relationships should not watch these kinds of shows. I have seen people in my life who have moved on and I even seen people who could never move on because according to them....when u truly love a person u keep on loving them even after death....u wait to one day meet them in heaven.

Well regarding savis life i.think it's trully traumatic and the makers lost the plot during the ishaan savi story itself . Everything after that din make sense to me .The rajat savi story was fine but I could never accept rajat and savi still young being parents to two .Plus they made a mockery of the upsc angle .Dabh showed upsc journey so nicely .Here it was not even a plot device but a joke actually.However regarding Loving someone .The idea that love happens only once that's a folly and not true .Human beings evolve and so does love.The one and only mostly dosent exist and is true in very very rare cases.Atleast the people I have seen around me.Most don't get married to their college partner .That dosent mean they don't date later and do not fall in love again .They do.

I am not saying love can't happen more than once...I am just saying that when people love too much they take a very long time to move on ...with Savi Rajat it was still understandable as Ishan had died a long time back.... but I doubt this time they will show any time leap.In my life I have seen people moving on fast after their husbands death but she herself had told later that she didnot have a very good relationship with the husband.Sorry I am not being able to relate to this storyline in the emotional level.

Don't compare college love with marriage.....marriage is a different ball game...it has very strong emotions attached to it

No that's not true in india . Marraige in India has almost zero to no emotions .It's a social setup .Men will look for prettier,virgin women who can look after their families and women want the highest earning man in the room .So no marraige is social setup basically a trade where both sides weigh in their social standing and both sides want to get the best out of it .The only reason it's easier to breakup than a divorce is the law .Divorce laws are cumbersome and the man looses a lot of money and the women looses economic stability .Love and marriage especially in India has no correlation at all. barring the few good love and arrange marriages which too have a strain owing to over involved in-laws. Although on the first part I agree ,savi took time to move on from ishaan which made sense coz she was a orphan and felt some stability with him even though ishaan was a terrible husband but a good human being . Regarding rajat well ,yes he was the father to her children so I do agree she might take time to move on .However there's another angle the priority here will be her children if sai somehows starts seeing neel as a father figure savi might get into a marriage of compromise with him ..And if neels treatment of her children is really good she might even start feeling for him. Honestly I could never understand how the hell did savi fall for ishaan .Ishaan was at best her mentor and a good human

.He showed no traits whatsoever of a romantic partner . Regarding rajat, well he abused her multiple times but maybe he was good husband off camera .

Maybe Neil will prove to be the perfect husband for her .....all her previous husband's had some or the other fault...maybe that's why Savi's story continues ... .trying to see the show in a new light.....but I do not agree with the first part of your comment,painting indian marriages in a complete negative light is not correct .I myself had a broken marriage but still do not agree with your analysis as I have seen enough happy couples in life.

Good that you have set clear boundaries....most divorces happen in india because of inlaws

Originally posted by: Sukorameni

No that's not true in india . Marraige in India has almost zero to no emotions .It's a social setup .Men will look for prettier,virgin women who can look after their families and women want the highest earning man in the room .So no marraige is social setup basically a trade where both sides weigh in their social standing and both sides want to get the best out of it .The only reason it's easier to breakup than a divorce is the law .Divorce laws are cumbersome and the man looses a lot of money and the women looses economic stability .Love and marriage especially in India has no correlation at all. barring the few good love and arrange marriages which too have a strain owing to over involved in-laws. Although on the first part I agree ,savi took time to move on from ishaan which made sense coz she was a orphan and felt some stability with him even though ishaan was a terrible husband but a good human being . Regarding rajat well ,yes he was the father to her children so I do agree she might take time to move on .However there's another angle the priority here will be her children if sai somehows starts seeing neel as a father figure savi might get into a marriage of compromise with him ..And if neels treatment of her children is really good she might even start feeling for him. Honestly I could never understand how the hell did savi fall for ishaan .Ishaan was at best her mentor and a good human

.He showed no traits whatsoever of a romantic partner . Regarding rajat, well he abused her multiple times but maybe he was good husband off camera .

In ITV no husband is green flag. If savi was sane, she could have left her first two husbands when they were toxic to her. Instead she loved them, made baby with one. She needed them to die to move on with another man. So what if neil also turns out toxic. Will she wait for him to die to move on with another green flag?

Nothing wrong in moving on and finding love.

But moving on to another as soon as previous partner's death is mockery.