YRKKH BTS, SM updates & Spoiler Thread #89 - Page 61

Originally posted by: enigmaticw

phir bhi apne biwi ko alimony dene ke liye bura maan jata hain

uska psychology toda weird hai

Originally posted by: dilkyakare1

how manyu fans can bring up words like infertility when the man threw out his wife after a miscarriage is beyond me but alas

It's ok. It's an open forum everybody has the right to have their opinion.

Yes, Gen 4 leads might be the worst of the lot. Probably all the previous leads were better But I still love them and root for them. Only Rishta couple I like apart from Naksh.

For all their greatness, I somehow could never root for Kaira, Abhira, or AKshnav. I always preferred Abhir-Abhinav over the couple dynamics

https://x.com/medico708421043/status/1885511822843011295?t=hQbo7-Gpa2esG1KPTApPOg&s=19

Aaj koi flashback aur dreams nahi aaya

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

No "Kabhi sensible baat bhi kar liya kijiye. Aapko toh bas mauka chahiye Abhira ko blame karne ka" was telling her off. " ABhira s infertility is our private matter" is telling her off

Anyways, I am not justifying Armaan. He is being a jerk now. I just want a good redemption track for him

If you really think ABhimanyu was better. Good for you

It's not about who is better or who is worst. Abhimanyu also redeemed. He suffered for 6 years.

Armaan victimizes himself even after being worried about maa ka sapna, elaborated revenge plan to make Abhira suffer. Armaan took revenge on Abhira even after being in love with her, after seven vows most of all after sharing pain of losing a child. But that's a casual husband-wife angst revenge. Nothing to be condemned.

Naira punished Kartik for character asssassination by faking her death and keeping their child hidden from him for 5 years.

Akshara punished Abhimanyu by depriving him of child and moving on.

Abhira punished Armaan, by saying u are not angry, another man putting gajra on me. When he accused her with divorce tak ka toh intezaar kar leti. He objected to another man putting gajra, but Abhira's selective hearing. No wonder nobody could defend her character.

Armaan framing Abhira for bribery is considered a trivial mistake by many that's the problem. Him supporting his mother even after character assassinating Abhira is not normal.

Criticizing people for defending Abhimanyu for WD after losing 2 close one's, but defending Armaan after framing Abhira for bribery, defending Armaan for supporting his mother after character assassination of his wife. Kya baat hai!

@bold It wasn't a private matter for 3 months of curses, mistreatment and abuse, but when she actually got pregnant, it became a private matter.

Originally posted by: HayatMurat101

It's not about who is better or who is worst. Abhimanyu also redeemed. He suffered for 6 years. Armaan victimizes himself even after being worried about maa ka sapna, elaborated revenge plan to make Abhira suffer. In this track, Armaan's character didn't even suffer for a day as his tone changed the very next day. Armaan will sacrifice his love thinking he doesn't deserve her is just fan's fantasy. He is too absorbed in self-pity even after being extemely brutal towards Abhira. He won't ever sacrifice his love to liberate her from his toxic family or to redeem.

Armaan, the most supported and justified ML among all generation, took revenge on Abhira after falling in love with her, after seven vows most of all after sharing pain of losing a child. But that's a casual husband-wife angst revenge. Nothing to be condemned.

Naira punished Kartik for character asssasination by faking her death and keeping their child hidden from him for 5 years.

Akshara punished Abhimanyu by depriving him of child and moving on.

Abhira punished Armaan by saying u are not angry for another man putting gajra on me. When he accused her with divorce tak ka toh intezaar kar leti. He objected to another man putting gajra, but Abhira's selective hearing. No wonder nobody could defend her character.

Him framing her for bribery is a trivial mistake for many that's problem. Him supporting his mother even after character assassinating Abhira is not normal. What's the difference in defending abhimanyu for WD after losing 2 close one's, and defending Armaan for framing Abhira for bribery, defending Armaan for supporting his mother after character assassination of his wife.

@bold It wasn't a private matter for 3 months of curses, mistreatment and abuse, but when she actually got pregnant, it became a private matter.

Actually that private dialogue was on Mehendi dayitself right when Vidya started her tamasha. Not after pregnancy. About 3 months then show itself has changed the narrative with an ample amount of fbs.

But that's the point, I don't see anybody justifying Armaan s behavior. Rooting for his redemption. Sure. But not justifying him. Neither did Abhira ever justify his behavior.

Abhimanyu never got a redemption track. While Armaan did. So, he can get another one

But you clearly prefer ABhimanyu. That's your opinion. I will agree to disagree

Originally posted by: HayatMurat101

It's not about who is better or who is worst. Abhimanyu also redeemed. He suffered for 6 years.

Armaan victimizes himself even after being worried about maa ka sapna, elaborated revenge plan to make Abhira suffer. Armaan took revenge on Abhira even after being in love with her, after seven vows most of all after sharing pain of losing a child. But that's a casual husband-wife angst revenge. Nothing to be condemned.

Naira punished Kartik for character asssassination by faking her death and keeping their child hidden from him for 5 years.

Akshara punished Abhimanyu by depriving him of child and moving on.

Abhira punished Armaan by saying u are not angry for another man putting gajra on me. When he accused her with divorce tak ka toh intezaar kar leti. He objected to another man putting gajra, but Abhira's selective hearing. No wonder nobody could defend her character.

Him framing her for bribery is considered a trivial mistake by many that's problem. Him supporting his mother even after character assassinating Abhira is not normal. Criticizing people for defending abhimanyu for WD after losing 2 close one's but defending Armaan for framing Abhira for bribery, defending Armaan for supporting his mother after character assassination of his wife. Kya baat hai!

@bold It wasn't a private matter for 3 months of curses, mistreatment and abuse, but when she actually got pregnant, it became a private matter.

Naira was practically devasted on seeing Vedika as Kartik's wife. This after Kartik told her "Mujhe puchna tha, maine puch liya" about the character assassination thing.

Kartik was emotionally and in one scene even physically cheating on Vedika with Naira. She was equally up for it. Imagine doing that with a man who character assainated you.

I have never seen ABhira justify Armaan s behavior. Neither is she begging him to take her back. She is distort about 2-year-old relationship breaking like any normal person would.

Originally posted by: HayatMurat101

Suwarna was anti-Naira only once in 6-7 years, when she lost her son. Naira hide about his drug addiction, he couldn't be treated on time. Suwarna supported Naira during infertility track and majority of the tracks like a positive mother-in-law. Unlike dayan Vidya who is mostly anti-Abhira and never really supported her. Rajshree was the sherni.

Suwarna was the victim, she lost her son, had panic attacks for 2 years. Here Abhir was victim and Vidya was criminal unlike Suwarna, yet Vidya was shown more traumatized than Abhir. Vidya's trauma of a week ended the time her son got her revenge.

Kartik-Suwarna's bond was criticized. They were bashed by majority during that time. Here Vidya-Armaan's unhealthy obsession is justified by majority, as Abhira has no fans of her own.

Biological parents, adoptive parents or even foster parents can be abusive. Does that mean bending to their demands just because they raised u is justified?

Bending to demands is what makes the rishta toxic..in a healthy relationship one is able to take the opinion , give their opinion , there's support there's trust , there's honesty ..there's backing incase something goes wrong ..in all their rishtas it's just gaslighting , self victimization & zero accountability .

Yes suwarna didn't trouble naira later on but the thing is, goenkas loved naira ..it wasn't off and on..they might be angry with her or not agree with her or not support her but problems between kaira were pretty much bec of their own , and resolved by them..naira jailed luv kush & exposed puru mama still she was the goenka dil & kartik supported her .

Things were different in gen 3 , manjari got a lot of sympathy coz she was a dv victim plus abhim had the protective instinct ..later on she manipulated abhim at times but at crucial moments , he stood by what he believed was correct ..their rishta was far far less toxic than arman vidya ..abhim manjari were over emotional but they also tried to explain each other's pov at times..like when manjari went overboard with abhir after custody , abhim took charge & tried to balance all parties..ma ko bhi samjhaya akshara ko bhi abhir ko bhi ..

It's only in this gen that rishte went so toxic ..it's the extreme but from what I read , other shows are worse 🥸

Originally posted by: Agni_Jytsona

Actually that private dialogue was on Mehendi day right when Vudya started her tamasha. Not after pregnancy. About 3 months than show itself has changed the narrative with ample amount of fbs.

But that's the point, I don't see anybody justifying Armaan s behavior. Rooting for his redemption. SUre. But not justifying him. Neither did Abhira ever justify his behavior.

Abhimanyu never got a redemption track. While Armaan did. So, he can get another one

But you cleary prefer ABhimanyu. Thats your opinion. I will agree to disagree

It means after that dialogue, Armaan let Vdiya treat Abhira his wife like sh*t, because of infertility for months toh dialougebaazi ka kya faida when it didn't stay a private matter for months. Dialogue bolne sey hi Armaan redeem ho jata hai and not by actions. No wonder tum meri ho sab problems ka solution hai.

Nothing matters because Armaan redeemed just before pregnancy track. That also to divorce her and frame her for bribery after baby's death, punishing her for punishing his criminal mother, kya redemption hai. 👏

Narrative change karne sey kya hota hai? Changed narrative key according toh Abhimanyu and Arohi married each other.

According to dialogues Abhira always preferred few people over their rishta but Armaan never preferred Kaveri, Vidya or Rohit over their rishta. Pot addressed kettle black!

Originally posted by: dilkyakare1

how manyu fans can bring up words like infertility when the man threw out his wife after a miscarriage is beyond me but alas

Originally posted by: HayatMurat101

It means after that dialogue, Armaan let Vdiya treat Abhira his wife like sh*t, because of infertility for months. That doesn't matter because Armaan redeemed just before pregnancy track. That also to divorce her and frame her for bribery after baby's death, punishing her for punishing his criminal mother, kya redemption hai. 👏

Narrative change karne sey kya hota hai? Changed narrative key according toh Abhimanyu and Arohi married each other.

According to dialogues Abhira always preferred few people over their rishta but Armaan never preferred Kaveri, Vidya or Rohit over their rishta. Pot addressed kettle black!

Now you are just putting words in my mouth. I have maintained in all my posts that Armaan is behaving like a jerk and he deserves punishment for it. Which I know he will, because the show s narrative has never let him go scott free

Also, even if some of us do root for Armaan why is that so wrong? It's just an opinion. I have come to love Armaan s character in a way I could never to Kartik or ABhimanyu. Yes, maybe the latter two were better. But that hardly matters to me

I will still always root for Armaan s redemption and happy ending for ABhimaan because I like them and I never liked Kaira or ABhira.

Same goes for female leads. Abhira for all her shortcomings will always remain my most favourite Rishta character across all generations. I will always root for a happy ending for her