My 12 Year Anniversary Of Joining This Forum - Page 2

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me Me

I am happy for you but please respond to my IM.

Originally posted by: fazgostoso

I am happy for you but please respond to my IM.

Hey man whats going on

What have you learnt in these 12 yrs on here ? What's the takeaway ?

Originally posted by: mifeva

STOP! Surly_Devil has already kindly requested you stop harassing them and their friends. You have no right to post in this thread based on how you and your friends harassed Surly_Devil.

To beginn with, dear "Beginner", I did not "harass" the member you named even though that member may have felt "harassed" by me.

To end it, I'll report you for the bold part.

poor coworker...there really is something to cry about...

I would agree to apologize if you can quote (with a link) comments of me (and my "gang") where I've "harassed" the member, the "Beginner" names.

In addition, comparing a sexual assault on a woman through rape with the wording of a comment here in the forum is in no way appropriate, imo.

Edit: I also don't find it okay to have such a debate in Maroon's celebration thread of 12 years in IF...

Originally posted by: CallingUOut

... I do not follow your personal drama. That duty is not incumbent on me. What I did see was this thread and this interaction where one user has told you that you have harassed someone. In your own words, you admit that user feels harassed. That is the relevant part here. You admit that user has reason to believe they were harassed because you do not deny that. In which case, the decent thing to do as a human being is to apologize and acquiesce to the user's demands not to interact them again. It's like when a man and a woman are together sexually. Both parties have the right to change their minds about sex. Even if they've begun intercourse, if one party decides they don't want to go through with it now, they have every right to say "stop, I don't want this." And the other party needs to stop. Otherwise that is rape. If the user says you have harassed them, don't argue with them. Just listen and give them the space they asked for. Do not stand there arguing that you will not do such a thing because it makes you as predatory as the rapist....

Well, I only quote the part I'll reply to, but I also tell you that if you continue to engage with me this way in a thread that has nothing to do with what you write about, I won't reply anymore.

bold : "one user" is a "Beginner" (allegedly) but "that user" is a former one (maybe the same as the "Beginner")

bold : Which of the both above is now "that user" and why "they were harassed"??? And no, I didn't admit to have harassed Surly_Devil (not a "them", btw.).

bold : I stopped responding to Surly_Devil.

The rest of this paragraph is on another level which I won't discuss here.

What did change in the forum during these 12 years, Maroon? (or aren't there changes? - I don't mean technical ones, btw.)

Originally posted by: Clochette

What did change in the forum during these 12 years, Maroon? (or aren't there changes? - I don't mean technical ones, btw.)

Sometimes things can get cliq ish

That’s why I’d rather be party of 1 ☝️